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Do all guys think size is important?

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Yes I think a lot of guys place a lot of importance on the size of their dicks.
I think a lot of guys worry they are too small from my experience.
A lot of guys seem to want a huge willy, but as mrs777 says " that is fine once in a while, but not every night ".
So there is hope for all us small willys out there. wink
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Nope. I lke my rather pretty dibbler just as he is. I think I may be a bit odd in that my cock isnt the centre of my sexual activity.
A friend confided to me recently that since her partner started to suffer erectile problems she hadnt had an orgasm. Further discussion led me to conclude that alternative approaches to intimacy had not even been considered. I found that incredibly surprising.
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Size doesn`t matter at all to me, i`m very happy with what my partner has. Its very true tho that it can be the biggest cock in the world but if you dont know how to use it then its not really much good. Besides its about kissing and touching and being sensual to me more than whats in your boxers
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Guys, guys... I think the problem is how you measure your cock and what system you use. Unlike you my dear Brits us johnny foreigners have had it good for ages as we use the metric system.
It's simple really... If some horny lady asks how big you are, tell her your cock size in metric, for example a measly 6 inch cock becomes a 15-centimitre power rod! Whoa we're talking double digits here. Remember most women don't know the difference between inches and centimetres anyway! biggrin bolt
As I said the rest of the world have had it really good with metric measures for ages! Forget about imperial measurements, they're crap.
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Absolutely loved this thread - great one about the organ and cathedral...
Anyway I hold my hand up and say for most of my adult life I had a 'thing' about my penis size. I am fairly small when flaccid (about 3 1/2") and so when I saw much longer ones flaccid I assumed they would be huge when erect. It took me a while to realise some are growers and some are show-ers...
Anyway having had a few Bi encounters I realise that 6" to 7" seems the average.
In the end my other half decided to measure me when erect and having checked on the Internet (NOT porn sites) I found out that my 6" erect is around the average, confirmed by a few subsequent Bi encounters.
I have never had any complaints from the ladies and a few have told me, in honest moments, that too big can be uncomfortable to suck and for penetration.
However having said all that - I would still like to be bigger when flaccid!!!! There's no hope...
Mind you I have never met a woman who has been happy with her body...
Orgasminator
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for me.. i know that size wise i'm not blessed in that department.. but unless i'm gonna invest a few grand in an upgrade both me and my cock are stuck with each other for a long time.. so i dont see the point in getting worried about its size / girth.
Plus my attidute is, if i get judged souly on the size of my cock.. then those are the people i have very little interest in meeting.. as would like to think the rest of my body has a big enough role to play, and i dont feel the need to just rely on my cock to satify a person..
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Plus my attidute is, if i get judged souly on the size of my cock.. then those are the people i have very little interest in meeting.. as would like to think the rest of my body has a big enough role to play, and i dont feel the need to just rely on my cock to satify a person..

Nice post kiss
Sexlightened
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We are concerned with the size of our dicks. Many of us are brought up believing girls have an invisible sign saying "You must be this long to ride," but noone tells us what that minimum length is or if we'll ever reach it when we grow up!
Or maybe there's another reason for this chronic male insecurity, but I don't know what it is. Nor do I know why I enjoy watching girls fool around more than guys and girls. However, I suspect the anal sex obsession is a territorial thing: your body isn't all mine until I've had all three holes!
Click this and skip to 3:35.
Sexlightened
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I used to be insecure about it until I adopted the Ronseal method - 'It does what it says on the tin'.
If it works and doesn't let me down then it's good enough for me. I've never had any complaints about my size, although being about average - 6" or so depending on how turned on I am and any weight gain/loss etc I've always wanted just an inch or two more.
When measuring and describing measurements there are lots of other factors to consider as well. Some guys measure from underneath, roughly where the balls end and the shaft begins. Others measure from above where it meets the pelvic bone (I think, didn't do so good in biology). Then you have those that curve a little and those that are dead straight. Weight gain or loss can affect it too, I've noticed a loss of about 1/2" since putting on weight. That can be lost again and gaining myself an extra 1/2" of cock to work with.
I believe men are generally insecure with their size as it's a manly thing to always have the biggest of something, be it car, house, airplane, land, castle, cave, appetite, stomach etc. Everything except for a cock can be changed and made bigger, so it's the one thing we're stuck with and cannot change to out-do someone else.
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dunno
not having had it 'checked out' since last October, who knows?
I'm sure it's grown by at least 8 inches, so now it must be the desired 9" :rascal:
lol, sorry kiss