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Hi all ..... Am I getting this wrong? I have browsed thru there several times and never found anyone else in there. I see no evidence of new "high quality" viewing etc...
Is this still under construction or simply unused or am i doing something wrong?
Andy confused:
What were you expecting?
There's some easy chairs (sit in mine and you're dead), occassion table service, the guy in the corner reading his paper and muttering. New curtains though, d'you like em?
H.x
(hello, by the way)
Most people move into the main 3 servers. I have to admit I have never seen anyone in there dunno
Is someone in there serving drinks??
Is it clean??
I suggest you make good use of it before the crowds arrive lol
its the waiting room for heaven....unfortunately not SH ..... I mean its possibly the pearly gates heaven.... in fact think the grim reaper was in there last time i was .... unless that was my imaginantion getting carried away with me..OOOOH theres a thought... is everyone hiding from me??
PARANOIA!!! me!! NEVER never i say! what have you heard??????????? lol
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Hi all ..... Am I getting this wrong? I have browsed thru there several times and never found anyone else in there. I see no evidence of new "high quality" viewing etc...
Is this still under construction or simply unused or am i doing something wrong?
Andy confused:

dunno What is the extras lounge anyway???
Les x
confused: :?:
What do you get extra when you go in there ???
wink Phredd
The last i heard....Snoop Dogg was kicking up a stink because he wasn't allowed in there!!
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confused: :?:
What do you get extra when you go in there ???
wink Phredd

Peace and Quiet apparently lol
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confused: :?:
What do you get extra when you go in there ???
wink Phredd

Peace and Quiet apparently lol
Great :lol: I am on my way. Anything for a quiet life :lol:
Phredd
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confused: :?:
What do you get extra when you go in there ???
wink Phredd

Peace and Quiet apparently lol
Has it got a cold shower :?:
Might be useful, after watching some of the cams :lol:
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PARANOIA!!! me!! NEVER never i say! what have you heard??????????? lol

Just cos you have paranoia - doesn't mean they aren't out to get you :confused:
i heard it`s like the waiting room in the matrix......u know the train station...bit.......a transition between this world and the swing chat world......... :shock: ..........i`m never gonna try goin in there...gonna stick to bending the non existant spoon in the comfort of chat 1 biggrin :D
Well if lots of people have been in there but never seen anyone else then maybe with the Sh Extras yo also get an invisibility cloak also, maybe there is lots of people in there but as were all invisible in there we just can't see each other confused Great idea huh, no directing or being nasty to each other or anything lol :lol:
Shaz x
The magazine's are a bit out of date and that receptionist is gonna file her nails down to the quick before long rolleyes
how about getting the rest of the site working first..????? ie. the chat rooms..i still cant log on properly..and yes i have checked software versions etc.....it slow.!! it kicks people, it stalls, in general its unreliable, so why pay for extras untill the site is working as standard.....
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how about getting the rest of the site working first..????? ie. the chat rooms..i still cant log on properly..and yes i have checked software versions etc.....it slow.!! it kicks people, it stalls, in general its unreliable, so why pay for extras untill the site is working as standard.....

:sleeping: rolleyes
The site seems to be working for a huge majority of people so i'm guessing it must be your end thumper.... You was in chat last night so something must be working confused lol
Also i think you need to rant about the chatroom in here instead of in the treads that are running
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/69765.html
without these so called free members who are paying nothing this site would not have been worth having, as there would have been no members here.
no one held a gun to your head and made you pay? i understand its free to join and take a look around and then make the desision to part with your money?? or not.
the extras lounge is for those who have paid for the extras membership.
the stealth cammimg idea was reviewed and the desision was taken to remove that aspect, rightly so. Im sure most members are pleased that this happened as alot of people felt more comfortable with gooing on cam again.
xx lou xxx
when i replyed to the thread it was not a attack to anyone personally hillfolk,
i was mearly saying those who moan about the site not being what they wanted and expect more for their money were aware of what they were getting when they paid their membership.
the so called free members is not actually what some of us are , we are valued members who were given premier membership as part of the take over deal. much like when the building societies changed to banks and the members got a payout lol
i think the old members do support the site, and time will tell when the membership is due for renewal if we all decide to stay or leave. Ther are some old members who are mods and ops that have no payment for helping the site run smoothely.
i was not lecturing, mearly expressing my views just like everyone else.
no where do i recall saying that a member new or old does not have the right to critisise.
i appear to have hit a nerve. it was not me who raised the fact about paying members and those who were granted a stay of exercusion???
my point about the extras lounge being for members who have taken on the extars package was just that????? a reply to why not everyone goes in there, no point to cause anger????
xxx the sexy one xxxx ( seeings as you like to use my name at the end of every other sentance thought that might be more light hearted lol)
who gives a sh1t wether members are free or not I dont care. we are all here for the same (if slightly differant) thing/s. but back to the thread people, what is the point of the extras lounge.
visited loads of times no one their left room.
and i think thats what every one does.
maybee someone should organise an extras friday or something then all could go in and see if their are any benefits.
but I cant see it layout is just the same as the other rooms
maybee its just a sanctury for when you get pissed of with being hassled by the empties
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:!:
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I think if the only thing people have got in common in the extras room is that they have all be coerced into paying more for their service that the rest of us that is why no-one goes in... at least the other rooms are based on particular interests or geographical location IMHO.
So tell me ShropsBICD given the choice would rather go into a room entitled Shrops CD or Extras?

I think u can create rooms in there like on the normal servers but no one goes in there so none get created.
There were 12 in there one night and sgt. bilko was giving lessons on emoticons. lol
strange bunch those hillbilly folk rolleyes
wonder if srg bilko could give lessons on how to chat without screwing up and whispering to the whole universe, or trying to whisper and publicy posting my phone number!"!!!! DOH less alcohol more brain power lol......
Hmm maybe the extras room is the place for me, cant screw it up if no one else is in there can I!
You should have seen it there were icons all over the place especialy when i found the ninja, deathstars flying all over lol .
And i found the borg icon in the forums can u use it in chat i might try it later :borg:
Thanx for the mail hill folk. :cheers:
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who gives a sh1t wether members are free or not I dont care. we are all here for the same (if slightly differant) thing/s. but back to the thread people, what is the point of the extras lounge.
visited loads of times no one their left room.
and i think thats what every one does.
maybee someone should organise an extras friday or something then all could go in and see if their are any benefits.
but I cant see it layout is just the same as the other rooms
maybee its just a sanctury for when you get pissed of with being hassled by the empties.
:!:

Er I give a shit for one.So that's reasoned discussion out of the window then? It's this kind of empty vaccous rhetoric that pisses me off about using the forums it really does.
Perhaps it could have been re-phrased " Payment is not an issue for me, however..." but no. Anyway, back to the thread....
I think if the only thing people have got in common in the extras room is that they have all be coerced into paying more for their service that the rest of us that is why no-one goes in... at least the other rooms are based on particular interests or geographical location IMHO.
So tell me ShropsBICD given the choice would rather go into a room entitled Shrops CD or Extras?
this is where i am going to disagree with you hillfolk.. as much as i get along with both of you....
as you say.. the extra's lounge is empty... why.... because more likely than not they are mingling with and perving at the free members....
is it the free members fault that the extra's lounge is empty... no!!!
but maybe this has made people realise how important the free members are to the site... because as fem put before "without the free members, the site would not nearly be worth as much to the owners as it is"
you want the site to move on..... good for you.... but be careful of what you wish for because some of the faces you look forward to talking to and maybe meeting,whether it is on the forum,the chatrooms, or the ad just may not be here..... then tell me who loses in the long run???
would you have seven stayed around without all the free members here that you clicked with, to start with??? just a thought......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
so for the extra money your paying you feel you should be getting extra shags, or at least getting nearer rolleyes
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strange bunch those hillbilly folk rolleyes

