I mean.............that avatar !
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
Fire, hunni, what have got to feel less confident about?
I mean.............that avatar !
Yes but the offending body part is'nt in the avatar is it ya soppy date!! :giggle:
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Fire xx
Oh and thank you hun
Quote by firelizard
Fire, hunni, what have got to feel less confident about?
I mean.............that avatar !
Yes but the offending body part is'nt in the avatar is it ya soppy date!! :giggle:
Love
Fire xx
Oh and thank you hun
well there's not many parts you ain't showing there babes :phwoar: :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Fire, hunni, what have got to feel less confident about?
I mean.............that avatar !
Yes but the offending body part is'nt in the avatar is it ya soppy date!! :giggle:
Love
Fire xx
Oh and thank you hun
well there's not many parts you ain't showing there babes :phwoar: :rascal:
:rotflmao::rotflmao: 
I have done this about a year ago, we were meeting a couple and the female had a stunning body, I didnt think the other guy would find me attractive as her body was way better than mine and I sent them a pic that showed up my tubby belly and stretch marks, not that I wanted to put them off I just wanted to be sure they knew what they were getting, anyway they wasnt at all bothered and we ended up having a great night, I have now got past the stage where I think about stuff like that, I am quite happy with my body now.
Sex God
I was going to say 'Ooooh no don't assume any part of you is unnattractive' but then I thought that I have sort of slipped things into the conversation in the past, when I think it might be crucial, especially when I'm meeting someone for the first time. So it would be hypocritical to say that.
That said FL, I've got to pose the question to you 'Why is it often the ones with the least to worry about, do the most worrying?' As for a stretched undercarriage well I've got some very nice things to say about that but I guess not in open forum.
That said FL, I've got to pose the question to you 'Why is it often the ones with the least to worry about, do the most worrying?' As for a stretched undercarriage well I've got some very nice things to say about that but I guess not in open forum.
Sex God
I have learned to like my body, and love how it responds to others. But I hate - absolutely HATE - the fact that everytime I arrange a meet I get spots on my bum!!!!
I worked out why it happens though - spending all evening on my sofa with this laptop arranging the meet. LOL
I worked out why it happens though - spending all evening on my sofa with this laptop arranging the meet. LOL
Sex God
Quote by sheddy
Has anyone got a back bumper for a Nissan Terrano ?
Bollox wrong type of body parts :doh:
ffs Sheddy - concentrate!!
Exactly the point H-x .. What one person sees as a disadvantage is a delight to others so there is no point in saying what bits you dislike about yourself as it may be the very thing that is attracting someone to you. Thank goodness 
Any self critisism I keep to myself and only let out my self doubts to someone I know well and trust, but by then most playmates adore me just the way I am anyway so its fine
DD
Any self critisism I keep to myself and only let out my self doubts to someone I know well and trust, but by then most playmates adore me just the way I am anyway so its fine
DD
Quote by H-x
I think my playmates are secretly paid by social services as care in the community. I haven't let on that I've sussed them though.
H.x
Where does one sign up for a job like that!! :bounce:
Heck I'll do it for free!!!
Ok ok... I'll stop it now.... just excited because you've been away... and now you're back!
Orgasminator
I'm a bit of a pain in the arse when it comes to warning people about my body.
I think it's wrong to do it but I just have to! I don't want people to see me with no clothes on and either run away or be too embarassed to say anything, then run away!
In a way it kind of makes it worse as when you've pointed something out, the person actually looks for it whereas if you didn't say anything in the first place it wouldn't be concentrated on!
I guess it's also a bit of scaredness too...if they see my body they'll not want to see me again.
I have a little battle in my head whereby I tell myself not to be so stupid and not to say anything then the other voice tells me I should tell the person about the fat, stretchmarks, wobbly bits etc etc cos then they won't get a shock. It's a constant bloody battle! :lol:
I'm going to shut up now :lol:
I think it's wrong to do it but I just have to! I don't want people to see me with no clothes on and either run away or be too embarassed to say anything, then run away!
In a way it kind of makes it worse as when you've pointed something out, the person actually looks for it whereas if you didn't say anything in the first place it wouldn't be concentrated on!
I guess it's also a bit of scaredness too...if they see my body they'll not want to see me again.
I have a little battle in my head whereby I tell myself not to be so stupid and not to say anything then the other voice tells me I should tell the person about the fat, stretchmarks, wobbly bits etc etc cos then they won't get a shock. It's a constant bloody battle! :lol:
I'm going to shut up now :lol:
Sex God
Quote by onlyme1981
I'm a bit of a pain in the arse when it comes to warning people about my body.
I think it's wrong to do it but I just have to! I don't want people to see me with no clothes on and either run away or be too embarassed to say anything, then run away!
In a way it kind of makes it worse as when you've pointed something out, the person actually looks for it whereas if you didn't say anything in the first place it wouldn't be concentrated on!
I guess it's also a bit of scaredness too...if they see my body they'll not want to see me again.
I have a little battle in my head whereby I tell myself not to be so stupid and not to say anything then the other voice tells me I should tell the person about the fat, stretchmarks, wobbly bits etc etc cos then they won't get a shock. It's a constant bloody battle! :lol:
I'm going to shut up now :lol:
Quote by westerross on page two
'Why is it often the ones with the least to worry about, do the most worrying?'
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Quote by onlyme1981
I don't want people to see me with no clothes on and either run away or be too embarassed to say anything, then run away!
Turn the lights off!! Thats what I do whenever I can get away with it :lol:
Quote by onlyme1981
In a way it kind of makes it worse as when you've pointed something out, the person actually looks for it whereas if you didn't say anything in the first place it wouldn't be concentrated on!
Exactly! But knowing that doesn't help me stop wanting to confess all my flaws either!
I guess everyone has "issues" with the way they look and can feel self conscious. Part of human nature I'm afraid
Fee
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