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If your eyes were blindfolded and someone sucked / licked you .im sure you wouldnt complain , and worry what sex they were though you may moan aloud.
so dont look at the label , feel the quality lol
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If your eyes were blindfolded and someone sucked / licked you .im sure you wouldnt complain , and worry what sex they were though you may moan aloud.
so dont look at the label , feel the quality lol

Theres not a razor sharp enough!!!! Not one! lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Theres not a razor sharp enough!!!! Not one! lol lol :lol: :lol:

How about we tie you up first Mike? wink
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Theres not a razor sharp enough!!!! Not one! lol lol :lol: :lol:

How about we tie you up first Mike? wink
Who's this 'we' ???? :shock: :shock:
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Who's this 'we' ???? :shock: :shock:

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Well I sucked cock once. He was a fully dressed TV and i found this to be a real turn on. Chicks wth dicks Mmmm. I don't know how I'd cope with a masculine man. To me men are just not a turn on. Give me a beautiful, sensual, woman any day, but a man who pretends to be a woman (and is convincing) well that's another story. Don't know how I should be categorised. Don't really care!
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Well I sucked cock once. He was a fully dressed TV and i found this to be a real turn on. Chicks wth dicks Mmmm. I don't know how I'd cope with a masculine man. To me men are just not a turn on. Give me a beautiful, sensual, woman any day, but a man who pretends to be a woman (and is convincing) well that's another story. Don't know how I should be categorised. Don't really care!

Labels and categories are bad, I agree... who cares wink
Interesting point though, as a gay bloke, TV's do nothing for me sexually at all. I love masculine blokes (so that's Da69ve & Meaty out - Laird & Dee Cee, you're still in :winksmile.
This ain't a 'bitch-butch' thing either, I/we just like guys to be guys :P I love attractive women and like nothing better than to give these kind of compliments where they are due. However, they will tend to be more along the lines of "you look stunning" as opposed to "get yer kit off" (and I'm not suggesting that's all straight guys do :wink: )
What a wonderful and very diverse world we all live in :thumbup:
Sorry - awake early here this morning and the sun's out :rascal:
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Interesting point though, as a gay bloke, TV's do nothing for me sexually at all. I love masculine blokes (so that's Da69ve & Meaty out - Laird & Dee Cee, you're still in wink).

What about camp ????
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Interesting point though, as a gay bloke, TV's do nothing for me sexually at all. I love masculine blokes (so that's Da69ve & Meaty out - Laird & Dee Cee, you're still in wink).

What about camp ????

There'a always an exception to the rule and you're it :inlove:
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There'a always an exception to the rule and you're it :inlove:

It's wet and overcast here this morning, but what d'ya know, I read that and somehow the sun just came out :bounce:
Have a good day, Sweetie wink
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Sweetie wink

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You too :P
Our take on this is that 'labels' are just so English. Clear and precise packaging and everything in its correct box and stacked in the right place.
How about being just horny??
We both play with whatever is in front of us ansd we get off on each other being turned on. It doesn't make either of us Gay/Bi?Bi curious or any other convenient box title. We play together always and sometimes it is with a single and sometimes with a couple - if you hot enough stupid labels and titles are meaningless
We happy with Hot & Horny - Too Hot sometimes ha ha..........
xx
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I love masculine blokes (so that's Da69ve & Meaty out - Laird & Dee Cee, you're still in wink).

Love you too Bloke :wink:
In a masculine way obviously cool
well my opinion for what it worth and for who cares anyway is...........
Bi is a state of mind not a sexual act (tho the sex does help lol) if your attracted to people of the same sex then to me you are bi, even if you just do the kissey stuff, if these an attraction there and it turns you on then to me you are bi, now to really confuse you.......most 'bi' guys i know say they don't fancy men and are not attracted to them they just like cock......they just greedt b*****ds lol
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well my opinion for what it worth and for who cares anyway is...........
Bi is a state of mind not a sexual act (tho the sex does help lol) if your attracted to people of the same sex then to me you are bi, even if you just do the kissey stuff, if these an attraction there and it turns you on then to me you are bi, now to really confuse you.......most 'bi' guys i know say they don't fancy men and are not attracted to them they just like cock......they just greedt b*****ds lol

Now this is something I find confusing sometimes about Bi guys, with women there are plenty of women who happily snog other women but dont necessarily feel a need to play with another woman. However in my experience there are a lot of Bi guys who will happily play with another guy but are quick to rule out any attraction and have no interest in snogging.
I can't quite work out why that is, for me personally if I fancy someone I am interested in playing with them and snogging them regardless of whether they are a guy or girl.
I wonder if it could be simply due to the lack of acceptance of Male bi-sexuality and that even those guys who enjoy playing with other guys are perhaps keen to point out that it is just sex and they're "Not gay or anything" :lol: who knows. confused
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Now this is something I find confusing sometimes about Bi guys, with women there are plenty of women who happily snog other women but dont necessarily feel a need to play with another woman. However in my experience there are a lot of Bi guys who will happily play with another guy but are quick to rule out any attraction and have no interest in snogging.
I can't quite work out why that is, for me personally if I fancy someone I am interested in playing with them and snogging them regardless of whether they are a guy or girl.
I wonder if it could be simply due to the lack of acceptance of Male bi-sexuality and that even those guys who enjoy playing with other guys are perhaps keen to point out that it is just sex and they're "Not gay or anything" lol who knows. confused

Good point Roger - our experience is the same biggrin My thoughts were that the kissing thing for some bi-guys is just too 'intimate' or 'gay' - kinda the Julia Roberts, Pretty Woman thing :lol: Although we've met gay guys that don't like kissing either :?
i like the point someone made about if you were blindfolded you wouldn't know who was sucking/wanking you redface
its fun guessing though surprisedops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
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whats in it for me??? boink
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I think that one is just 'sexual' when finding pleasure from sex activities. This may involve multiple mixed or same sexual activity.
Using terms like hetero, bi or gay tend to specify your lifestyle and what you do or don't do.
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well my opinion for what it worth and for who cares anyway is...........
Bi is a state of mind not a sexual act (tho the sex does help lol) if your attracted to people of the same sex then to me you are bi, even if you just do the kissey stuff, if these an attraction there and it turns you on then to me you are bi, now to really confuse you.......most 'bi' guys i know say they don't fancy men and are not attracted to them they just like cock......they just greedt b*****ds lol

agreed. i don't think bi-sexuality is defined merely by a sexual act. there are many scenarios that might involve male on male contact, to varying degrees, but that doesn't make you bi? i know of some that are perfectly happy to engage in male on male contact, if for instance they are involved in a 3 way, 4 way, multiple partner kind of thing, but they see themselves as straight? that might seem a paradox, but IMO it's not really?
i think bi-sexuality is a state of mind. it's about attraction, which is all in the head, and not necessarily in the trousers?
neil x x x ;)
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i think bi-sexuality is a state of mind. it's about attraction, which is all in the head, and not necessarily in the trousers?
neil x x x ;)

So if it's all in the mind how do you categorise the whole fantasy thing?
By simply having a thought about another woman licking pussy makes a woman bi-sexual? What about if you have a thought about , does that make you a ? You never have the inclination to actually carry it out and probably never will.... but the thought has been there. See my line of thinking with that one? At what point does the line blur?
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