..meaning what?
Sorry markz you have us at a disadvantage. You dont appear to have a profile or ad or pics...very strange.
Why is not having a profile advert or pics strange?
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No no the point is being missed here...
I have probably not made myself clear...The orginal poster was decrying the fact that no-one was in the extras lounge. My point is simply this....
What is the point of having special events to artifically populate the extras lounge when people have nothing in common other than they've paid extra???
All the other rooms are populated by people who have some special interest watersports ..cuckolds etc or some geographical relationship IE NW room..Midlands room etc.
I'm not going on a free loading rant here. It's just that all the nonsense IMHO with the extra features does not bring anyone nearer to getting a shag. It can only be a revenue creating exercise for SH.
My point is if SH needs more revenue i could start charging the free members.
I'm saying no more on the issue and I'm not going to defend what is a heartfelt opinion

well maybe that is where the owners have to think about it more.... make it so attractive that you start making people think.... "yes I ought to take it up" because for me at this point in time it isn't (sorry 4T's)... maybe something like an extra's socials/events (just thinking out loud)
The problem with the charging solution when it comes to it, I still think you may generate some revenue... but you will lose a lot of genuine members.... is that really worth the trade off? are you going to tempt more people in at the rate that you are now if a lot of the people who contribute to the forums and the chatrooms are gone???.........would you kill the golden goose so to speak???
Two other things to bear in minds......
1) Some people won't pay (out of principle - just as an off my head example, give me a reason why should i pay when I know there are other free sites out there)
would it be a loss to the site if some of these people went..... yes
2) Some people can't pay (lack of debit/credit cards for example)
would it be a loss to the site if these people went.... yes
i don't really know how to end this ... so i'll end it here... sorry for no snappy ending...
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx
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ooooh come on guys, its saturday night, lets all go in there and stay in there for at least 15 mins and see if we cant get 1 step nearer to heaven! maybe sleeping and not swinging but if everyone is in here posting and no one is in there lurking?????????????
Well I'll be in for the mnext 15, lets see if any one is brave enough to join me!
I think I’ll post this now, coz I’ll be too pissed later and become unintelligible, again rolleyes
There are valid points on both sides of this argument, well in fact there are three sides to this argument, the third belonging to ‘the management’
As I see it, all the things that have been done to this site since the takeover (please don’t lambaste me guys ok? I know that there are a lot of changes people didn’t like etc. but at the end of the day, apart from getting dark, its happened)
These changes cost money, and lots of it, in fact if you take staffing and bandwidth costs into account, I would imagine, a bloody fortune. :shock:
It is now a commercial venture who’s one and only aim has, by its very nature, to be profit. Now don’t get me wrong, I have no inside information on the financial status of SH plc, but I do know a bit about business, in fact I know quite a lot about business (did a home study course from the university of Asabergainia, cost me 99p and a postage stamp rotflmao) and I would be very surprised if this venture is anywhere close to showing a profit yet.
If it is, well done guys :thumbup: , but somehow I doubt it. So how long, as a business are you prepared to go on making improvements without the return? Not long I would say, so what’s your next move? Well if your were ruthless enough, that’s easy, wind up the fees, set separate charges for the use of all and any of the separate areas of the site :scared: and make all the people who made this site possible in the first place pay and renege on your promise, easy peasy lemon squeezy.
Hey if my profitability and livelihood depended on it, too bloody right I would.
But have they? No, instead what they have done is introduced some entirely voluntary “Extras” that no-one is forced into buying, no ones twisting anyone’s arm here, its just like Dixon’s, you see it on the shelf, you either want it or you don’t. if you do, you buy it, and just like Dixons, if once you get it home and you decide that actually, the special features were not quite what you though, you take it up with the management. You don’t go storming into the department store and start arguing with the other customers.
IMHO
dunno