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1,223,763 members and just 43 votes........
Maybe they don't know they can vote, without having to pass comment too.
Come on folks you can post a secret ballot here, unlike in the house of commons
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
1,223,763 members and just 43 votes........
Maybe they don't know they can vote, without having to pass comment too.
Come on folks you can post a secret ballot here, unlike in the house of commons
I think it puts the whole thing into perspective, the overwhelming majority of site members just don't care. It would appear only to be important to a handful of forum regulars.
For the record, I voted to merge the Introduction forum into the Cafe as it's rather pointless as it stands now. I believe the JFF forum should stand alone as for me it would otherwise clog up the Cafe with stuff I wouldn't want to have to wade through.
:thumbup: to Dave_Notts for his earlier excellent post regarding the CA forum. That's exactly how I feel about it, as long as members debate in an adult fashion.
The following link is a thread from 2006, regarded by some as a high point in the Forum. See Scandal's quote that "it's on its arse basically"
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/90518/20.html
It shows that all the things that are currently being said about the forum were being said back in 2006, the only difference being the people saying it!
On a more serious note I do think to save these forums they should all be merged.
They are starting to look a little lifeless and uncared for and just there. When I first started to use the forums they were lively, many a day you had to go to page two of the “Cafe” to see responses to posts people had made that day.
New threads were in abundance, today I looked and the “cafe responses on page 1 go back 10 days. It makes all the forums feel nobody really cares anymore if they are here or not.
I know the reasons they were split but I don’t really think it has made a difference you will always get people stepping out of line. I also think having them together they will be easier to moderate, sometimes even the regular posters used to try and turn a thread back on track or crack a joke.
The old forums were a mixed bad of the whole community here, good or bad so I would like to see that returned.
They are starting to look a little lifeless and uncared for and just there. When I first started to use the forums they were lively, many a day you had to go to page two of the “Cafe” to see responses to posts people had made that day.
New threads were in abundance, today I looked and the “cafe responses on page 1 go back 10 days. It makes all the forums feel nobody really cares anymore if they are here or not.
I know the reasons they were split but I don’t really think it has made a difference you will always get people stepping out of line. I also think having them together they will be easier to moderate, sometimes even the regular posters used to try and turn a thread back on track or crack a joke.
The old forums were a mixed bad of the whole community here, good or bad so I would like to see that returned.
Sex God
Quote by Ben_welshminx
I think a double merge will mean the introductions get read and the fun stuff will lighten the cafe atmosphere.
:thumbup:
Sex God
I've been away for the weekend. (I had a lovely time!) 
However, in previous times, when I've been away for the weekend, I've come back and had to wade through a couple of pages in The Cafe. Today, there are ten threads with new posts since Friday. Pretty much says it all for me. Back in the day everything was in here... the nonsense, the debates, the intros and that's what kept it going for me. I rarely venture into CA. I don't spend a lot of time in the fun forum and I never go into the intro forum. I'd like to see it all back as one and then it would be moving and liven up a bit so that when you go away for a couple of days there's actually something to read when you get back.
:mrgreen:
However, in previous times, when I've been away for the weekend, I've come back and had to wade through a couple of pages in The Cafe. Today, there are ten threads with new posts since Friday. Pretty much says it all for me. Back in the day everything was in here... the nonsense, the debates, the intros and that's what kept it going for me. I rarely venture into CA. I don't spend a lot of time in the fun forum and I never go into the intro forum. I'd like to see it all back as one and then it would be moving and liven up a bit so that when you go away for a couple of days there's actually something to read when you get back.
:mrgreen:
Sex God
oh it has happened!! :twisted:
Sex God
Yayyyyy just got to hope for the CA to reintegrate into mainstream forum now but that all depends on the radicals from the fringe of the site to come to enlightenment, bunch of weirdo's they are 
Sex God
Quote by flower411
It makes the forums look used and busy again. so far :thumbup:
When, in fact they`re just full of vacuous nonsense !!
Not unlike the CA then :lol2:
Quote by flower411
I think a double merge will mean the introductions get read and the fun stuff will lighten the cafe atmosphere.
Just read this again !!! :giggle:
Haven`t seen an introduction since the merge and I`d suggest that your other observation might be a wee bit incorrect ....haven`t seen quite so much vitriol in the cafe for some time !!
Stop posting it then!! :giggle:
Quote by flower411
I think a double merge will mean the introductions get read and the fun stuff will lighten the cafe atmosphere.
Just read this again !!! :giggle:
Haven`t seen an introduction since the merge and I`d suggest that your other observation might be a wee bit incorrect ....haven`t seen quite so much vitriol in the cafe for some time !!
Stop posting it then!! :giggle:
Oh !! What larks !!
See, that lightened the cafe atmosphere
