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Do I qualify for my 'rottweiler status' yet? :angel:
Oooo I have competition!
I'd be happy to 'play' the judge - purely official of course! :twisted:
How about a mud wrestle ? :P
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sheddy, one of the masquerade balls completely opened my eyes.
i registered as well_busty_baby, and before i'd even made a post, within 5 minutes of activating and showing in the who's-logged-in list, i had 3 pms from blokes who i certainly didn't know from adam, and i guarantee you they didn't know me, cos they might have been a bit more reticent with the come one's if they'd known i was, in fact, a bloke!
hence why many of us are in 'stealth mode' when here in the Cafe. A couple of people have previously had a dig at me for lurking/ stealth moding/ posts come out of no-where because you cant see me in the 'who's online' list - and now you all know why!!
I'll often see someone I know in the list and send an on-spec 'hiya' just cos I know they're there - I tend not to recieve them, which is sad, but a small price to pay if it means I dont get random 'wanna shag' pm's
Sexlightened
I am truly astounded. I can’t make up my mind whether I’m more astounded by the attitude of some males that all it takes is “Fancy a shag?†to meet a woman from a swinging site, or by the fact that having received a “Noâ€, people actually get abusive. So it's relatively common that people actually believe they have a right to demand sex and have their demands met, and are put out when it’s made clear it isn’t going to happen? Incredible. Absolutely incredible.
I would like to think that when after several tries these donkeys get nowhere they give it up and fixate on some other subject, but it sounds like there is no let up so there is probably an endless conveyor belt of new chancers.
I had wondered why the only message I have sent in the few weeks since I rediscovered this site has, so far, gone unread by the couple. But if they receive just a fraction of the number of messages that redpantherman’s friend gets, well, I can see that the enthusiasm for reading messages might wane somewhat.
I had thought that the only unfortunate experience I’ve had of “bad behaviour†- for want of a better expression - was unusual, but I see now it’s all too common. On another site a year or so ago I had a message from a couple to arrange a meet for that same evening. I didn’t see the message until an hour before they were suggesting meeting, and wrote back explaining that there a) wasn’t enough notice and b) the picture supplied showed that the female of the couple wasn’t what I was looking for. For being honest I got negative feedback from them (the site runs a star rating system) and got called a “timewasterâ€. I put it down to one nutter, but it seems like there is a whole sack of nuts out there.
Thanks for revealing the darker side of swinging, Sheddy. You have certainly opened my eyes. :shock:
I would like to think that when after several tries these donkeys get nowhere they give it up and fixate on some other subject, but it sounds like there is no let up so there is probably an endless conveyor belt of new chancers.
I had wondered why the only message I have sent in the few weeks since I rediscovered this site has, so far, gone unread by the couple. But if they receive just a fraction of the number of messages that redpantherman’s friend gets, well, I can see that the enthusiasm for reading messages might wane somewhat.
I had thought that the only unfortunate experience I’ve had of “bad behaviour†- for want of a better expression - was unusual, but I see now it’s all too common. On another site a year or so ago I had a message from a couple to arrange a meet for that same evening. I didn’t see the message until an hour before they were suggesting meeting, and wrote back explaining that there a) wasn’t enough notice and b) the picture supplied showed that the female of the couple wasn’t what I was looking for. For being honest I got negative feedback from them (the site runs a star rating system) and got called a “timewasterâ€. I put it down to one nutter, but it seems like there is a whole sack of nuts out there.
Thanks for revealing the darker side of swinging, Sheddy. You have certainly opened my eyes. :shock:
Sex God
confusingly, some of us have free access and some have to pay, just depends on if you were a member before the site was bought by the new owners.
as for your better half, we could make her PM victim of the week, if she really wants us to (i got 80+ stupid bloody questions to answer in my PM box and i only went away for a few days
) so does she? go on! can we make her PM victm, Pleeezeeeeeee
as for your better half, we could make her PM victim of the week, if she really wants us to (i got 80+ stupid bloody questions to answer in my PM box and i only went away for a few days
) so does she? go on! can we make her PM victm, Pleeezeeeeeee yes please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -her
.... Oh god no... lol she's laughing, not sure she'll probably read a few laugh, get horny, laugh a bit more, get real horny, drag me off the pc satisfy herself then get bored and leave me with the other 79 messages (assuming we get 80). - him
Also asked this on another thread but how do you determine how's posting when as a couple I mean we don't want to get seperate accounts as we want to do this as a couple (and I, him, does most the posting anyhow). Should we like attach something to the ends of what we write or what (as demonstrated)? - him
.... Oh god no... lol she's laughing, not sure she'll probably read a few laugh, get horny, laugh a bit more, get real horny, drag me off the pc satisfy herself then get bored and leave me with the other 79 messages (assuming we get 80). - him
Also asked this on another thread but how do you determine how's posting when as a couple I mean we don't want to get seperate accounts as we want to do this as a couple (and I, him, does most the posting anyhow). Should we like attach something to the ends of what we write or what (as demonstrated)? - him
Sex God
the him and her thing works fine and is used by another couple on here, you could also have a look for a post by osemlover and look at their signature(the bit at the bottom of the posts) explains that T (male gobshite half of the couple) posts most of it and P (deliciously gorgeous female half) reads most of the posts, you could try something similar
Sex God
now you just need to post a pic of her, just like the lovely Miss Osem :rascal:
Sex God
Photoshop is you friend
