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Quote by PoloLady
Why do we have to choose?
I'm with Polo on this one.
it's one of them cases where I think you can have your cake and eat it.
Personally, if we want instant fun then we go clubbing, the rest of the time we have friends and see where things go, if they don't lead to playing then no big deal, we've still got the friendship. Why choose?
Gem. x
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Quote by little gem
Why do we have to choose?
I'm with Polo on this one.
it's one of them cases where I think you can have your cake and eat it.
Personally, if we want instant fun then we go clubbing, the rest of the time we have friends and see where things go, if they don't lead to playing then no big deal, we've still got the friendship. Why choose?
Gem. x
I'm with you 2 on this.
Clubs, drinks, social meet and see what happens.
I personally like a mixture of both.
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Quote by thisispoo
Don't get me wrong we certainly like a bit of both, sometimes its nice to go out socialy see what happens
But sometimes we just want a little list of fuck buddies, someone we can call go round do what we need and go
But what do others think ?
is it better to only play with friends or people you know, or is it good to simply have a session with a complete stranger
been on here for a while, know some people but always looking to say hi to more !
:taz:luke and net xxx
Complete strangers! :twisted:
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friendship first and formost for us.
don't get me wrong, each to thier own, would never condem anyone for enjoying a chance encounter that leads to more (chance would be a fine thing)
but for us there is a lot of trust required before we play, I mean we would have to have had at least ................... oh at the very least .............. one meet :giggle:
seriously though we make it a policy not to play on first meets onless it's someone who we have chatted to online / cam / phone for quite a while and we feel we have got to know them.
like someone already said, its a matter of personal choice.
don't get me wrong, each to thier own, would never condem anyone for enjoying a chance encounter that leads to more (chance would be a fine thing)
but for us there is a lot of trust required before we play, I mean we would have to have had at least ................... oh at the very least .............. one meet :giggle:
seriously though we make it a policy not to play on first meets onless it's someone who we have chatted to online / cam / phone for quite a while and we feel we have got to know them.
like someone already said, its a matter of personal choice.
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Quote by Kiss_Me
I can only talk about what I prefer - and that's friends. Then again if you have an 'F Buddy' they aren't a complete stranger, so therefore a friend anyway?
Is the definition of friend 'I know them?' No, it has to be more................'keep your friends close and your enemies closer.' Who said that?
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A stranger is just a friend you havent fucked yet :shock:
I have a fantasy that will remain unfulfilled I think
I want to meet a guy in a hotel bar *, have a drink, not say a word and then up to the room and fuck like animals and then leave having not said anything much to each other and leave it at that.
* impossible as to enjoy sex I generally I need to know a bit about the guy to feel safe and attracted to him..like him from having talked to him and had time to formulate a positive opinion about him ! I'm so awkward. The only way around this is for someone I know and trust to arrange a 'stranger' for me.... but I can't trust others to know what I like.
Oh well... I'll have to choose 'friend' then. But 'fuck' sure does have its appeal.
I want to meet a guy in a hotel bar *, have a drink, not say a word and then up to the room and fuck like animals and then leave having not said anything much to each other and leave it at that.
* impossible as to enjoy sex I generally I need to know a bit about the guy to feel safe and attracted to him..like him from having talked to him and had time to formulate a positive opinion about him ! I'm so awkward. The only way around this is for someone I know and trust to arrange a 'stranger' for me.... but I can't trust others to know what I like.
Oh well... I'll have to choose 'friend' then. But 'fuck' sure does have its appeal.
Quote by girlonamission
I have a fantasy that will remain unfulfilled I think
I want to meet a guy in a hotel bar *, have a drink, not say a word and then up to the room and fuck like animals and then leave having not said anything much to each other and leave it at that.
Which bar were you contemplating :rascal:
I like to get to know anyone who I may potentialy get to play with if I ever get lucky but I'm not sure I want to know that much about them....
I have many people whom I have met from this site and whom I would refer to as friends and I would given the chance indulge in some adult persuits with them :rascal: but generally its not a requirement for me to know that much about them...
It seems to make me out as being a very shallow person who's just here for the sex I know but if that was the case I would have flounced outa here a loooooooong time ago
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Quote by girlonamission
I have a fantasy that will remain unfulfilled I think
I want to meet a guy in a hotel bar *, have a drink, not say a word and then up to the room and fuck like animals and then leave having not said anything much to each other and leave it at that.
.
I've done that albeit with my ex hubby. It was a little game we played one night and it was very hot :twisted:
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Quote by duncanlondon
A fuck is someone who will become a stranger :cry:
Oh dear, not always :therethere:
