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Anyone have a fat fetish?
Sex God
Quote by Sweet_pea
I might be wrong here, but as new BBW on here i am definitely low in confidence about meeting up and maybe this is their way of trying to get in touch with people who wont make them feel ugly. I am confused sometimes why someone would be turned on looking at me naked!
sweet pea ((( and bigboy too for that matter! ;) ))) . . .
. . . because quite often on here, you are attracted first to personality, cos that's all you have to go on. if you then find the person you're talking to ain't quite Brad Pitt / Angelina Jolie, so what . . . you're already attracted to them in your head! ;)
trust me, everyone i've ever met has had confidence / body issues to some extent, IRL and in the swinging world. occasionally, if you're very, very lucky, you discover it ain't that big a deal. one of the real advantages of cyberspace sometimes!
i agree 100% with darkfire and sexkitten. why try to define what you think you are from the off? let others find out what you are for themselves, then take it from there.
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Some people will have a personal preference not to find larger people attractive, but that's not a reflection of your personality.
Quote by little gem
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For the girlies, satin slips and basques, frilly underwear and other sexy lingerie things can hide a mulitude of sins if you wanted them to. For the guys, there are sexy tshirts and boxershorts. You might find that after a bit you just peel it all off, let go and have a great time.
:bounce: Hear, Hear :grin:
cheers for all the advice guys - really appreciate it.
I realise that by calliong it a fetish it makes it sound frakish and impersonal, but I'm just so fed up of timewasters on here, that I thought that if i could find someone who likes the larger build, then they might be genuine about meeting. But i havent received any more interest, so guess that was a bit off the mark!!!!
Anyway, I understand what u are saying about personality and stuff, but i just dont think that is the case. If you look at the women's ads, they all say "vwe needed to fck me friday" or some variation of this, and they don't care about personality at all. And i got completely ignored in the BBW room. To be honest I find some of the chat in the rooms really weird, and hard to get into. All I want is more genuine meets, and I cannot seem to find any...
But thanks all for your help - coincidentally if anyone is interetsed in a larger build bi guy with a great personality and sense of humour, then I might just know someone for you...
I realise that by calliong it a fetish it makes it sound frakish and impersonal, but I'm just so fed up of timewasters on here, that I thought that if i could find someone who likes the larger build, then they might be genuine about meeting. But i havent received any more interest, so guess that was a bit off the mark!!!!
Anyway, I understand what u are saying about personality and stuff, but i just dont think that is the case. If you look at the women's ads, they all say "vwe needed to fck me friday" or some variation of this, and they don't care about personality at all. And i got completely ignored in the BBW room. To be honest I find some of the chat in the rooms really weird, and hard to get into. All I want is more genuine meets, and I cannot seem to find any...
But thanks all for your help - coincidentally if anyone is interetsed in a larger build bi guy with a great personality and sense of humour, then I might just know someone for you...