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And for the final question.
If you are Bi with your partner that is straight would you enjoy making/watching your partner have a Bi experience for your enjoyment?
It would be interesting to see what the balance of men to women is that want their partner the entertain them in this way.
Thank you for taking part.
Paul & Rachel
Sorry just realised that I’m logged on as Rachel (sorry Rachel)
Thank you all for your votes over the 3 polls.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23427.html
My aim was to get a feel of the split between man and women to their Bi tendencies and more to the point how your partners would like your roll to be.
The interesting vote must be that women seem to want to watch their straight man with another man. When I asked Rachel she said she would like to see me on a man. Could I ask some of you to expand on why and to what end please? Is the poll right, is their more interest into 4 way Bi swinging? Or is it more of a fantasy. I would have said bi girl on girl would have topped the poll.
Rachel and I are as kinky as they come but we are still trying find what we are and what we are looking for.
Thank you all
Paul
Quote by Paul80
The interesting vote must be that women seem to want to watch their straight man with another man. When I asked Rachel she said she would like to see me on a man. Could I ask some of you to expand on why and to what end please? Is the poll right, is their more interest into 4 way Bi swinging? Or is it more of a fantasy. I would have said bi girl on girl would have topped the poll.

The four way Bi swing is something that is no more or less a fantasy than any other sexual act, Iv always felt that if the men in the group are interested in experiencing that then why not? If your partner is bi or curious, then isnt it better to both be open and frank about it, rather than hide it? dunno what the heck am I trying to write here? let me go and think bolt
OK, I have watched Reese with other men. Just oral and manual, mind - we're not buttfuckers - and it is wicked. I also will admit to being with another couple where the two of us girls were playing together as were the two chaps. In fact, this was the now infamous time where us girls 'finished' first, by the time the lads got their shot and looked up, we were sat on the bed, watching them, drinking tea.
Nimbus
You are right why not talk about it, which I do with Rachel, but it all comes at different stages of life doesn’t it. It was about 2 years ago that Rachel came out and said she would like to explore her Bi side. I’m becoming more curious as time goes by. I would have always said that I was straight but of late I’ve had the thought go through my mind of sucking a mans cock. I like to look at a man’s hard cock, something that I would have denied doing just a year ago. And would it just make more sense for me to keep the man happy while Rachel is having fun with his wife in a 4 some?
Vix
You enjoyed watching but how did Reece liked been watched? I am of the mind that a man would know what a man likes more that a women, I’m saying that because Rachel thinks that’s the way it is with girl on girl. I think that I could suck another mans cock better than Rachel could suck mine. I’m not saying that is the case with everybody else round here but in my house I think that is the case. But the other silly thing about it all is that I’m 6” away from being able to suck my own ‘dam’ I have tried.
Paul
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You enjoyed watching but how did Reece liked been watched? I am of the mind that a man would know what a man likes more that a women, I’m saying that because Rachel thinks that’s the way it is with girl on girl. I think that I could suck another mans cock better than Rachel could suck mine. I’m not saying that is the case with everybody else round here but in my house I think that is the case. But the other silly thing about it all is that I’m 6” away from being able to suck my own ‘dam’ I have tried.

Paul~
I don't mind "putting on a show for the girls" at all, especially since they seem to find it so stimulating!! To be honest, I'm totally oblivious that I'm being watched - whether I'm with a man or a woman - as all of my attention is wrapped up in the task at hand (or in mouth, as it were). The incident that Vix mentioned with the tea, though, was priceless! lol
I'd tend to agree with you that a man would give a better BJ than a woman (except in Vix' case, but I attribute that to her pressure and intensity - she also gives far better hand jobs than I can even give myself!). Likewise, I generally feel that a woman could orally please another woman moreso than a man could. I attribute this to the fact that they both have the same "hardware" and know what would feel good to them...so it's just a matter of turning this technique on another same-sex partner!
Regarding auto-fellatio, it's not anywhere near as satisfying as being sucked by someone else (imho). But perhaps that's because I've never been able to get more than 2-3 inches of myself into my mouth. It does seem to be an extreme turn-on for those watching, though! ;) There was a discussion about this on the forum a while back - I'll see if I can find a link for you...
...ah, here it is!
~Reese! surprised
You are so right Reece once in action then the world could watch me at it, or at least trying that is,,, to get my own cock in my own mouth lol I’m sure it would be the comedy show of the year. But when YOU have such a party peace (as you do) then you should charge an entrance fee lol. What’s the going rate?
That reminds me of the time that Rachel decided that she was going to wank me off into my own mouth. I had to put my back/ legs up the wall with my legs hanging over my head. With my arms holding me up and with my cock facing towards my mouth (my open mouth). She then started wanking me off until I cum. Her aim was terrible, the cum went all over my face and carpet. That’s a long time ago….
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What’s the going rate?

Oh, I dunno. I tend to work on the "barter system", though...so how about a nice, long, relaxed suck afterwards until I'm ready for a repeat performance? ;)
~Reese! surprised
* :lickface:
Mmmm we have friends in Somerset.
And the price is right, do we get front row seats for the price we pay?
Paul