Well there i go had a meet and could not get it up and please the lady in question.
very dissapointing Performance
But I cant be the only one, CAN I ?
all sorted now thanks for your advise and comments things back to normal
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all sorted now thanks for advise
Sex God
I admire your honesty, mate :shock:
Sex God
Quote by Robert1961
Well there i go had a meet and could not get it up and please the lady in question.
very dissapointing Performance
But I cant be the only one, CAN I ?
Anyone who says they never have that problem's lying!
Next time'll be better I'm sure!
Good luck!
:rascal: 
Sex God
Was alcohol involved? Common culprit - take it to calm the nerves and it calms everything!
Hope the lady in question was not too judgemental.
Hope the lady in question was not too judgemental.
Orgasminator
I have to say, I admire your honesty. Maybe next time, just go with the thought of meeting up, and maybe nothing more. That way your more relaxed, there's no pressure, and if something does happen even better 
Just my thoughts, but I'm sure your not the only one, so don't worry about it.
Just my thoughts, but I'm sure your not the only one, so don't worry about it.
There wa some drink but not enough to effect things
I have been well pissed before and done better
Meet was ok relaxed, no pressure at all very enjoyable
Hopefully next time things will be differant, with this lady or another
Im going to get over it off to football and going to have a few beers
cheers for comments
I have been well pissed before and done better
Meet was ok relaxed, no pressure at all very enjoyable
Hopefully next time things will be differant, with this lady or another
Im going to get over it off to football and going to have a few beers
cheers for comments
Its a strange situation isnt happened to me a while back..i was with the hottest Lady and was totally aroused the whole time in the pub with her...but the minute i go back to hers ..Nothing!No huge amounts of alcohol had been consumed either.
Luckily things were differant in the morning
It happens to everybody,im sure.
Luckily things were differant in the morning
It happens to everybody,im sure.
Lots of men have this problem, i find more so in clubs where the guy has never had to perform in front of a croud b4, i have had a few guys not be able to perform, must admit it does make you feel a little bad that you can't even get a guy hard but hey happens to the best of us i suppose :lol:
Sex God
i know that if i guy can not get hard, most of the time both parties are thinking they are to blame.
the man thinks he has let the woman down, and the woman thinks she is not desirable enough to keep him going.
this can turn into a bit of a vicious circle if you are not careful as next time u might feel more pressure to "make up for it".
just put it down to experience and belive that it is unlikely to happen again, but even if it does... so what.
if men were meant to be hard all the time... why did god give them tongues?
the man thinks he has let the woman down, and the woman thinks she is not desirable enough to keep him going.
this can turn into a bit of a vicious circle if you are not careful as next time u might feel more pressure to "make up for it".
just put it down to experience and belive that it is unlikely to happen again, but even if it does... so what.
if men were meant to be hard all the time... why did god give them tongues?
Quote by westerross
Hope the lady in question was not too judgemental.
I think most women in this situation are not judgemental, if i meet a guy who can't perform i tend to think it's me, after all if a guys turned on he gets hard dosn't he? so he he can't get hard thats my fault not his and maybe he should have waited till someone it liked came along, but i'm not a guy so don't pretend to know how a guys mind and dick works that just my feeling on the subject
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
if men were meant to be hard all the time... why did god give them tongues?
So we could get a word in edgeways, the 'word' usually being "mmmmmmaaaallllllmmmmfffff"
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
if men were meant to be hard all the time... why did god give them tongues?
Well said Busty, and thank heavens for Honesty.
John
Quote by Robert1961
Well there i go had a meet and could not get it up and please the lady in question.
Just because you can't get it up doesn't mean you can't please her... I usually find my face in her pussy, not only makes her pleased but it quickly dispells any nerves that may have affected my errection. And if she wants something to fill her up a finger or 5 usually works.
There might not be any substitute for a good hard cock... but there are plenty of standins
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Hope the lady in question was not too judgemental.
I think most women in this situation are not judgemental, if i meet a guy who can't perform i tend to think it's me, after all if a guys turned on he gets hard dosn't he? so he he can't get hard thats my fault not his and maybe he should have waited till someone it liked came along, but i'm not a guy so don't pretend to know how a guys mind and dick works that just my feeling on the subject
I guess fault is not really the issue in something like this. It is probably inexplicable. Rarely would it be the woman's fault unless she's being unresponsive and even that can be a question of chemistry. Fact is most guys have experienced it even with a regular partner with whom it is usually fine - so no rhyme or reason. It is just very difficult in a first meet.
Orgasminator
Just out of interest, were you meeting her at the place you mention in the other thread you started today ?
If so, I think you might just have found the reasons you weren't able to rise to the occasion.
As others have already mentioned, whenever it's happened to me I've resorted to other techniques and it hasn't taken to long before my tackle has caught up with my mind. :twisted:
If so, I think you might just have found the reasons you weren't able to rise to the occasion.
As others have already mentioned, whenever it's happened to me I've resorted to other techniques and it hasn't taken to long before my tackle has caught up with my mind. :twisted:
Quote by bhd1976
Just out of interest, were you meeting her at the place you mention in the other thread you started today ?
If so, I think you might just have found the reasons you weren't able to rise to the occasion.
As others have already mentioned, whenever it's happened to me I've resorted to other techniques and it hasn't taken to long before my tackle has caught up with my mind. :twisted:
nope somewhere totally differant
Orgasminator
Quote by Robert1961
Just out of interest, were you meeting her at the place you mention in the other thread you started today ?
If so, I think you might just have found the reasons you weren't able to rise to the occasion.
As others have already mentioned, whenever it's happened to me I've resorted to other techniques and it hasn't taken to long before my tackle has caught up with my mind. :twisted:
nope somewhere totally differant
Fair enough, I thought it worth asking though.
:twisted:
I have failed several times over the years. Usually due to nerves, new situations, drink or having made a bad choice.
Penetrative sex is usually the first objective of new partners and understood if things don't work out first time. However going onto to try advanced stuff to compensate usually makes things more awkward. Okay with experienced swingers etc. but not conventionals starting a romance.
Most of my failures resulted in a re-match and things worked out fine. But some failures were destined to be instantly regretted and put down to experience.
Penetrative sex is usually the first objective of new partners and understood if things don't work out first time. However going onto to try advanced stuff to compensate usually makes things more awkward. Okay with experienced swingers etc. but not conventionals starting a romance.
Most of my failures resulted in a re-match and things worked out fine. But some failures were destined to be instantly regretted and put down to experience.
Quote by Robert1961
Well there i go had a meet and could not get it up and please the lady in question.
very dissapointing Performance
But I cant be the only one, CAN I ?
Don't worry about it Robert.... it happens .... and i'm sure the lady in question wouldn't see it as an aspersion on any future meet you may have..... relax and enjoy...
equi-princess xxx
