Midxcouple, agree you can establish whether ppl are genuine or not with a webcam, but we think that it intrudes on privacy a little early, particularly on a first contact. Much prefer to be able to see pics, peruse at leisure and then make a decision whether or not they are ppl we would want to develop things with.
We have found the webcam thing can be a bit pressured, being forced for a decision immediately, no time to think about things fully and thus making decisions on the hop. Whereas we have come back to peoples e mail and pics a few times before we have made decisions, maybe some would have been rejected immediately/others not if it had been a quick decision on webcam.
We have long discussions between ourselves over ppl who write to us, often leaving it 24 hours or so before making decisions, we'd still rather ppl with webcams used them for stills and mailed us..lol. But, each to their own way/decision, we wouldn't appear on webcam,but would mail face pics.
Mid morning ramblings....caffeine needed....Stu, stick the coffee on, get the hobnobs....
Fran
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Hell, if I had webcam it would have to be a full make up job or a paper bag every time I logged on! :shock:
At least with messenger I can just sound sexy and not have to look it! The power of the written word over the visual reality... :twisted:
Hi again, in response to Facialfran, Surely a quick look on webcam immediately establishes that they are 1 Genuine and 2, you may take one look at Wayne and Waynetta and say no thanks there and then.
Trouble with pics is that anybody can email pics of anybody. Single males can simply post cpl pics.
Thats the joy of webcamming. No time wasters.
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We have got to know many people this way, it's the only way for us now.
We don't even respond to a request unless they invite us to view them first. Most single males suddenly go quiet when claiming to be a cpl when we say ok lets see your cam!
Regards
Middxcouple
its very very dificult to weed out genuine swingers it seems a lot of people get a kick out of repling to adds and not doing anything about them or following them up just put in your add replys with no pics instantly deleted :idea:
hi fran,
as newcomers to both worlds, computers and swinging heaven, i thought that i'd put in my contribution to a 'thread'.
our computer is an old one with no usb port to plug we have some 'good' pictures taken, that was back when we were both a lot younger and slimmer!!
we do have access to a digicamera- i use one for the problem of no pictures is obviously affecting our ad responces. anyone out there got any idea how much it would cost to upgrade my pc?could i go from a digicam card straight into the pc without the kodak docking station?
brian n sue
hi there, welcome to the fold..(or is that folds..mmmm). Don't know about upgrades but if your pc has a cd rom then you could take your old negatives to boots and they will transfer them to cd for a small charge, or if you want ruder ones then there are a few confidential film processing companies who will print your naughty pics (very naughty ones as i recall the film we once sent, but thats another story) and put them on to cd for you.
One such firm is trust colourlabs. Room 14, Freepost NE9890 Doncaster DN11 8BR. 24 exposure for 35mm is plus for a CD Rom. I name them not cos I have any commercial reason, but through using their service, which was great.
Another one I know of is dolphin colour labs, po box 23557, Leith, Edinburgh, EH7 4YQ. 36 exposure 35 mm is plus to stick on a cd.
I am sure others may know of other firms offering the same service.
Alternatively, if you don't have a cd rom get your pics on one, pm us and we will sort you sending them to us, we will get them on to pc and mail to you....anything to help.
Have fun
Fran
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