Some people will have a personal preference not to find larger people attractive, but that's not a reflection of your personality.
cheers for all the advice guys - really appreciate it.
I realise that by calliong it a fetish it makes it sound frakish and impersonal, but I'm just so fed up of timewasters on here, that I thought that if i could find someone who likes the larger build, then they might be genuine about meeting. But i havent received any more interest, so guess that was a bit off the mark!!!!
Anyway, I understand what u are saying about personality and stuff, but i just dont think that is the case. If you look at the women's ads, they all say "vwe needed to fck me friday" or some variation of this, and they don't care about personality at all. And i got completely ignored in the BBW room. To be honest I find some of the chat in the rooms really weird, and hard to get into. All I want is more genuine meets, and I cannot seem to find any...
But thanks all for your help - coincidentally if anyone is interetsed in a larger build bi guy with a great personality and sense of humour, then I might just know someone for you...