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I have a new significant other!!! - UPDATE
Sex God
hey chris!
i know the circumstances are crap mate, but pleased to see you back! does this the notts is now an option again? first beers on me!
neil x x x ;)
i know the circumstances are crap mate, but pleased to see you back! does this the notts is now an option again? first beers on me!
neil x x x ;)
Orgasminator
Ive had relations with two women from stafford it sounds like they are all using the same story out there. Oh well, at least your back it seems like a saner world here.
Sex God
Hi Marmalaid.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope things pan out soon. I know the feeling I'm still reeling from the end of my relationship of nine years.
There appears to be loads of support on here, and plenty of broad shoulders.
Good luck for the future.
John
Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope things pan out soon. I know the feeling I'm still reeling from the end of my relationship of nine years.
There appears to be loads of support on here, and plenty of broad shoulders.
Good luck for the future.
John
Marmalaid...
I'm really sorry for you. I know it must hurt - even after only a month.
But she was obviously not ready for a new relationship, and financially it seems she was right up the Swannie - which never helps a girl feel independant enough to make choices.
Here's a to a better future for you, pet...
Hxx
I'm really sorry for you. I know it must hurt - even after only a month.
But she was obviously not ready for a new relationship, and financially it seems she was right up the Swannie - which never helps a girl feel independant enough to make choices.
Here's a to a better future for you, pet...
Hxx
Quote by deancannockI'm surely gald to be back Mr. Cannock, I'm fine with the circumstances, as Corrie said, better no than in 6 months, but I am still left with one burning question - How could she possibly have dumped me? (See next post)
hey Marms...sorry to hear about your circumstances.....but hey hang on in there matey and...wish it was under other circumstances...but still....WELCOME BACK.
Quote by neilinleedsIt sure is Neil, I'll be there, just looking for someone to share a room with if anyone is interested! Thanks for the drinkypoos offer, mate. Good on yer!
hey chris!
i know the circumstances are crap mate, but pleased to see you back! does this the notts is now an option again? first beers on me!
neil x x x ;)
Quote by Calista
first beers on me!
Woohoo is that an option for all of us ???
Damn guess not Don't you worry, C. I have a glass with your name on it
:rascal:Quote by midlandsman1970Erm, she's not 'local'. "Using the same story" you say, story? Do you think she was making it up? (See next post)
Ive had relations with two women from stafford it sounds like they are all using the same story out there. Oh well, at least your back it seems like a saner world here.
Quote by corriefemThanks, Corrie, you are right about the better now than later, the funny thing was that right at the start we both said, "Don't want a relationship here, just making friends", it quickly progressed to her saying "This is bullshit, what the fuck are we doing? Stop talking to your ex, or stop talking to me!" Basically she was asking me for comittment. Obviously I'm a Pepperami (What's the matter? Too spicy for ya?)
Marmalaid I am sorry to hear your news but better now than in say 6 months when you would have been even more gutted.
Now you are back though could you say alittle bit more about your operation a few years ago. Purely interested for mediacl science reasons :twisted: :twisted::lol:
Take care
Corriexx
The op? I had the snip about 3 years ago, something the wife and I discussed at length, we didn't have any kids and neither did we want any. It's a funny old world ain't it? In the 18 months since we have been split she had 2 (that I know of) miscarriages and is now due in November!
Quote by HorousThere sure is lots o support here, I really appreciate it. There are broad shoulders here too, Misschief being the broadest! (only kidding Missy, please don't cancel our alk on Sunday)
Hi Marmalaid.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope things pan out soon. I know the feeling I'm still reeling from the end of my relationship of nine years.
There appears to be loads of support on here, and plenty of broad shoulders.
Good luck for the future.
John
Quote by givemeahugThanks GMAH, I'll take you up on that offer real soon.
Hunny.... a big :therethere: for u...
Im here if u need a chat....
Quote by HeatherAmen, Heather, I think the not ready for it is the big thing (See next post)
Marmalaid...
I'm really sorry for you. I know it must hurt - even after only a month.
But she was obviously not ready for a new relationship, and financially it seems she was right up the Swannie - which never helps a girl feel independant enough to make choices.
Here's a to a better future for you, pet...
Hxx
Quote by lucyslovely
awhhh Marmalaid
A :therethere: and aalways helps
a bit of wild oat sowing (any ofers greatfully received) if I can still sow wild oats after my op a few years ago :lol:
..... always was a dab hand at :wink:
Lucy xxx Thanks Lucy, the operation was a success, no need for any more stitches... However, I have got a hem that keeps coming down on my trousers. Or was it the fly that keeps coming down, come on Angel/Dawn/Vicky remind me here :twisted:
Quote by marmalaid
Thanks Lucy, the operation was a success, no need for any more stitches... However, I have got a hem that keeps coming down on my trousers. Or was it the fly that keeps coming down, come on Angel/Dawn/Vicky remind me here :twisted:
er...........
