
Quote by Bluefish2009
Never judge another man until you have walked a mile in his shoes....
Quote by kentswingers777
Never judge another man until you have walked a mile in his shoes....
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by __random_orbit__
I for one judge people all the time. Constantly. Abrasively. and very very Harshly.
Well, those that deserve it anyway.
However, this may form an opinion, and draw a picture of that person that will inform me as to how I act should towards or around that person.
My opinion of them may be formed, but it is certainly not rigid.
My 'judgement' of them may be formed quickly, but is always open to adjustment.
I have my own measures by which I treat people, whatever my opinion of them in the first instance may be.
I will only adjust my own (dare I say 'fare') treatment of people should they confirm or give me reason to adjust that treatment.
Forming an opinion, indeed 'judging' people is a natural thing... one of our basic 'animal instincts', evolved from the 'fight or flight' reaction. It may have been 'sophisticated' through or glorious evolutution and complicated thought process, but basic it remains.
It's not the 'judging' that is wrong... it is how you use that judgement to inform your treatment of others.
now then, as for them there flk on the tele, do they not rely on their persona's to build a career? They deserve whatever they get if that is what they present.
in all fairness, that KP woman is a bit of a cu...
lp
Quote by __random_orbit__
I for one judge people all the time. Constantly. Abrasively. and very very Harshly.
Well, those that deserve it anyway.
However, this may form an opinion, and draw a picture of that person that will inform me as to how I act should towards or around that person.
My opinion of them may be formed, but it is certainly not rigid.
My 'judgement' of them may be formed quickly, but is always open to adjustment.
I have my own measures by which I treat people, whatever my opinion of them in the first instance may be.
I will only adjust my own (dare I say 'fare') treatment of people should they confirm or give me reason to adjust that treatment.
Forming an opinion, indeed 'judging' people is a natural thing... one of our basic 'animal instincts', evolved from the 'fight or flight' reaction. It may have been 'sophisticated' through or glorious evolutution and complicated thought process, but basic it remains.
It's not the 'judging' that is wrong... it is how you use that judgement to inform your treatment of others.
now then, as for them there flk on the tele, do they not rely on their persona's to build a career? They deserve whatever they get if that is what they present.
in all fairness, that KP woman is a bit of a cu...
lp
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by bouncy332
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by bouncy332
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by Bluefish2009
I feel we should not judge her for her "TV persona" any more than we should judge people for the size, I am sure none of the posters here have double, standards do they?
Quote by Bluefish2009
Then WHEN you have taken a step back and they are still being an idiot, is it then ok to judge them? Or should we be non judgemental over everything?
Quote by kentswingers777
Then WHEN you have taken a step back and they are still being an idiot, is it then ok to judge them? Or should we be non judgemental over everything?