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I had a nice experience at work yesterday. biggrin
I visited a client's daughter to sort out some problems with her mothers work. As I arrived at the front door but before a rang the bell she opened the door.
'Oh' I said 'were you watching me walk up the drive?'.
' No' she replied 'my teenage daughter saw you. She called down and said you had arrived and that you were smartly dressed and quite good looking.'
Well there it was a little boost to my self esteem, in the opinion of a teenage girl I'm smartly dressed and quite good looking. :D
Has anybody had else had a little boost to the self esteem, recently?
i had someone at college comment on the bulge they could see in my jeans and then i had all the girls staring daydreaingly at it for the rest of the day. "I'm up here girls" I love it
Yesterday I bumped into a female work colleague in the stair case and we got talking. I was saying that I was moving up two floors in the building and at least I would get more exercise. She said I didn't need it. It gave me a warm glow.
Quote by 36openminded
Yesterday I bumped into a female work colleague in the stair case and we got talking. I was saying that I was moving up two floors in the building and at least I would get more exercise. She said I didn't need it. It gave me a warm glow.

I was wearing my harlequins rugby shirt and a rather large breasted lady said"oh I like you shirt,I love rugby players", I offered to swap it there and then but she refused. :cry:
I was told I give a fantastic blow job redface surprisedops:
pink x
I've just been up town driven past loads of lovely ladies and not one of them vomited in repulse on seeing me which is a first and kinda makes me feel good about my self confused
lol
if anyone find's my self esteem i want it cought and shot for being " A.W.O.L " confused
Quote by keeno
I had a nice experience at work yesterday. biggrin
I visited a client's daughter to sort out some problems with her mothers work. As I arrived at the front door but before a rang the bell she opened the door.
'Oh' I said 'were you watching me walk up the drive?'.
' No' she replied 'my teenage daughter saw you. She called down and said you had arrived and that you were smartly dressed and quite good looking.'
Well there it was a little boost to my self esteem, in the opinion of a teenage girl I'm smartly dressed and quite good looking. :D
Has anybody had else had a little boost to the self esteem, recently?

Everyone's nice to each other a Christmas lol :lol:
I had a nice experience at work yesterday. biggrin
I visited a client's daughter to sort out some problems with her mothers work. As I arrived at the front door but before a rang the bell she opened the door.
'Oh' I said 'were you watching me walk up the drive?'.
' No' she replied 'my teenage daughter saw you. She called down and said you had arrived and that you were smartly dressed and quite good looking.'
Well there it was a little boost to my self esteem, in the opinion of a teenage girl I'm smartly dressed and quite good looking. :D
Has anybody had else had a little boost to the self esteem, recently?

Everyone's nice to each other a Christmas lol :lol:
Now that is mean Makaveli smackbottom :smackbottom: , Keeno is basking in a genuine nice comment and you say that...shame on you. Christmas makes me very grumpy...so watch out wink
:wink: pink x
Quote by blueandpink
Now that is mean Makaveli smackbottom :smackbottom: , Keeno is basking in a genuine nice comment and you say that...shame on you. Christmas makes me very grumpy...so watch out wink
:wink: pink x

He can't help it. :lol2:
self esteem lost that years ago biggrin
now i just get the usual jibes when im out
sillyhwoar: look at the tits on THAT (that THAT thing is a girl not a thing)
hump Id giver her one (one what and il decide on that :D )
heres 10p go phone ya mam (get a chat up line thats decent and modern it HELPS)
:love: girl you have just met your mr perfect its me your soo lucky (in whos opinion)
69position your sexy can i shag ya ( banghead )
r they jibes or a little boost of confidence me thinks jibes cos i mainly hear the 1st 3
Quote by dekntan
self esteem lost that years ago biggrin
now i just get the usual jibes when im out
sillyhwoar: look at the tits on THAT (that THAT thing is a girl not a thing)
hump Id giver her one (one what and il decide on that :D )
heres 10p go phone ya mam (get a chat up line thats decent and modern it HELPS)
:love: girl you have just met your mr perfect its me your soo lucky (in whos opinion)
69position your sexy can i shag ya ( banghead )
r they jibes or a little boost of confidence me thinks jibes cos i mainly hear the 1st 3

I think you're beautiful and very sexy. Your bloke is handsome too.
I enjoy your posts too.
Quote by 36openminded
self esteem lost that years ago biggrin
now i just get the usual jibes when im out
sillyhwoar: look at the tits on THAT (that THAT thing is a girl not a thing)
hump Id giver her one (one what and il decide on that :D )
heres 10p go phone ya mam (get a chat up line thats decent and modern it HELPS)
:love: girl you have just met your mr perfect its me your soo lucky (in whos opinion)
69position your sexy can i shag ya ( banghead )
r they jibes or a little boost of confidence me thinks jibes cos i mainly hear the 1st 3