Your fly does come down pretty easy Chris but then I'm not complaining and neither did you :!: Dawn :silly:
Sex God
It was definitely the fly Marms.... although I only saw the "pussy competition" entry :shock: ;)
Now, what happened last night? I went round there as requested at 8 (one thing I haven't mentioned is that she lives about an hour and a quarter away from me) picked up my stuff, asked her if she was absolutely sure, she shrugged and said, I don't see any other choice, I can handle it for another 8 months (until her counselling training course is finished and she can get a paid job doing that), I gave her a hug, told her to give me a call and let me know how things go and to certainly give me a call if things didn't work out. She agreed. I release the hug, but she held on a couple of times.
After I left her place at 8:30ish decided to nip around to her friends house and give her my mobile number and ask her to text me if things didn't work out so that I could give my support as I could imagine gf not having the confidence to call me again. Friend as really shocked that I should suggest that gf was taking her ex back and said that there was absolutely no way that was going to happen, after about 20 mins I left and drove back past gf's house, no hubbys car, it was no 9:30. I text gf
"How's it going?"
"He's not here yet." by which time I was already on her drive and had tapped on the window, she came to the door and said in a shocked and slightly worried tone (as if we were abpout to get caught) I said,
"I've been to see friend"
"Just go away!" Door slams.
I go back to friends, who is just getting off the phone to gf. Very shortly after I get a text
"Chris im sorry ur not the man 4 me i didn't want to hurt you + tried to make it easy 4 you but there you go"
Is there another man? I don't think so, but it's always possible. I think that she is in a place of massive overwhelm and needs space. I'm out of that relationship now, but I have the urge to let her know that I will still be around (if only for a chat) when she is out of her tunnel, which is a shame, because I felt that I was lighting her paths for her to make a choice, and I truly felt that I was lightening her load. Fixing things around the house, cooking her breakfast on the weekend morning before she went to work and having Sunday roast on the table or her and her kids soon after she got back from work on the Sunday.
I guess it was just too sickly sweet for her after she had gotten used to the rancid taste of her ex.
Ho hum.
Chris, accepting his situation, remembering the good things and knowing that he did all he could.
After I left her place at 8:30ish decided to nip around to her friends house and give her my mobile number and ask her to text me if things didn't work out so that I could give my support as I could imagine gf not having the confidence to call me again. Friend as really shocked that I should suggest that gf was taking her ex back and said that there was absolutely no way that was going to happen, after about 20 mins I left and drove back past gf's house, no hubbys car, it was no 9:30. I text gf
"How's it going?"
"He's not here yet." by which time I was already on her drive and had tapped on the window, she came to the door and said in a shocked and slightly worried tone (as if we were abpout to get caught) I said,
"I've been to see friend"
"Just go away!" Door slams.
I go back to friends, who is just getting off the phone to gf. Very shortly after I get a text
"Chris im sorry ur not the man 4 me i didn't want to hurt you + tried to make it easy 4 you but there you go"
Is there another man? I don't think so, but it's always possible. I think that she is in a place of massive overwhelm and needs space. I'm out of that relationship now, but I have the urge to let her know that I will still be around (if only for a chat) when she is out of her tunnel, which is a shame, because I felt that I was lighting her paths for her to make a choice, and I truly felt that I was lightening her load. Fixing things around the house, cooking her breakfast on the weekend morning before she went to work and having Sunday roast on the table or her and her kids soon after she got back from work on the Sunday.
I guess it was just too sickly sweet for her after she had gotten used to the rancid taste of her ex.
Ho hum.
Chris, accepting his situation, remembering the good things and knowing that he did all he could.
Quote by marmalaid
"Chris im sorry ur not the man 4 me i didn't want to hurt you + tried to make it easy 4 you but there you go"
They should teach kids in school that lying never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever makes anything easier for anyone.
I wish I had something to say other than cliched platitudes, but I don't. But I'll raise my mug and drink a toast to the next adventure in your life, because it's just around the corner.
Oh Chris :therethere:
You are so lovely
If you do get a moment, it might be worth you reading throught the 'why do women allow themselves to be abused' thread. You will see accounts of people who have been through it and broken the cycle of falling for the same type of man.
Sounds like she is still very much in the cycle. So you being so nice would throw her and probably make her feel quite stifled and uneasy. If she was here I would probably advise her to take time out on her own - time to learn that she can stand on her own two feet. Daunting yes, scary very, but it can be done and well worth finding that out. Then she will be able to make decisions and find a partner, be someone in her own right and not dependent others.
You've done the right thing, sooooo lovely offering to be there for her etc. She's a lucky girl to have found you, but unlucky that it was at the wrong time.
