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Quote by butters999999
Once more with feeling.........
It refers to my brother and the fact he has a 11inch member and did no how or want to use it. Happily he now has a girlfriend who walks with a limp and a big grin. xxx
thanks butters!
just make every single member of this forum feel completely inadequate why dontcha! ;)n x x x x :P
Sex God
On the subject of meeting up with people you know from your real life I'll repeat a story I've told before about my first visit to a swingers club 
I was sooooooo nervous my first time and had bought a small bottle of vodka on my way there, (Partners doesn't have a licence so you take your own alcohol) It was a Saturday night and really busy and while I was panicking in the car we saw lots of people walking in with carrier bags.
When I'd eventually plucked up enough courage to actually open the car door, a single guy walked in front of us (we were still in the car at this point) with the tell tale carrier bag.......... a salesman from my place of work!!!
I immediately shut the car door again and said there was no way I could possibly go in now. After speaking on the phone to a couple I knew were in there, and having been given a talking to by my partner
I was eventually convinced that I should go in anyway, try to avoid him, and reminded of the fact that we were both there for the same reason.
I did eventually go inside (I think we'd been parked up for about 25 minutes by then!) and I did see him in the lounge area, but I was behind him and I don't think he saw me. If he did, he's never said anything to me - and I've never said anything to him either.
Now that I'm more relaxed with the whole thing after attending a couple of munches and a party, if I was to see him in there again I'd probably talk to him and tell him the story of that night just to find out whether he HAD seen me or not, but I certainly wouldn't bring up the subject at work.
I'm sure that he wouldn't want colleagues to know about his swinging activities any more than I would so I don't really worry about it too much any more. I suppose it's all down to the type of person they are anyway. Some people don't have a problem with telling everyone that they are swingers, others would rather keep it a closely guarded secret. My main worry would be that he was of the former persuasion but I just have to keep faith in the fact that even if he doesn't mind them knowing about HIM, he'd be discreet about MY private life.
I think it's fair to say that the vast majority of swingers would be discreet about other people anyway. I certainly hope so! :shock: :lol:
HTH
I was sooooooo nervous my first time and had bought a small bottle of vodka on my way there, (Partners doesn't have a licence so you take your own alcohol) It was a Saturday night and really busy and while I was panicking in the car we saw lots of people walking in with carrier bags.
When I'd eventually plucked up enough courage to actually open the car door, a single guy walked in front of us (we were still in the car at this point) with the tell tale carrier bag.......... a salesman from my place of work!!!
I immediately shut the car door again and said there was no way I could possibly go in now. After speaking on the phone to a couple I knew were in there, and having been given a talking to by my partner
I was eventually convinced that I should go in anyway, try to avoid him, and reminded of the fact that we were both there for the same reason.I did eventually go inside (I think we'd been parked up for about 25 minutes by then!) and I did see him in the lounge area, but I was behind him and I don't think he saw me. If he did, he's never said anything to me - and I've never said anything to him either.
Now that I'm more relaxed with the whole thing after attending a couple of munches and a party, if I was to see him in there again I'd probably talk to him and tell him the story of that night just to find out whether he HAD seen me or not, but I certainly wouldn't bring up the subject at work.
I'm sure that he wouldn't want colleagues to know about his swinging activities any more than I would so I don't really worry about it too much any more. I suppose it's all down to the type of person they are anyway. Some people don't have a problem with telling everyone that they are swingers, others would rather keep it a closely guarded secret. My main worry would be that he was of the former persuasion but I just have to keep faith in the fact that even if he doesn't mind them knowing about HIM, he'd be discreet about MY private life.
I think it's fair to say that the vast majority of swingers would be discreet about other people anyway. I certainly hope so! :shock: :lol:
HTH
Hey, hey - thread rescued from close hijack there!! And to think I was gonna offer you my dvd of the ENTIRE first series of the L Word butters!!!! Tut 
Thanks Angel!!
Guess I'm just gonna have to cross each one of those bridges one at a single time.
Now I just gotta find me someone to go to a club with as well.
Thanks Angel!!
Guess I'm just gonna have to cross each one of those bridges one at a single time. Now I just gotta find me someone to go to a club with as well.
Sex God
Quote by butters999999
Once more with feeling.........
It refers to my brother and the fact he has a 11inch member and did no how or want to use it. Happily he now has a girlfriend who walks with a limp and a big grin. xxx
Butters~
Hmm. In the event that he ever finds himself single again in the future, fancy introducing yer bruv to Vix & me?! :twisted:
~Reese!
Quote by bluexxx
Really, it isn't a big deal, well not as big a one as you think when you're new.
Okay so I came across this in my weekly trawl of the old posts
Anyone who knows me will also know that I was Shynewbie before I became a Rainbow.
Anyway - the purpose of resurrecting this was to acknowledge just how true these words from Blue are.
My views on meeting any one of you in the real world are now sooo different. It's kinda like having a whole new set of friends and I feel a whole lot more comfortable.
So this is kind of a "thank you" to all those who took the time to answer back then and to all my new "friends" here.
And if any of you newbies out there have the same "concerns" I hope my resurrecting this old post helps you out too xx
Rsxx :color:
Quote by dambuster
Anyone who knows me will also know that I was Shynewbie before I became a Rainbow.
Rsxx :color:
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: Yes I was Dammie - didn't you know?
:lol: 
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows
Really, it isn't a big deal, well not as big a one as you think when you're new.
Anyway - the purpose of resurrecting this was to acknowledge just how true these words from Blue are.
... it is a terrible thing for a man to find out suddenly that all his life he has been speaking nothing but the truth.....
:lol: :lol: :lol: 
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
Really, it isn't a big deal, well not as big a one as you think when you're new.
Anyway - the purpose of resurrecting this was to acknowledge just how true these words from Blue are.
... it is a terrible thing for a man to find out suddenly that all his life he has been speaking nothing but the truth.....
:lol: :lol: :lol:Don't worry Blue... I'm sure it was just luck on your part!! :shock:
