Hi MQ
PL knows. I think he likes it. If we lose the BF then we still have each other and it is with each other that we see our future.
Right now, honeymoon maybe, we're delighted with what's going on. It's been so difficult for me to bottle it all up insde me.
I feel so liberated.
GG
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Glamour Girl
As a practicing buddhist I live my life one day at a time. I wake up in the morning open the curtains and give thanks for another beautiful day what happens between that moment and going back to bed at night just adds to the beauty and splendour of just being alive.
Each thing I say or do in the course of the day helps me to enlightenment. You learn by past mistakes to make you a better person in later life.
If this means enjoying life to the full then why not. If it feels good to you and both partners then what the hell does it matter what other ppl think.
Yes I understand the problems with your family if they discovered the two lovers in your life were not seeing you at separate times but as a 3sum, but in the end it is your life after all and only you can decide in the end how to live it.
If living with two men is fun for the three of you then go for it.
The Llama has spoken and you have his blessing
Slightly different situation to yours ... but we have/had friends, married for a while and the hubby's best friend regularly joined them for threesomes etc ... if hubby worked away then the BF would pop in a see the female for fun and support.
It worked fantastically for them ... she genuinely loved them both but hubby was her man .. the bf was married (and the relationship was secret from her which i didn't agree with but understood) and they lasted a long long time.
GG (I'm crap at guessing games so I won't try you are in an enviable situation. Truely ... after talking about our friends Morbius and I discussed (no considered) a similar situation and decided that it wasn't for us at the time ie we weren't looking but if something happened then it would be fine.
I hope you all grow and get what you want out of the relationship ... and whilst it all works for you enjoy it .... :bounce:
Off for th e weekend
I'm late = train to catch.
See you Monday - Thanks
GG
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Sorry Midlandsman. I guess your two didn't know about each other? My two do.
My, how busy you have all been while I've been away. I find myself down on page three.
Anyway, it's now official - we are "coming out" - we are now a threesome and we truly think it can work. We have just had a weekend near Barcelona with friends but on the way we decided that we were not going all that way not to sleep together so when our hosts met us we explained that we were a threesome so we would just book into a hotel.
Our hosts, old friends, were adamant that we were still welcome and I have had a truly liberating weekend. We're not going to hide it any more from our friends but, equally, we're not going to flaunt it among acquaintances.
The boys think GG is me and, when they read this, I suppose they'll be sure but so far I've been wide-eyed innocent Bambi on the outside and Dennis the Menace on the inside and they haven't really been sure. Come clean time soon
I feel happy. Be happy for me please.
GG
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Good for you GG... as long as your all happy and keep the lines of communication open. Just wondering one thing though.. If you are now an proper threesome.. does this mean you are all equal in this relationship?
Equality,
Ah, that's one of the things our hostess raised. One of the things we hadn't thought about. We think that the big issue is jealousy and equality (although we hadn't thought about it) might mean that we might not be a threesome all the time so, perhaps, how would the third feel if the other two were off together?
Is this the sort of thing you were thinking of? We don't know yet. We'll talk about it. There are a couple of other things we hadn't thought to talk about but we're all on a high right now and we think nothing is impossible.
GG
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Yeah thats pretty much what I meant.. basically is one fo the men 'more' your partner than the other and how does each feel about you spending time with the other as a twosome? Or how would you feel about them spending quality time together as a twosome?
Yes, that's exactly it.
When, we've talked it out I'll let you know. The only related thing we have decided right now is that we'll be faithful to each other. No outside partners. We hadn't thought about inside. There's probably lots of things we haven't thought about.
GG
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Saves me so much typing! :D 