So hunny, pick yourself up, dust yourself down - get out there and enjoy yourself. Difficult right now as you're still hurting, but you will get there. You're a gorgeous bloke and Miss Right will eventually find you :kiss:
Oh and don't think I didn't see this matey!!!!
:rotflmao:
Oooh the 'alk' is still on, but be prepared for more of a run! .........
With my foot up yer backside!! :kick: :kick: :kick:
You are so lovely
If you do get a moment, it might be worth you reading throught the 'why do women allow themselves to be abused' thread. You will see accounts of people who have been through it and broken the cycle of falling for the same type of man.
Sounds like she is still very much in the cycle. So you being so nice would throw her and probably make her feel quite stifled and uneasy. If she was here I would probably advise her to take time out on her own - time to learn that she can stand on her own two feet. Daunting yes, scary very, but it can be done and well worth finding that out. Then she will be able to make decisions and find a partner, be someone in her own right and not dependent others.
You've done the right thing, sooooo lovely offering to be there for her etc. She's a lucky girl to have found you, but unlucky that it was at the wrong time.
So hunny, pick yourself up, dust yourself down - get out there and enjoy yourself. Difficult right now as you're still hurting, but you will get there. You're a gorgeous bloke and Miss Right will eventually find you :kiss:
Oh and don't think I didn't see this matey!!!!
:rotflmao:Quote by marmalaid
There are broad shoulders here too, Misschief being the broadest! (only kidding Missy, please don't cancel our alk on Sunday)
Oooh the 'alk' is still on, but be prepared for more of a run! .........
With my foot up yer backside!! :kick: :kick: :kick:
Oops, caught out! I have a knackered keyboard with 2 intermittent keys, can you guess which ucking ankers they are?
Thanks Roger, fun is what I intend to have, that's why I'm here, I'm not going to dwell on it for to long, but I know that I will have my moments. I am lucky that I have some lovely people around me and we'll just see what Miss Future brings me....
Thanks Roger, fun is what I intend to have, that's why I'm here, I'm not going to dwell on it for to long, but I know that I will have my moments. I am lucky that I have some lovely people around me and we'll just see what Miss Future brings me....
I have read the thread you mention, MissChief. I know that I can be a little (?) intense sometimes, for the first month it was great and she said all the right things and I saw love in her eyes although she ound it dificult to say, infact said on a few occasions, I don't love you, I just enjoy your company. I think she's been in denial for a while and it's just got too incongruent for her.
Enough of the theories and on with (the single) life!
Enough of the theories and on with (the single) life!
Marmalaid...
Some girls are always making mistakes. You see like such a nice, genuine fella and I really feel for you. She, as I said, is obviously not ready for you but that really does make it HER loss and not yours...
It does seem that the nicer a partner you are, and the more effort you put into a relationship, you will often come across potential 'mates' who are unsuitable.
Recently, someone close to me told me of a fling he had with a similar sounding girl. "She had a broken wing" he said. He was madly in love with her but all efforts to win her as a life partner came to nothing and my pal ended up feeling used. The only way forward from this kind of position is to realise these kinds of partners - the ones that come with 'baggage' of this nature - cannot cope with an easy life and besoted partner.
One day, in a few years, both these ladies will be tucked away nicely in respectable semis with their Stockbroker or Solicitor hubbies and they'll be planting Marigolds and cleaning the church brasses every other Thursday... and they'll be thankful that they never have to 'feel' anything again...
Deep thoughts for the day.
Some girls are always making mistakes. You see like such a nice, genuine fella and I really feel for you. She, as I said, is obviously not ready for you but that really does make it HER loss and not yours...
It does seem that the nicer a partner you are, and the more effort you put into a relationship, you will often come across potential 'mates' who are unsuitable.
Recently, someone close to me told me of a fling he had with a similar sounding girl. "She had a broken wing" he said. He was madly in love with her but all efforts to win her as a life partner came to nothing and my pal ended up feeling used. The only way forward from this kind of position is to realise these kinds of partners - the ones that come with 'baggage' of this nature - cannot cope with an easy life and besoted partner.
One day, in a few years, both these ladies will be tucked away nicely in respectable semis with their Stockbroker or Solicitor hubbies and they'll be planting Marigolds and cleaning the church brasses every other Thursday... and they'll be thankful that they never have to 'feel' anything again...
Deep thoughts for the day.
Sex God
fuck it chris fancy a game of chess. kings porn to kings porn three..your move ...... :smile2:
Sex God
kings bishop to queens bishop 4
Sex God
queen to kings bishop 3
Sex God
queen to kings bishop 7, ahhhhh chris ive mated you
sorry girls seems ive had his cherry lol
sorry girls seems ive had his cherry lol
