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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hiya both and :welcome: to the forum :smile:
This subject has been discussed a fair bit here over the years - basically there is no feedback system and probably never will.
Anaisxx
wave and :welcome: to the mad house that is the forums!
bit of an emotive subject on here is verification....you might find some rather differing opinions on the subject if ya lurl round for long enough lol
not a chance in hell,you have to use your own judgement ..but how would you feel if you come after a meet and find someone has slatted you on a gossip column aka feedback...welcome to SH btw!
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And welcome to SH wave

I was just looking for that thread - where ya dig that up? :lol2: :lol2:
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And welcome to SH wave

I was just looking for that thread - where ya dig that up? :lol2: :lol2:
Deep in the bowels of SH Towers :-)
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And welcome to SH wave

I was just looking for that thread - where ya dig that up? :lol2: :lol2:
Deep in the bowels of SH Towers :-)
Bit early in the day for such a scary place Steve :scared:
btw welcome Toricat :wave:
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And welcome to SH wave

I was just looking for that thread - where ya dig that up? :lol2: :lol2:
Deep in the bowels of SH Towers :-)
I didn't get as far as the Bowels confused :? :?
Not part of the mod spec :giggle:
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Deep in the bowels of SH Towers :-)

Bit early in the day for such a scary place Steve :scared:
btw welcome Toricat wave
Some days my bravery knows no bounds :lol2:
Hi Toricats wave Welcome to SH
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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx

As by now you no doubt know the answer. lol
I for one believe it works, but the powers to be do not agree. A feedback system similar to that on E Bay would work just fine. In other words you CANNOT leave any negative feedback, for the reasons that have been mentioned here.
But if a member has a couple of positives you know they are a trusted person, for in this case meeting.
I think people have not understood that concept and they feel people will slag others off for any reason. That is not the idea of feedback. It is to give people ( if they so wish ), a chance to know that person does turn up. For the ammount of timewasters out there, and most have dealt with them at one time or another,this idea does weed them out.
Still no matter what I say, it just ain't gonna happen on this site, which I for one feel is a shame....My opinion of course. :lol:
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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx

As by now you no doubt know the answer. lol
I for one believe it works, but the powers to be do not agree. A feedback system similar to that on E Bay would work just fine. In other words you CANNOT leave any negative feedback, for the reasons that have been mentioned here.
But if a member has a couple of positives you know they are a trusted person, for in this case meeting.
I think people have not understood that concept and they feel people will slag others off for any reason. That is not the idea of feedback. It is to give people ( if they so wish ), a chance to know that person does turn up. For the ammount of timewasters out there, and most have dealt with them at one time or another,this idea does weed them out.
Still no matter what I say, it just ain't gonna happen on this site, which I for one feel is a shame....My opinion of course. :lol:
Sorry Kent's I have to disagree here. On Ebay you are leaving a rating for a "thing" and how fast you got that "thing" and whether the communication was satisfactory if you had a question about that "thing"
Here at SH we are people not things. I don't want someone who hardly knows me to presume they know enough about me to give a rating to someone else as to whether I'm any good or not confused
xx
Haven't we covered this before??
innocent :whistling: :whistling:
on other sites isnt it the case where the person you are verifying are able to vet the ones that go on their profile to edit out the less than desirable ones and just post the more flattering verifications
is this really what you want ... almost false verifications where only the ggod is posted and the negative ones are ignored .... not for me thanks i would rather do without
I know that if there was a system, Sara would call me a short-arsed minger....
.... and id tell you all she snores and her feet smell...
deecee you shouldnt have been sniffing my feet then :twisted:
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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx

As by now you no doubt know the answer. lol
I for one believe it works, but the powers to be do not agree. A feedback system similar to that on E Bay would work just fine. In other words you CANNOT leave any negative feedback, for the reasons that have been mentioned here.
But if a member has a couple of positives you know they are a trusted person, for in this case meeting.
I think people have not understood that concept and they feel people will slag others off for any reason. That is not the idea of feedback. It is to give people ( if they so wish ), a chance to know that person does turn up. For the ammount of timewasters out there, and most have dealt with them at one time or another,this idea does weed them out.
Still no matter what I say, it just ain't gonna happen on this site, which I for one feel is a shame....My opinion of course. :lol:
Sorry Kent's I have to disagree here. On Ebay you are leaving a rating for a "thing" and how fast you got that "thing" and whether the communication was satisfactory if you had a question about that "thing"
Here at SH we are people not things. I don't want someone who hardly knows me to presume they know enough about me to give a rating to someone else as to whether I'm any good or not confused
xx
No probs fire but.... what about something like " turned up for meet as arranged " ?
There is nothing negative there, only a positive that person had indeed turned up. Nothing more...nothing less. Not talking about people saying great shag, or words along those lines.
Still no point talking about it, we both know it is not going to happen, unless I win the lottery and buy the site. :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Still no point talking about it, we both know it is not going to happen, unless I win the lottery and buy the site. lol :lol: :lol:

Sometimes you are wiser than I give you credit for!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: wink
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Still no point talking about it, we both know it is not going to happen, unless I win the lottery and buy the site. lol :lol: :lol:

Sometimes you are wiser than I give you credit for!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: wink
Pure accident :lol:
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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hi welcome to swinging heaven,
can i ask about this? ...
We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
when you say sister site,where do you mean? heaven dating? isnt that for people to date?
xx fem xx
One man's meat is another man's poison..
You should make your own mind up about someone. If you are always guided by someone else's comment you are destined for an unhappy life.
Keep SH free from verification!
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We've just joined this site. We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
We've just noticed something.....
Where on earth is all the feedback for the sites members?
On every other site we've belonged to, there is a facility to leave feedback for members you've met and vice versa. A sure way of establishing whether the couple or single guy etc. are genuine and who they say they are!
We can't believe a site of this size doesn't have a facility for this. We'd be interested to hear what other members have to say on this subject.
mwahxxxxxxxxx Tori's xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hi welcome to swinging heaven,
can i ask about this? ...
We're not new to the scene and have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.
when you say sister site,where do you mean? heaven dating? isnt that for people to date?
xx fem xx
No, not Hd lol the other one wink lol
:confused2: what other one??
xx fem xx
just come into the forum and ask...hey we're about to play with nwstuffmypussycpl anyone got any opinions on em, sure there will be someone who will post an opinion or two :giggle:
just kidding, gut instinct helps a lot, as does good communication between all parties.
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Haven't we covered this before??
innocent :whistling: :whistling:

Are you sure it was covered in sufficient depth though? :undecided:
Welcome Toricats. Enjoy.
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Hi and :welcome: to the site.
Nola x
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Sister Site? What Sister Site? confused

Where all the subs go - it's run my Mother Superior! :twisted:
Don't think it's Dating Heaven - is it?
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.... have been members of the sister site to this one for 3 years.

Does that mean I'm your brother-in-law? dunno lol
:welcome: to the Cafe!