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Describe your Ideal Lover...
Hmmmm strange one to answer because I don't have a 'type' as such.....
I've had things for guys who are thin, fat, average.....short hair, long hair......blond and dark hair......
To me, it's all about personality and whether i like them as a person or not.....i know that sounds really corny but that's the way i am.....
I've had things for guys who are thin, fat, average.....short hair, long hair......blond and dark hair......
To me, it's all about personality and whether i like them as a person or not.....i know that sounds really corny but that's the way i am.....
Quote by DreamerHelen
Hmmmm strange one to answer because I don't have a 'type' as such.....
I've had things for guys who are thin, fat, average.....short hair, long hair......blond and dark hair......
To me, it's all about personality and whether i like them as a person or not.....i know that sounds really corny but that's the way i am.....
i coudent agree more!!!
love debbiexxx
Sex God
They must have a pulse 
Quote by DreamerHelen
To me, it's all about personality and whether i like them as a person or not.....i know that sounds really corny but that's the way i am.....
Couldnt agree more , when I was 19 (many moons ago now) i pursued, charmed ,woo'ed etc etc an amazing looking girl , even her nickname was Barbie! After going out with her once it turned out to be a mind numbing experience ,and i couldnt wait to drop her off at home at the earliest opportunity. Making conversation was like trying to plaid fog.
I would rate sense of humour as No.1 priority , obviously looks are important as Shrek has a good sense of humour but I dont want to sleep with him!
Without wanting to sound like an old fart (32 going on 60) I think peoples attractions / priorities change with age , but what do i know
Sex God
Im not very descriptive , but shes on the web-site for all to see. Doesnt get much nearer perfect than that !!
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Quote by Marya
this is easy-peasy:
good looking, charming, kind , generous, giving, attentive,sweet, confident, reassuring, funny,experienced, fit, WE, lovable, witty, brave, strong, mild, calm, sexy, cool, sophisticated, honest,enthusiastic, inspirational, respectable, slutty, genuine, STI-free, chivalrous, tasty, special, easy-going, intelligent,open-minded, challenging, talented, modest and in existence.
Oh and being a swinger helps too.
Only need to add one thing to that list - available now :twisted:
Cheers
CQ
Quote by Marya
good looking, charming, kind , generous, giving, attentive,sweet, confident, reassuring, funny,experienced, fit, WE, lovable, witty, brave, strong, mild, calm, sexy, cool, sophisticated, honest,enthusiastic, inspirational, respectable, slutty, genuine, STI-free, chivalrous, tasty, special, easy-going, intelligent,open-minded, challenging, talented, modest and in existence.
Oh and being a swinger helps too.
Oh darn, missed just the one criteria... :cry: :cry: :cry:
I know this is off topic slightly but I just wondered how well do people feel the attraction thing works over the web then?
Without all of the non verbal communication that we usually use to assess people - do people still think that you are able to tell if there will be a spark? Or is successful cyber flirting no indication that there will be attraction when you meet?
Cheers
CQ
Without all of the non verbal communication that we usually use to assess people - do people still think that you are able to tell if there will be a spark? Or is successful cyber flirting no indication that there will be attraction when you meet?
Cheers
CQ
Quote by celticq
I know this is off topic slightly but I just wondered how well do people feel the attraction thing works over the web then?
Without all of the non verbal communication that we usually use to assess people - do people still think that you are able to tell if there will be a spark? Or is successful cyber flirting no indication that there will be attraction when you meet?
Cheers
CQ
It's weird how the Internet thing works......I've met a few people from here and if I like their personality and there is a 'thing' between us online then it pretty much always transfers to 'real life'......it's really great how it works. I actually think you can get to know someone much better on here than you can in 'normal life' providing both people are being honest.
I have met people on here that I wouldn't normally go for but because I'd gotten to know them I actually DID fancy them as well.....strange.....but good.
Sex God
Quote by Surfdude365
Just curious as to what everyone's "ideal" is in regards to a lover's looks, attitude and "technique" or sexual approach? Be as descriptive as possible
I can't add more than the words you have already used without consulting my thesarus. I think you know you have your ideal lover when your heart stops looking. So simply, my ideal lover would have to 'be' it all. Oh wait..he already is.
Silky xxxxx
Master of Sex
describe your ideal lover....in 2 easy words....my husband.
Orgasminator
my hand, not keen on willings husband but im sure he would appeal to some of you on here
Master of Sex
my hand.. good one mids 
Orgasminator
Inflatable
Sex God
If it comes down to one quality (and I know it doesn't but I like setting myself these little challenges) a GSOH is probably all you need. Now sense of humour is a subjective thaing so it probably means a compatible SOH.
If you carn't have a larf when one of you inadvertently farts in a moment of passion then forget it!! ( Right that's set my standard - any takers???)
If you carn't have a larf when one of you inadvertently farts in a moment of passion then forget it!! ( Right that's set my standard - any takers???)
Quote by bluexxx
They must have a pulse
WHY
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Okay what is important:
That they can look me straight in the eye and keep looking there
That we can stand naked in front of each other with no embarrassment
That we can hold each other and know that is important in its own right
That we can tell each other to bugger off and laugh at the same time
That there is trust, honesty and respect at all times
but most of all
When they leave they dont take my heart with them.................
Sex God
Quote by Morgan
They must have a pulse
WHY
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Okay what is important:
That they can look me straight in the eye and keep looking there
That we can stand naked in front of each other with no embarrassment
That we can hold each other and know that is important in its own right
That we can tell each other to bugger off and laugh at the same time
That there is trust, honesty and respect at all times
but most of all
When they leave they dont take my heart with them.................
Quality response - but my what high standards - does it work???
Quote by westerross
If it comes down to one quality (and I know it doesn't but I like setting myself these little challenges) a GSOH is probably all you need. Now sense of humour is a subjective thaing so it probably means a compatible SOH.
If you carn't have a larf when one of you inadvertently farts in a moment of passion then forget it!!
The mind is the most important erogenous zone!! In my humble opinion
Mrs RSAB2 xxx
But I would say that I've only got small breasts!
