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Genuine Advice needed please....

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Quote by FurbyHug
I have been to a club twice... i only went to loook around and i didnt mean tobut i did end up in the group room... with 4 couples.... but even that was strange.. very polite.. very 'er.. can i just put it there.. ' and you wouldnt be a dear an suck my dick...'..... i think i like the idea of the place caled chams.. the girls inthe mids room have talked about it lots.. but again its down to walking in on my own...! my friends dont go into or want to do the things i do.... which is why this site is awsesome.. makes me feel normal and not some kind of sex fiend.... cos before this site.. and i knew nothing and thought it was only for the over 50's what you see on telly you know... i would end up gettin mashed.. and waking up countiing head.s.. this is alot safer .. an alot more civilised.! !...
Any clubs in the cambridgeshire area that can be recommened would be great... that wont immdiately think.. fresh meat.. cos im single.. bi and up for a giggle... bad combination !!!
lol biggrin :P rolleyes

Someone innocent coined a phrase for this at camp this weekend. "Saga Sex" :lol:
Quote by winchwench
I have been to a club twice... i only went to loook around and i didnt mean tobut i did end up in the group room... with 4 couples.... but even that was strange.. very polite.. very 'er.. can i just put it there.. ' and you wouldnt be a dear an suck my dick...'..... i think i like the idea of the place caled chams.. the girls inthe mids room have talked about it lots.. but again its down to walking in on my own...! my friends dont go into or want to do the things i do.... which is why this site is awsesome.. makes me feel normal and not some kind of sex fiend.... cos before this site.. and i knew nothing and thought it was only for the over 50's what you see on telly you know... i would end up gettin mashed.. and waking up countiing head.s.. this is alot safer .. an alot more civilised.! !...
Any clubs in the cambridgeshire area that can be recommened would be great... that wont immdiately think.. fresh meat.. cos im single.. bi and up for a giggle... bad combination !!!
lol biggrin :P rolleyes

Someone innocent coined a phrase for this at camp this weekend. "Saga Sex" :lol:
I want some more Saga sex - Ive not had any for at least six days :D
Regards
Harry Jones
Hehehehe,,,,,,, I work for a company that competes with saga!!! and wins every day........!! i shall ask the customers morrow, who come from saga... hey.. do you have saga sex!!! whats it like... do me do me!!!
hehehe...xx
ive never heard of it i work with disabled children
Quote by Newlad4u
ive never heard of it i work with disabled children

Never heard of what?
Quote by Newlad4u
saga sex ?

Sex for the over 50's? What's you working with disabled children got to do with it though?
they was just saying what they do 4 work
Firstly...Welcome....Secondly, don't stress the meeting part. I felt the same at my first few meets but i always make it clear, like most people do, that there is no pressure. Drinks or coffee first, most times I don't even go out to sleep with who ever it is i'm meeting.....but there are times when you'll meet someone who u just want to jump on!!!
If I really feel like I don't want to take things further, I just say so, politely of course.
It's your body, your time, value both highly enough to say 'no' and you'll be just fine. Just go at your own pace...
Most people won't have any expectations, just antcipation.....that's the fun bit.
xx
thats all very true its all down to ur self u call the shots
Even though I'm a newby furby I would agree with what's been said. Do it in your time. I personally , even travelling down from edinburgh, would rather you had a coffee/tea/whatever and got to know me that way, then told me it wasn't going to happensmile I'd be devastated cos you're gorgeous but I wouldn't think the worse of you,. Or that it was gonna happen which would be yeehaa:))!! Same as anybody thinking you're a slag for being lively, sexual being!! how old fashioned is that? And in that frame , everybody here would be in the same boat anyway!!
and I hate vanilla anyway;)
im from the surrey / london area and i love meeting new people for lunch / dinner social events xx