Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:
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Could you be so brazen?
Sex God
im brazen but no i would never do that i have been on the wrong side of jealous women before (and that was just because the man in question was looking at my chest) its not nice and can cause all sorts of problems
Sex God
Nope 
Sex God
Every right to feel defensive. See 'em off I say. Mar - your comment about things being consensual is so important to this lifestyle that you are right to want to rebuff it.
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Sex God
Quote by markz
If I was in tyne and wear and a lass eyed me up I'd be worried about her mugging me.....
And they'd be worried about who let you out of Bedfordshire
Sex God
Quote by jaymar
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
maybe she was a swinger and interested in you guys......
Sex God
Quote by markz
If I was in tyne and wear and a lass eyed me up I'd be worried about her mugging me.....
And they'd be worried about who let you out of Bedfordshire
hey if the watering hole is full why go to another..... :roll:
So everyone doesn't have your 'from the same gene puddle' look
Sex God
Quote by jaymar
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:
Oooooo Id a poked her in the eye with a sharp stick
Actually I wouldnt. It was probably an office chistmas party and she was probably as nissed as a pewt and wouldnt normally do something like that OR never even noticed you were together.
Not that you would have to be as nissed as a pewt to notice either of you......Ill go now before I dig this hole deeper
Quote by poshkate
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
maybe she was a swinger and interested in you guys......
now that would be one hell of a night ..........nore dam it bloody bad of her but if it had been us i would have just snog mr tyne and thought tuff hes mine Quote by mdr2000
Take it as a compliment...
Its when they stop eyeing up we would start to worry lol.
You trust him, you have him so who cares..??
We all look.. but No your right neither of us would be so rude to be so obvious.. but as said.. It's only really a compliment eh..
Mike xx
Thanks Mike - you are right, I had thought about that afterwards as I was going home with him
Quote by flower411
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
Would you? I know we are swingers but that's consensual, but I'm sorry I would never 'eye' up someone's bloke while the person was sat there!
I'm sure she could feel the daggers.... :kick:
Both mrs f and myself are obviously very bad people :shock:
We flirt with strangers all the time and certainly wouldn`t feel we were doing anything wrong.
If another man flirts with mrs f, I certainly don`t feel insecure about my position.
I can understand that but there are ways in which you can have fun, each one to their own, I didn't feel insecure I felt annoyed because it wasn't subtle - it was in my face. You can't have insecurities as a swingers but what I dislike is downright rudeness
Quote by poshkate
Tonight Jay and I went out for take away. While we were waiting we called into our local for a drink.
I quickly became aware of a woman completely and blatently 'eye flirting' with Jay! She was trying to get his attention and seemed unaffected by the fact I was there, she was pretty but knew it.
maybe she was a swinger and interested in you guys......
Never thought of that, but then wouldn't she be flirting with both of us??
xx Quote by de_sade
Some folks are neve happy with what they've got and are always looking for more, regardless of consequences and other peoples feelings.
The same folks often then get very upset when someone behaves the same with someone they are with.
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I couldn't agree with you more... :thumbup:
Sex God
Some people just seem to be really really confident I guess.
I was once on the train in London with my girlfriend, and not only was she standing close to me but we were holdong hands too. Then suddenly this woman gets on the train and, after a minute or so, made a beeline line for me.
She stood right up to me and staring me straight in the eye proceeded to chat me up (???). I made it clear I was with someone, at which point she looked at my girlfriend, then looked away from her and continued to chat me up. My girlfriend was furious, and this woman continued to try to get me to go out with her, right in front of her!!!
Needless to say we got off at the next station and I proceeded to explain that this woman was probably drunk, because I could smell alcohol I think, and also I think the reason she stood so close was beause she had trouble focusing. My girlfriend accepted this as a possible explanation.
So now I have a problem. Should I feel insulted that this woman was so blatant in front of my girlfriend? Or that my girlfriend accepted the excuse that this woman only chatted me up because she was drunk AND myopic?
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I was once on the train in London with my girlfriend, and not only was she standing close to me but we were holdong hands too. Then suddenly this woman gets on the train and, after a minute or so, made a beeline line for me.
She stood right up to me and staring me straight in the eye proceeded to chat me up (???). I made it clear I was with someone, at which point she looked at my girlfriend, then looked away from her and continued to chat me up. My girlfriend was furious, and this woman continued to try to get me to go out with her, right in front of her!!!
Needless to say we got off at the next station and I proceeded to explain that this woman was probably drunk, because I could smell alcohol I think, and also I think the reason she stood so close was beause she had trouble focusing. My girlfriend accepted this as a possible explanation.
So now I have a problem. Should I feel insulted that this woman was so blatant in front of my girlfriend? Or that my girlfriend accepted the excuse that this woman only chatted me up because she was drunk AND myopic?
:( :( 
Sex God
OK I own-up, I have done it, but I do hope I have never pushed when not welcome. That is the test, never be unwelcome!
I was out at a club (of the dance variety) with Nat, we were dancing facing each other, he had a can in his hand. A woman comes and stands in between us, takes his drink off him and proceeds to dance with him and drink from his can. He was more concerned that someone had nicked his drink than he was interested in her, I just stood and laughed
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