i dont see how me posting a specific add saying looking for 2 couples and 2 fems aged between 18-35 is difficult.
i also added i dont want time wasters, and what do i get. people going off on the randomest tangent and acusing me a being agist.
oh and please enlighten me. how does being smug and condescending help anyone?
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i dont see how me posting a specific add saying looking for 2 couples and 2 fems aged between 18-35 is difficult.
i also added i dont want time wasters, and what do i get. people going off on the randomest tangent and acusing me a being agist.
oh and please enlighten me. how does being smug and condescending help anyone?
You didn't post a specific ad, you said a gang bang, but then asked for something which isn't a gang bang - that's why it wasn't specific.
As for the age thing, you're right, no-one should be having a go about that, it's entirely your choice. That's why I never mentioned it at all.
Smug and condescending? Get real. You started with the insults and if you carry on with them, you may find your time here quite limited.
Mal
Warming the Bed
Mal you are being completely out of line here and I hope the powers that be can see that.
I think fs made it quite clear in his response to you that he was letting people know he wasnt interested in any more guys, I also think it was quite clear what he was looking for (i.e. another couple and a single fem) whether gangbang is the right terminology or not I don't think anyone is actualy going to get confused by that.
Your only arguement is that, and its a bad one, the whole rest of this petty arguement stemmed from your first post which was rude and inconsiderate.
if you have a problem with the poster specificaly I suggest you take it to PM.
I think fs made it quite clear in his response to you that he was letting people know he wasnt interested in any more guys, I also think it was quite clear what he was looking for (i.e. another couple and a single fem) whether gangbang is the right terminology or not I don't think anyone is actualy going to get confused by that.
Your only arguement is that, and its a bad one, the whole rest of this petty arguement stemmed from your first post which was rude and inconsiderate.
if you have a problem with the poster specificaly I suggest you take it to PM.
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Mal you are being completely out of line here and I hope the powers that be can see that.
I think fs made it quite clear in his response to you that he was letting people know he wasnt interested in any more guys, I also think it was quite clear what he was looking for (i.e. another couple and a single fem) whether gangbang is the right terminology or not I don't think anyone is actualy going to get confused by that.
Your only arguement is that, and its a bad one, the whole rest of this petty arguement stemmed from your first post which was rude and inconsiderate.
if you have a problem with the poster specificaly I suggest you take it to PM.
Nope, not out of line at all. My post gave advice. I didn't bring in the question of age, just pointed out that he wasn't as specific as he could have been, which can lead to confusion. I was never insulting, although he was. Nothing I have said could be deemed to breach the AUP, although his post could be, even though I haven't gone down that road. So how offering advice can be deemed 'rude and inconsiderate' I have no idea!!!
I don't have a problem with him per se, although I'm not happy about being insulted. If YOU have a problem with me, perhaps YOU would like to take it to PM?
Mal
Sex God
Funstudent, you have a pm read it, and then read the AUP, one more outburst like that and I think you will need to find another site to use
Warming the Bed
NWC, im sure that Mal is a respected member of the site, and as such has been given the benefit of the doubt, but I hope that you can see how his comments are not only unhelpful but also make the forum look bad.
Mal, can I ask why you are being so rude?
I don't have a problem with you, so why are you getting so defensive? I am not attacking, im trying to give some perspective here.
I can see exacly why FS was annoyed, and yes I'll admit, as I have above that I thought he overreacted, but there is no need for your continued baiting, your original post was poorly worded, pedantic and completely unhelpfull to the situation, infact it only served to take the thread off track.
Be the bigger man and walk away instead of bickering like a child.
Mal, can I ask why you are being so rude?
I don't have a problem with you, so why are you getting so defensive? I am not attacking, im trying to give some perspective here.
I can see exacly why FS was annoyed, and yes I'll admit, as I have above that I thought he overreacted, but there is no need for your continued baiting, your original post was poorly worded, pedantic and completely unhelpfull to the situation, infact it only served to take the thread off track.
Be the bigger man and walk away instead of bickering like a child.
Sex God
Gazandsal, I have read this post very closely from the start and do not feel that mal has been abusive, disrespectfull in anyway. He has tried to give some good advice, along with other people who have also tried to help but has had it thrown back in his face.
I am now going to lock this thread, as it is just going round in circles and is starting to get too personal in the 'digs' which are taking place.
If anyone is not happy with the decision to lock, then pm me
I am now going to lock this thread, as it is just going round in circles and is starting to get too personal in the 'digs' which are taking place.
If anyone is not happy with the decision to lock, then pm me
