I'm sure I've seen it mentioned somewhere before - on this site, or perhaps I'm imagining things!
Anyway, you're famous !
and deservedly so. Far more than that bloody girl who got everyone to pay for her credit card debt 
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Have I got it all wrong?!
Quote by Reese
Hi, all~
I'm going to try and break my form in this thread and try my best make it brief (and no doubt fail miserably).
First of all, sincere apologies to all for my rant last night. I was reacting to my partner Vix being so upset and, to be fair, I'd not read the PMs from Jags. And, Jags, the "unfriendliness" of your post was something I certainly deserved after going off on one as I did.
However, I still cannot agree with the decision that was made there. I had read the post you'd referred to about links when I first joined the forum and, from that, came to the conclusion that it was acceptable to include a link to our personal website. I'd read...
The weblink on your profile is there for others to find out more about you and possibly see pics of you. It is not there for you to link with all and sundry, ie football teams and subscription sites. If you have such a link, can you please remove it.
Mal
...and, from this, I figured that: 1) it was indeed our , 2) visitors got to see and 3) it most definitely gave them the opportunity to find out , to the point of learning the somewhat personal details of when she was first diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis - there's even see a of Vix telling her story!
I'd seen links to personal pages in others' signatures, so I gathered that it was OK to include one in our own. One thing I don't understand is why no questions were raised about my own signature - it only became an issue later on when Vix joined the site. The fact that she was singled out, and not me, no doubt added to her discomfort here.
I've really enjoyed participating in these forums and the people here all seem so wonderful and genuine... :~) ...my comfort and confidence has increased dramatically since I joined (thank you all).
But this is something that I want to share with my partner and, if she's uncomfortable with it, then so am I. I guess all we can do at this point is talk it over, as a couple, and decide what we're going to do.
Apologies again for my incendiary post last night, thanks for your understanding, and thanks for listening to me rant.
Cheers,
~Randy
I've been out all day and just got home... am very heartened to read this post, so thanks! Perhaps I just hadn't seen your signature, contrary to common opinion we Mods don't read every single post so that may explain why I didn't pick it up until now - in fact I didn't even know that you and Vix were a couple. So, no intention to 'single out' Vix despite the impression she may have received. :shock:
I don't think I want to debate the 'rights' or 'wrongs' of the signature weblink just now, it's just past midnight and I been out on a long long drive since early this morning so maybe, just maybe (!) my rational articulate mind is on shut down. However, be assured that I am not offended nor upset.
You are both more than welcome to air your views and opinions (that is the strength of this place) and I certainly do hope that you both continue along whatever journey you have started on here.
:P
