Glad your night was a big success Bignetsuke, we had our first 3some nearly twelve months ago the guy we met made us feel so relaxed and comfortable we,ve met him 7 more times since, it helped our confidence to try meeting other guy,s then we progressed to our first munch and then a club where we had our first 4 some :lol: we,re taking things at our own pace and will be moving into trying new things sometime soon , baz was a bit more shy than me but he feels he,ll be able to try other things now he feels at ease with the things we do ...so good luck and here,s to your next meet. Ann & Baz xx :happy: