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duncanlondon
Sex God
Quote by Peanut
Anyway as soon as we'd begun sex she was on the phone

Wasn't that a bit offputting?
bolt
Alarm bells began ringing from day 2.
She was just a very insecure and jealous woman. She would phone several times in succesion, checking up on me. It was awful.
AS I said I didn't quite realise it was something else for a few weeks, but the sex was pretty fab and that kept me deluded for a long time.
Eventually I realised she was 'screwy', ie mentally unstable and resorting to sex as an outlet. It was a tough one to handle.
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Peanut
Anyway as soon as we'd begun sex she was on the phone

Wasn't that a bit offputting?
bolt
Would have been worse if it was on loudspeakers, I bet :giggle:
Unknown User
Quote by Peanut
Anyway as soon as we'd begun sex she was on the phone

Wasn't that a bit offputting?
bolt
Im sorry but I have just choked on my vodka n coke....
peanut...u r fab this week....why have you hidden your light under a bushel for sooo long...you have SO comeout of your shell!! (peanut....shell ....geddit! :giggle: :giggle: )
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
Anyway as soon as we'd begun sex she was on the phone

Wasn't that a bit offputting?
bolt
Im sorry but I have just choked on my vodka n coke....
peanut...u r fab this week....why have you hidden your light under a bushel for sooo long...you have SO comeout of your shell!! (peanut....shell ....geddit! :giggle: :giggle: )
Well given that I'm surrounded by servers and it's very warm, I suppose you could say I was a bit salty and I'm very definitely roasted.
As for my light, well I put that down to some old and faded batteries.
And I don't know why but I had this sudden image of a bushel with a brazilian. It's amazing what goes through one's head whilst high on painkillers biggrin
Misskitty_2008
Sex God
Hi Sarah, thanks for posting, I have got a spare sim now, and will be more cautious to whom I give my number. In the last couple of days I haven't heard from this person, so hopefully I wont.
I appreciate what you said about using each others accounts, but we don't actually use them, we just read each others mail, as we have no secrets and trust each other. I would never use his account as I have my own.
If I do get any more mail, I will use the block button. I just didn't want to upset him any further!
Anyway, thanks again x
Quote by Sarah
I have recently been accused of leading someone on.. but I didn't. Everyone that knows me knows that I tell things straight, I don't wind people up. This person took what I said in a completely different way, and even posted an email I sent into a chatroom to embarrass me and to try and upset my other half, not knowing that we have access to each others accounts and email, and we read both all the time. It didn't work, and even though my other half had to talk to him personally to tell him to back off, it took a while for the penny to drop. He had been phoning (silly me for giving him my number, but even my other half thought he was ok as he had met him.) He had been emailing me and texting all the time... was starting to worry me...
Has anyone else on here been stalked, or fallen prey to stalker-ish people.. How did you deal with it? I would be interested to find out. I won't name and shame, but it really has put the willies up me.. no funny comments please... oh.. go one then!
If you don't want to post.. pm please xx thanks xx

I am tired today, and maybe I am missing something here.
BUT
1. Block this guy from your email account
2. Use the ignore button in your mail box and block him
3. Contact your mobile phone user and ask for a pay as you go free sim card, (t mobile sent me two recently) and use this as already has been said as your swinging number, and take it out of your phone at all other times, when you are not looking for meets.
4. Why when you have a single females account does another person have access to your account as you to theirs?, as it is in the AUP that is only allowed with permission of the site admin.
Your account is for your use and your use only, no third party is allowed to activate or use your account without previous consent from our Admin team
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If you block this person from your email and mailbox on this site, half your problem will be gone, and the Mods can get on with other more pressing things.
I block people all the time who don't take no!
Getting back in my box now.
Misskitty_2008
Sex God
Thank you for replying BF, I must admit I have lost sleep because of this over the last few days, it did affect me more than I thought.. didn't sleep too well last night, but hopefully this will improve.
I am quite techie, and so is my other half, so if anything does happen, at least we have the tools to work with..
Thanks again x
Quote by buckingfabe
In a previous life when I went into chat rooms I had a stalker who was totally malicious. No idea why I was the target but whenever I was in a chat room chatting with friends this guy would turn up. Him and his friends would clone my user name and make up totally false and obscene profiles for me complete with carefully edited photos. I was a whore who worked for loose change etc etc and this attention was relentless. You can say that this was all typed and online and therefore not harmful but you would be wrong. It was very hurtful and completely ruined my enjoyment of chatting. How did I deal with it? Some friends and I turned detective and started to track this person in an effort to find out their ISP etc and once we found this out and confronted the person they began to back off, especially when the Police were mentioned.
It only really stopped when the user rooms closed down, but I have every sympathy with anyone who is having unwanted attention from someone on line because it IS real and it IS painful and harmful and don't let anyone tell you any different.
Misskitty_2008
Sex God
Quote by Peanut
Anyway as soon as we'd begun sex she was on the phone

Wasn't that a bit offputting?
bolt :giggle:
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Misskitty_2008
In the last couple of days I haven't heard from this person, so hopefully I wont.

Quote by Misskitty_2008
Thank you for replying BF, I must admit I have lost sleep because of this over the last few days, it did affect me more than I thought.. didn't sleep too well last night, but hopefully this will improve.

:confused: If you've not heard from him in the last couple of days, why would you lose sleep about it in the last few days? I'd have thought not hearing anything would have induced relief on your part and helped you to sleep better?
Misskitty_2008
Sex God
It's still the anticipation, which won't go away for a while... every time my phone rings.. or when a text comes through.... it will take a while for that to settle down...
Quote by Freckledbird
In the last couple of days I haven't heard from this person, so hopefully I wont.

Quote by Misskitty_2008
Thank you for replying BF, I must admit I have lost sleep because of this over the last few days, it did affect me more than I thought.. didn't sleep too well last night, but hopefully this will improve.

:confused: If you've not heard from him in the last couple of days, why would you lose sleep about it in the last few days? I'd have thought not hearing anything would have induced relief on your part and helped you to sleep better?
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Misskitty_2008
It's still the anticipation, which won't go away for a while... every time my phone rings.. or when a text comes through.... it will take a while for that to settle down...

You have a new sim though? So he can't text or 'phone you.