I think you're beautiful and very sexy. Your bloke is handsome too.
I enjoy your posts too.
oh why thankyou self esteem just shot up there (it must work :D ) my posts are just like me a bit daft a bit unimformed but what the hell :D
Well now - generally i'm as thick as a lamp-post when it comes to recognising a come-on in the real world - i put it down to friendliness most of the time - that is until they hit me with a hammer or Mr J calls me blind redface
But last saturday, i had the most amazing comments, from a lady !!!
It turned out that she had deliberately followed me to the toilets, as she had noticed me in a jam-packed pub and had the urge to tell me how sexy and attractive i was :shock:
OMG what an amazing buzz wink
Quote by Juniper_couple
Well now - generally i'm as thick as a lamp-post when it comes to recognising a come-on in the real world - i put it down to friendliness most of the time - that is until they hit me with a hammer or Mr J calls me blind redface
But last saturday, i had the most amazing comments, from a lady !!!
It turned out that she had deliberately followed me to the toilets, as she had noticed me in a jam-packed pub and had the urge to tell me how sexy and attractive i was :shock:
OMG what an amazing buzz wink

Sorry. surprisedops:
I thought you wouldn't mind.
Quote by Juniper_couple
Well now - generally i'm as thick as a lamp-post when it comes to recognising a come-on in the real world - i put it down to friendliness most of the time - that is until they hit me with a hammer or Mr J calls me blind redface
But last saturday, i had the most amazing comments, from a lady !!!
It turned out that she had deliberately followed me to the toilets, as she had noticed me in a jam-packed pub and had the urge to tell me how sexy and attractive i was :shock:
OMG what an amazing buzz wink

it was me in a dress lol
Quote by Kiss
Well now - generally i'm as thick as a lamp-post when it comes to recognising a come-on in the real world - i put it down to friendliness most of the time - that is until they hit me with a hammer or Mr J calls me blind redface
But last saturday, i had the most amazing comments, from a lady !!!
It turned out that she had deliberately followed me to the toilets, as she had noticed me in a jam-packed pub and had the urge to tell me how sexy and attractive i was :shock:
OMG what an amazing buzz wink

Sorry. surprisedops:
I thought you wouldn't mind.
smackbottom I went for a weeee n u were gone :twisted: rotflmao
I was walking past the library desk in my kids school yesterday- and was mistaken for a sixth former! :thumbup:
Quote by winchwench
I was walking past the library desk in my kids school yesterday- and was mistaken for a sixth former! :thumbup:

Were you in uniform? :rascal: :shock: rotflmao
the only nice things i normally hear are about having nice hair.
although a bloke in ireland told me at the weekend, he wasnt really into big boobs but mine were very nice, so i guess thats a compliment, and i did get a pm from someone saying they would like to die in them so i guess i also get them about my chest but thats it.
i think self esteem is something that goes up and down with moods etc but an odd comment can swing it one way or the other
Earthy xx
Quote by keeno
I was walking past the library desk in my kids school yesterday- and was mistaken for a sixth former! :thumbup:

Were you in uniform? :rascal: :shock: rotflmao
Yep.
S.S- that do it for ya?
I've had some very nice comments from someone recently that have made me feel good about myself though I'm not telling you what they said flipa
This morning I was chatting to my best mate and I was complaining about the weight I'd put on recently, saying my arse was a lot bigger. He told me off for being so negative and said there was nothing wrong with my arse as it is and said my figure is better now than it was 12 months ago ( and he should know redface )
kiss to both of them
have a story on the other end of the scale now
just got off the phone from my mam she had a baby last week my 20 year old sister still lives at home and today a different midwife came, mam was in the shed having a ciggie so my sister answered the door and they went into the front room my sister got a shock when the midwife said well get your trousers off i have to check your scar ( it was a c - section birth) my sister was appalled bu this saying its not my baby you biatch
my mother was still laughing when she told me, hows that for a offensive comment
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Double edged compliment -
when I dyed my hair dark after being mousey for years, my colleague said, "Wow thats great, takes 10 years off you, you could pass for 38 EASY!"
I'm 41. sad
Quote by Cherrytree
Double edged compliment -
when I dyed my hair dark after being mousey for years, my colleague said, "Wow thats great, takes 10 years off you, you could pass for 38 EASY!"
I'm 41. sad

I was conditioned to believe that women didn't dye their hair they just 'coloured' it biggrin
Just perved your profile I don't believe you :shock: 41 surely not. Your feet could be 10 years younger than that. :D :D
I was told last week that I look great for me age.... biggrin :D He thought I was a pensioner!!! confused :? :? :? :? :? :?
HERE FOR ALL THAT NEED A BOOST!
Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...
And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...
If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.
And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...
For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.
So always look on the bright side of death
Just before you draw your terminal breath
Life's a piece of shit
When you look at it
Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.
You'll see it's all a show
Keep 'em laughing as you go
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.
And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...
HOPE THAT HELPS
Always makes me smile!
Believe in yourself and like yourself and Bo**ocks to those that don't
X
Was talking to a work colleague about me not being very socialble and wanting to get out socializing more...
They said I was a very sociable person :shock: Clearly confused by this, I asked how that was! They said when ever I am out socially I'm always interacting well with everyone and being very social.
Well that helpped my self esteem. smile I now just need to work on getting out there more! :shock:
Nicely put Argt :thumbup:
I was out and got chatting to this gorgeous 42yr old woman (im 26) and we got on really well and were flirting a bit and ended going back to hers for a night of passion, actually about a 6 hour stint and it was totally amazing smile
Anyway the next morning we were chatting over breakfast and she went on to say that I can pop round to see her anytime and what a fantastic night she had and that in 20 years of marrige with her ex she has never experienced sex like it :shock:
Boosted my self esteem to no end cool This woman is gorgeous and we meet up every couple of months or so now when im back up the road seeing family/friends lol biggrin