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Hi folks,
this has happened twice to me, once when when we having anal and the other doggy, it was a full body feeling, instead of the rush of ejaculation, to be honest i would have that against ejaculation every time, it was a fabulous sensation!!!!!! :twisted: biggrin
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Me too, i can quite happly get the same feeling without coming, it actually prolongs the experience for the lady however some times ive found they feel a bit cheated?
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Evidently I don't possess the enviable powers exercised by some of the chaps here. The only way I know of to deliberately prevent myself ejaculating past a certain point is the pinch technique, the result of which is a deeply unsatisfying pseudo-orgasm, instant loss of erection and a tendency to need a wee. This is very unreliable as a means of prolonging the festivities because A) if you time it a tenth of a second too late, as soon as you release the pinch... THAR SHE BLOWS! and B) it takes longer to recover from than an actual orgasm and by the time you've got it up again the other party has probably lost interest.
Genuine dry cumming will happen after several ejaculations, but for me, if I've cum so many times there's nothing left, my balls hurt like hell for at least a day afterwards. Far better to pace yourself and not get to that point until you really want to, which admittedly requires some disclipline and restricts the actual number of orgasms, but the result, for me, is more intense and well worth the wait. biggrin
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Hnmm what an interesting post..
I personally am a VERY heavy cummer, so its weird of me to imagine cumming without actually cumming so to speak..
Sean
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It could be to do with having had prostate cancer and having the prostate gland removed. This leaves a guy with that very same symptom...He still feels his climax but nothing is ejaculated.

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Hi Guys......I gave a guy a blowjob and he came, but he didn't cum......if that makes sense.... confused
I mean I felt him cum in terms of his whole body going rigid, but there was no liquid, so to speak redface , has this happened to anyone else?

Yes, it's happened few times 😏🙄

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I have BPH. Basically an enlarged prostate. It is not cancer. I take a medication for it called Tamsulosin which enlarges the "tubes" to help me to pee better (Dustasteride is another one, but that will reduce libido and give a disinterest in sex) but it also stops liquid ejaculation, not orgasm. Sometimes I get a small amount of ejaculate, but normally nothing. Some people like it because cum can be messy, someone has to clean it up.

But I guess the reason we have very few people contact us is because I have been open about it on our profile. But that is the only effect. I can still get hard, can still last and have a lot of fun. If anyone has seen us in other places on cam, they will know I can rise to the occasion.

Cancer is a different ball game. The removal of the prostate will normally lead to total impotence. The removal nearly always damages the nerves in the area. My brother has stage 4 prostate cancer, he is unable to perform at all other than orally or digitally.

The thing is guys, don't be scared of non ejaculation. Be open and honest, don't try and pull the old "I can dry orgasm" trick, you may be asked to cum normally and that leaves you high and, errr, dry?

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It could also be the result of an enlarged prostrate , so best to get him to check that out too.

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Quote by Rumouruk

I have BPH. Basically an enlarged prostate. It is not cancer. I take a medication for it called Tamsulosin which enlarges the "tubes" to help me to pee better (Dustasteride is another one, but that will reduce libido and give a disinterest in sex) but it also stops liquid ejaculation, not orgasm. Sometimes I get a small amount of ejaculate, but normally nothing. Some people like it because cum can be messy, someone has to clean it up.

But I guess the reason we have very few people contact us is because I have been open about it on our profile. But that is the only effect. I can still get hard, can still last and have a lot of fun. If anyone has seen us in other places on cam, they will know I can rise to the occasion.

Cancer is a different ball game. The removal of the prostate will normally lead to total impotence. The removal nearly always damages the nerves in the area. My brother has stage 4 prostate cancer, he is unable to perform at all other than orally or digitally.

The thing is guys, don't be scared of non ejaculation. Be open and honest, don't try and pull the old "I can dry orgasm" trick, you may be asked to cum normally and that leaves you high and, errr, dry?

Very well said. I have an enlarged prostrate and also taking the same medication. It has also been found that I have very early stage cancer too. They're not doing anything about this, only monitoring for now but the thought of ever losing my prostrate frightens the hell out of me

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A side effect of some medication can make that happen for guys (and women), doesn't take away the feeling and enjoyment just the bodily fluids.
xanaisx

Thats true, I stopped the meds and fluid returned

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Just to add my bit to this topic. I have an enlarged prostate and take medication to help with urinating. The side effect though is that I don't ejaculate, at least not the amount and thickness that I used to produce. It's not a problem though, as I still get an excellent orgasm. I like to say that I get the 'whizz but not the Jizz'

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I take medication for an enlarged prostate. I can still get an erection and I ejaculate. Trouble is it goes into my bladder. Still have a lovely cum, just no messy sperm to clear up.

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This is something I developed the capability of doing when I was quite young. During a massive sex session after cumming many times, my balls would be wrung dry. Sometimes this meant that I couldn't get another orgasm, but often I could carry on and shoot blanks. It can be just as physically enjoyable as when I shoot a load.

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I had prostate cancer about 6 years ago and ended up with a radical prostatectomy (removal of the prostate). One of the nerves that get me hard was cut through during the operation, but with medication (Tadalafil 5mg once a day and Sildenafil - Viagra in common parlance twice a week) this is not a problem. I too have dry orgasms, after being a decent cummer before the op. I have all the sensation, but none of the mess. All i have to add is, Gents, if you think you have a problem, please get tested. 5 minutes of being poked about where the sun don't shine (you might even enjoy it! ) is better than the rest of eternity pushing up daisies!! Ladies, please encourage get your guys to get checked.

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During my last play, I had an orgasm but no ejaculation.

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Yup! I've given a BJ to a guy on several occassions and he had - shall we say - scant out put redface
He said it was because he had so little sex at home that his body had stopped producing the fluid - personally I think he spent too much time wanking! lol
Tracy-Jayne

It happens to me when I wank to much . I Limit myself to every other day and one want 🙄.

Wow im sad . I need a women