Quote by m1970
I knew I would get a knee jerk reaction, it does sound like i am a complete tosser, but you have come to the wrong conclusuion, my wife does not and never will like sex, understand. And yes I was a complete twat with this girl, but as others have said, everyone will make a complete tvvat of themselves at some point.
twos_company
Could you imagine!
I don't know about the situation with your wife, but this thing with the girl at work just sounds like it's got blown out of all proportion.
If I spent 18 months worrying or getting the hump everytime a drunken bloke made a move on me I wouldn't have much of a life left.
The only other explanation I can give is that maybe she's avoiding you because she's really embarassed about the situation.
I work in engineering, which is very much a mans world and when I started out I had to make a lot of effort to be taken seriously. When blokes try it on or get flirty I have to be really careful - I know if anything ever happened they'd get a pat on the back, but I'd loose all the respect I'd built up.
Just a thought.