Do you ever just have a browse through the Ads??

15 Sep 2004

has had no replies either and i must of wrote to literally 50 plus ads. its as hard as hell being a single guy here. most people want single girls and cpls
a....... most single ugys do and confused

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b ...... most cpls do becuase the guy wants two girls to play etc. confused

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i sometimes feel dissalusioned etc. :cry: how do single guys get a crack of the whip. ? after all its not my fault im single,a wife pissing off with her boss is not my fault is it? (money grabbing bastard) mad

how can we get invlolved confused

: most parties are for single girls and cpls doesnt that mean theres more women there than men confused

: wouldnt a few single guys even the balance out a bit and give us a foot in the door. confused

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: :arrow: ive found that being new ish here, its very hard to get involved. and its fair enough as no one knows me and they are cautious of letting a stranger into their home but how are we going to get known?i wouldnt say my ad is brilliant but, is it really that bad? (im open to suggestions but i think its fine) for a first ad.
i cant get out that much to "pull a girl" as im left with running a house on my own and im a bit financially , surely theres a way through this maze of "no single guys wanted chaos?"
maybe a munch? maybe a party.? i dont know .
it seems like its a bit like a whos who forum at times and if your not known you never will its damn hard for you to get known
right thats my moan for the day off to make music! ON MY OWN. evil

no not that .....real the only banging i get to do. rolleyes

15 Sep 2004

Some good points here from Alan and Mark.
This is,all in all,a big step for a lot of people to nothing wrong in anyone,single or couple,changing their mind at any not timewasting,thats can change too - health,work,family commitments,babysitters for those with kids - you name it..thats not timewasting either - it DOES happen!!
(I myself have a very full life and it can take a while to fix a mutually ok date to even meet,and,yes,my plans can change for reaons I don't control..Due to that,in my case,the ideal is very much a meeting that leads on to a sexual encounter soon after if all consent..shockingly its for pure sex then!LOL!)
Answering or replying to someone you NEVER have ANY intention of ever meeting,thats up an ad that is just messing about,thats timewasting.
I see people get called timewasters because they don't send a photo?In my case I :
A.)Have never even had a PC till recently and don't yet have the means or know how to yet.
B.)Am hugely wary of sending a face pic especially..and a pic of any other bits(!) - well is it me or a mate or from a porn movie or what?Who knows..
In fact lately there have been some lovely pics in the couples ads,brave and sexy all, and I am sure most of them are real,just as my replies are..I don't claim to be a 28 year old fireman with a six pack!In return I don't expect Ken and Barbie!!
My reasons for being here certainly aren't 'cause I'm Johnny-No-Mate/Can't "pull"..I just want to safely,discreetly,harmlessly share feelgood sexual encounters with other sex lovers without strings,without any grief..especially threesomes and the like - a desire to watch and play in combinations other than,wonderful as it is,1 on 1.
My last threesome was a revelation all 'round,not easily achieved - they wanted it,I did too..it was a big step,it meant something to all of was very beautiful at the time,and I won't forget the kindness of those getting all heavy on you all its got to have a value,feeling,not just be an ego trip,be it a fleeting moment of mutual lust or within a longterm relationship.
For all my fine words I'm just a typical guy loves sex!Thats what I hope any ad I place or reply to will lead to!I guess theres a few of us,be they Single Swingle or Couple on here yeah?x
See my ad:143822 x
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15 Sep 2004

Quote by mark/surrey
how can we get invlolved : most parties are for single girls and cpls doesnt that mean theres more women there than men : wouldnt a few single guys even the balance out a bit and give us a foot in the door. : :idea: : :arrow:

Actually, reading reports that have been posted here and elsewhere, I get the impression that most swingers clubs are packed to the rafters with single guys, who swarm around any woman like pirannha-fish around a dismembered arm.

Quote by mark/surrey
it seems like its a bit like a whos who forum at times and if your not known you never will its damn hard for you to get known

Just join in. It does no harm and it helps to while away the hours in a pleasant, fun fashion. Don't worry about people knowing each other or not knowing each other; for the most part that's an optical illusion. Yes, there's some people here who do know each other well, but for the most part we're all strangers, it's just we're strangers with lots of posts beside our names.

Are you sure?