Do you need a Dexter?
No I have not but I do notice who has been dropping lines ....sometimes.
i often do detective work and also have found out things this way .. ie .. the single guy who puts no status and lets slip the 'we' word. there are other examples.. but i also believe that people do change depending on what the other wants .. ie.. sometimes i want to be a slutty type person and others i just want to chat so what i post and say in the chat room/quickies on profiles reflects the mood i am in at the time ... i wouldnt necesaraly hold what you saw this person wrote on someone elses wall against them it could have just been the mood they was in at the time and they would be the perfect gent/lady when they are with you
Dropping lines????
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Ok.....lets just say I think the "straight" gentleman in question, wanted to get jiggy with Mikes botty more than mine!!
I have never taken notice of quickies, but then I met the men I met before they were introduced.
I really don't know if I would have read them or not.
Possibly I might have done and perhaps can understand it putting me off.
I must admit if it is public put it here, if it is private PM me. I do not need one liners on my profile.
Are you still selling lemonade?...or kisses?
i know exactly what you mean.
i have my quickies disabled, i dont want private stuff splatters around for all to see, and i dont like the mild panic it would cause thinking what couldbe posted before i realised.
if im interested in someone i check everything out.
before it was just forum posts and ads.
but now there are the friends lists and quickies.
i have been turned away from many a potential meet when i see who and what has been written on theirs or whos they have wrote on.
i know i shouldnt take this in, but i cant help it.
without being horrible if i see they have given the same lines to someone who i think is ewghhhhh or they have met them the thought of playing with them turns me off.
sorry.
i also dont like the sleazy ness of them. i dont want to meet someone who is like that and i feel i cant trust to keep things private.
im digging a hole now aint i??
xx fem xx
Travlin, report them - they get dealt with.
Travel.....Steve
I never really understand what you mean when you type about fakes and the likes on various posts.
Do you mean , men want to chat to you and arrnge meets with you, under the false pretence that they are a couple, or they just want to play games with you, and lead you up the garden path, so to speak!?
Please do not read anything into this question, apart from the question its self, its just I never really can undersatand what you are saying on the subject of fakes.
Lucys post.
Have to say, if you suspect anyone is lying on their profile in order to meet people under false pretences, you should at least flag Admin's attention to it. I am sure Admin have the facility in place to at least look at the situation and see if the person is genuine or not.
It may seem like "ratting" on someone, but the entire point of swinging is that it is built on tolerance and honesty. If people cannot be honest about things to get meets then they should not be on here.
There are a lot of reasons why people are not honest. From the mundane, to the more sinister, however I don't think you should take the chance and if you have real suspicions about someone then you should make it known to admin.
By the same token, if I get an email from admin saying that someone has reported me as a single male, then I'd be happy to see that Admin take it seriously and I could prove to them that wasn't the case. I don't think true couples have a problem with this, especially if it does get rid of people who are slightly economical with the truth in order to serve their own ends.
I think you are doing very well though Steve to get messages, most of my single men chat buddies, say they hardly ever get messages sent to them, even in reply to ones they have sent! (that topic has been flogged to death already on here)
Always a bright side!
At least your red box keeps flashing!
