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Have you ever cheated?

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Have you ever cheated on a partner?

I have cheated on most of my partners. Not proud of it at all. Opportunities came my way and I had little or no doubts about enjoying myself.
I have cheated in the past. I don’t regret it though to be honest as in the end it turned out to be the way to end a relationship that neither of us was happy in.
I would not cheat now as my partner and I have no need.. we both have the option of playing with other people anyway.
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I would be lying if I said I hadn't.
I haven't.... redface
much...

In retrospect I feel I should say that that was in the past and I have definitely learned from my mistakes. Do as you would be done by.....if it is at all possible....
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I have cheated in the past. I don’t regret it though to be honest as in the end it turned out to be the way to end a relationship that neither of us was happy in.

Hear hear. You are so right WBB. If I hadn't met the guy I met I may still be there, a dried up old prune.
I asked her "Have you ever been unfaithful?"
She answered. "Not intellectually."
She's French. confused
Nope. Never.
Of course, in order to cheat you need to have two people find you attractive, and... well, you know what they say about lightning... :shock:
I have never cheated, but a former girlfriend had been cheated on by her ex-husband (yes I know, no surprise there rolleyes ). He had always said he didn't want children, & although she would have loved to have had kids, she agreed because she loved him & thought he loved her in return.
He worked overseas on contracts most of the time, & one day she decided to do him a favour by clearing out old paperwork from the room he used as an office at their home (where she lived all the time). And came across some paperwork which she realised meant her husband owned another property in the country where he was working at the time...... & that he was obviously covering the costs of someone living there as well. To cut a long story short (waffle waffle...), they got divorced but the nastiest bit is........ his lover had had a miscarriage a couple of years before, but finally succeeded in getting pregnant. Their divorce came too late for my ex-girlfriend, as by then she was of menopausal age. sad What a rat!. mad
Well... have i cheated?.. hmmm.... well now..
erm no??. confused
okay okay... so i have... infact.. if im honest.. (there ya go magik.. being too honest again) at the risk of being lynched ive never actually been faithful.
I guess i see it like this.. *lifes too short.. *whatever happens happens.. *its all about having your cake and eating it, thats the truth after all isnt it? ..*You have to do what you want to do.. *you cant cover cheating up as anything else apart from what it is.
The harsh truth is i cheat/have cheated because i love meeting new people, love being sexual and find life in the fast lane more of a buzz... Selfish i know but how many people who cheat are honest about it?.haa haa contradiction in terms i know.
i think im a sex addict.. however I can already hear some people saying right now "no your not, your a wanker"
I like you magik s.
you speak sense, at least to me. xx
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Well... have i cheated?.. hmmm.... well now..
erm no??. confused
okay okay... so i have... infact.. if im honest.. (there ya go magik.. being too honest again) at the risk of being lynched ive never actually been faithful.
I guess i see it like this.. *lifes too short.. *whatever happens happens.. *its all about having your cake and eating it, thats the truth after all isnt it? ..*You have to do what you want to do.. *you cant cover cheating up as anything else apart from what it is.
The harsh truth is i cheat/have cheated because i love meeting new people, love being sexual and find life in the fast lane more of a buzz... Selfish i know but how many people who cheat are honest about it?.haa haa contradiction in terms i know.
i think im a sex addict.. however I can already hear some people saying right now "no your not, your a wanker"

took the words right out of my mouth