when I first came on the site I used to post and never check what I said (usually under the influence of drink lol). As the months progressed I changed that and now I often dont send what I type as even though I have been here a long time, because I dont post much, I feel less brave about posting. Not sure why but always enjoy it once I start again. I hate it when the site gets too politically correct and polite as I think its good to have diversity.