I really have no idea. My fella was on this site, constantly talking about some burd called Karen (whoever that is) and said I should join in.
We were 'swinging' before coming to SH, tho. But it is the most refreshing place I have ever been.
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tallnhairy wrote:
You are right....Portsmouth is not far from me...... I was born there actually though I don't like to admit it too much as that makes me a scummer! hehehe
I suppose being nervous is part of the fun and I'm sure you lovely people would welcome any new people!
MikeNorth wrote something about the NW munch earlier in the thread - but I couldn't find it to quote - but my answer is: The only problem with it being so far away is the money situation.... I have none! I know it's easy to drive there or catch a train but that costs money...... donations are welcome! (only kidding)
You should attend the next Portsmouth Munch, I think that reasonably near, but I hopeless without a map I did my first Munch alone and was looked after by Heather after I arrived, the next one I helped organise and took Mrs TnH to. You would not be alone at a munch, everyone, even the couples, are there to socialise and find about everyone else. The best bit is you already got something to start a conversation on, SH, then lead on from there to other topics and you away...
You are right....Portsmouth is not far from me...... I was born there actually though I don't like to admit it too much as that makes me a scummer! hehehe
I suppose being nervous is part of the fun and I'm sure you lovely people would welcome any new people!
MikeNorth wrote something about the NW munch earlier in the thread - but I couldn't find it to quote - but my answer is: The only problem with it being so far away is the money situation.... I have none! I know it's easy to drive there or catch a train but that costs money...... donations are welcome! (only kidding)
Sex God
Ah well, Only me, never mind - enjoy the Portsmouth munch if you get there. And keep doing the lottery...if you can afford that 
Mike.
Mike.
Sexlightened
Same here using Google. Don't have an ad either and haven't attended any munches.
To be honest I'm more interested in getting to know people and like many others have been struck by the friendliness of it all. As to how it will develop I'm not too sure. It will be fun to find out !
To be honest I'm more interested in getting to know people and like many others have been struck by the friendliness of it all. As to how it will develop I'm not too sure. It will be fun to find out !
Sex God
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I'm seriously thinking about going to a Munch although they are always too far away for me to attend and I'd feel an idiot going on my own
You can't go to a Munch on your own, it simply isn't possible. OK, you might travel there unaccompanied, but on arrival you will instantly be among friends who will want to welcome you and get to know you and definitely will not leave you sitting in a corner by yourself. I speak from experience, the Munchers are the greatest crowd of people you will ever meet.
As for them being too far away, people travel from all over the country to Munches, so if you want to go to one that's far away, put the feelers out for a lift and there'll probably be someone near you who will give you one.
Ice xxx
Warming the Bed
I got into swinging via the adult contacts chat lines.
Actually met some single girls, and had some fun, then saw ads in the paper whihc had couples.
Also met up and had fun.
As for the web, I found most of the sites were rubbihs, but as soon as I saw this site I could tell there were genuine people here.
Ok, there are the tossers toom but that can't be helped!
I agree, that being nervous is part of it, that's part of the buzz.
Maybe get to know people via PMs or the chat room - basically I would say get stuck in -it's an adventure, and if you fancy trying it, it's better to try it and find you either do or don't like it, than not try it and always wonder!
Gordon
p.s. I can tell you that you'll prob enjoy it - I know that's what happend to me! lol
Actually met some single girls, and had some fun, then saw ads in the paper whihc had couples.
Also met up and had fun.
As for the web, I found most of the sites were rubbihs, but as soon as I saw this site I could tell there were genuine people here.
Ok, there are the tossers toom but that can't be helped!
I agree, that being nervous is part of it, that's part of the buzz.
Maybe get to know people via PMs or the chat room - basically I would say get stuck in -it's an adventure, and if you fancy trying it, it's better to try it and find you either do or don't like it, than not try it and always wonder!
Gordon
p.s. I can tell you that you'll prob enjoy it - I know that's what happend to me! lol
Hi there. As as fellow newbie (since March), it took me two weeks of going into the chatroom every single night before I had the guts to talk. I started posting in the forum in June.
I believe you are who you are and should be proud of you. Have confidence in yourself as a person and most importantly, have respect for yourself. Self belief is important and everyone has their own positive elements of themselves as well as personality.
The regulars in the chatroom are normal people who share the same like-mindedness and are non-judgemental. I have found the chatroom very friendly and it has been a great way of making new friends.
The most important message is just to relax and have fun.
I believe you are who you are and should be proud of you. Have confidence in yourself as a person and most importantly, have respect for yourself. Self belief is important and everyone has their own positive elements of themselves as well as personality.
The regulars in the chatroom are normal people who share the same like-mindedness and are non-judgemental. I have found the chatroom very friendly and it has been a great way of making new friends.
The most important message is just to relax and have fun.
Sex God
Hi Alex, it's good to hear that you have got so much that's positive out of the chat room. I often have trouble getting a word in edgeways, or being heard or acknowledged, but I keep on trying. See you there sometime!
Mike.
Mike.
