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Confidence boost or false advertising?

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Ok, this is kind of inspired by another thread.
I somtimes wear a padded bra to help bolster my confidence but I've not yet been in a situation where I've had to then go for the 'big reveal'.
Is it false advertising? How disappointed would you be if you were on the receiving end, so to speak?
H.x
Never judge a book by its cover.
If all the bloke or woman is worried about is the size of your boobies, do you really want to be with them?? confused
I wouldn't be disappointed at all hunni. I wear them myself and I don't see it as false advertising in the least. You've got more than 2 fried eggs on an ironing board so I see it more as enhancing what's already there than pretending you've got something you haven't.
Besides that, it's you, your personality, character and your own confidence that makes you sexy rather than how big your tits are so if the padded ones give you more confidence then go for it :thumbup: kiss
I agree with Mike. It is the inside that counts: your personality, kindness and all the soft skills that make you, YOU!
It’s no secret that Firelizard has had a breast enlargement. The job was done on the NHS because she had absolutely no boobs after puberty and as a result her loss of self-confidence was acute. :therethere: kiss
We got together before her Op, and on the first night as we had a kiss and a cuddle on the sofa. I spent an absolute age fondling her breast through her top and bra. I was somewhat surprised to find all my best efforts hardly gaining a response. Only afterwards when we had moved on to the “kit off” stage, did I realize that my subtle ministrations had been totally muffled by the padding in her bra and she hadn’t felt a bloody thing. :doh:
False advertising? Well for me I have to say no,and for the record I dislike very large boobs. :scared:
Stormwalker
Wear one and feel good.
I said in another thread it dont matter to me i like them all lol
I wouldnt be disapointed at all. You are not just a pair of breasts. Be happy.
Awwww, come here Miss H :therethere: you could never be a dissapointment kiss
i can't see you being the sort of person to meet up with out spending considerable time getting to know someone by PM or MSN, by which time any attraction will be more about you as a whole than the finer details of your cup size.
anyone that did feel cheated doesn't deserve you anyway, the rest of us would just be plain lucky to spend time in your company.
so don't stress, your fine (and you do have the most delicous looking bum wink )
Quote by H-x
Ok, this is kind of inspired by another thread.
I somtimes wear a padded bra to help bolster my confidence but I've not yet been in a situation where I've had to then go for the 'big reveal'.
Is it false advertising? How disappointed would you be if you were on the receiving end, so to speak?
H.x

I don't think it makes a blind bit of difference......
though I would be interested to hear your take on wigs and rolled-up socks down the pants...?
innocent
Quote by firelizard
It’s no secret that Firelizard has had a breast enlargement. The job was done on the NHS because she had absolutely no boobs after puberty and as a result her loss of self-confidence was acute. :therethere: kiss
We got together before her Op, and on the first night as we had a kiss and a cuddle on the sofa. I spent an absolute age fondling her breast through her top and bra. I was somewhat surprised to find all my best efforts hardly gaining a response. Only afterwards when we had moved on to the “kit off” stage, did I realize that my subtle ministrations had been totally muffled by the padding in her bra and she hadn’t felt a bloody thing. :doh:
False advertising? Well for me I have to say no,and for the record I dislike very large boobs. :scared:
Stormwalker

redface
I just have to say in defense here that Storm's a big strong lad in every way so when it came to kit off Imagine my surprise too !!!! :giggle:
and I just have to say that the fondling was lovely and yes DID feel it!! passionkiss
Fire xxxx
I must say that it has never mattered to me... I love breasts big and small... and once I goto the point where I am in bed with a woman I wouldn't give a monkeys what was in her bra- unless it was a willy !!! lol
it isn't false advertising. as others have said if it gives the woman enuff confidence to talk to me then I am happy.
lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by splendid33
.....I wouldn't give a monkeys what was in her bra- unless it was a willy !!! lol

i think most people who find that a little odd :shock:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
.....I wouldn't give a monkeys what was in her bra- unless it was a willy !!! lol

i think most people who find that a little odd :shock:
yeah o.k..... was just thinking of what I would be pretty unhappy about finding in there.... and that was the only thing I could of think of.
and now I have typed that it doesn't sound any more logical..ho hum..... you know what I mean. :P
My point of view is a padded bra (or makeup or a wig etc) is about helping that person to feel better about themselves.
I know somebody who had a mastectomy then had to wear a prosthetic breast whilst awaiting her breast reconstruction operation - is that false advertising - no!
Definitely a confidence boost. Not as if you don't expect to get caught out, is it wink
Quote by Kiss_Me
My point of view is a padded bra (or makeup or a wig etc) is about helping that person to feel better about themselves.

:thumbup:
If it increases a person confidence and means they can have more fun then wear them, wear two if you like :lol2:
Quote by H-x
Ok, this is kind of inspired by another thread.
I somtimes wear a padded bra to help bolster my confidence but I've not yet been in a situation where I've had to then go for the 'big reveal'.
Is it false advertising? How disappointed would you be if you were on the receiving end, so to speak?
H.x

There is more to a woman than the size of her boobs. While a handful is nice it is the woman that counts She is much more than a cup size. Much more than a body.
So not disappointed at all. The person is still there.
I wouldn't mind at all!I think smaller breasts are lovely anyway and certainly in the situation of "the big reveal" I'd just be very pleased to be going so far with the lady concerned regardless of her bust measurements!
I like this thread seeing as i have little titties redface lol
Shaz x
Nice things come in small parcels lol
Thanks for your response folks -
Meaty, you're going to ruin your reputation if you keep making posts like that kiss
banlwales, a good wig can look great - although I'm not sure how I feel about rolled-up socks down the pants, for no other reason than they might get a bit sweaty!
Kiss_me, very good point hun :kiss:
Well, I'm going to give it a go at the weekend - a vanilla party. I'll let you know.
H.x
If a woman is wearing a padded bra she should always sit on the right hand side of her partner.
That way she will feel good, and her partner will feel a right tit. rolleyes
Quote by H-x
Meaty, you're going to ruin your reputation if you keep making posts like that kiss

i have a reputation? :eeek:
probably best if i don't ask
:kiss: back at you
Quote by Reikiradical
Nice things come in small parcels lol

Small ones are sweeter, I know I read somewhere. Somewhere on a T-shirt.
are you not a fan of the heavy cummer then H blast rotflmao
I prefer small tits than excessive ones TBH.
BTW i walk around with an 8" cucumber down my trousers, for a confidence boost, would you be disappointed upon finding a carrot and not a cucumber?
Quote by m1970
I prefer small tits than excessive ones TBH.
BTW i walk around with an 8" cucumber down my trousers, for a confidence boost, would you be disappointed upon finding a carrot and not a cucumber?

well thats me out :giggle:
chesty
Quote by m1970
I prefer small tits than excessive ones TBH.
BTW i walk around with an 8" cucumber down my trousers, for a confidence boost, would you be disappointed upon finding a carrot and not a cucumber?

To be honest I’d be delighted with a carrot….. redface
Stormwalker
Quote by m1970
I prefer small tits than excessive ones TBH.
BTW i walk around with an 8" cucumber down my trousers, for a confidence boost, would you be disappointed upon finding a carrot and not a cucumber?

I may be wondering why you were keeping vegetables in your underwear, I might check for green fly - but then I'd probably ask if you had any dip?
H.x
Quote by DeviousLiasons

Well, I'm going to give it a go at the weekend - a vanilla party. I'll let you know.
H.x

It cant be that "vanilla" a party if you plan to remove your bra in front of them all!
I don't believe I said I was going to?
H.x