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Quote by mark_nwest
You are probably right but i really dont want to force a situation, i just want someone to to like what i am about first and take it from there.

You've been on here for about six months, made 50 ish posts and you're commenting that the place is cliquey? People are pally pally?
That's because they've put in some time and effort to be part of the community. Unless you do that, people on here won't know you at all.
I joined this site as I was coming to the end of a long relationship and needed a lift.. went to a munch, met some great people who helped me a through a tough patch and are still around now that the sun has come out again.
You know who you are... thank you x :P
Quote by da69ve
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

Perve!!! :lol:
Quote by freckledbird
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

Perve!!! :lol:
AND BLOODY PROUD OF IT !! :twisted:
Quote by da69ve
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

Perve!!! :lol:
AND BLOODY PROUD OF IT !! :twisted:
Hehehehe good for you, Dave wink
Quote by freckledbird
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

Perve!!! :lol:
AND BLOODY PROUD OF IT !! :twisted:
Hehehehe good for you, Dave wink
Nothing PC about me Bev!! :wink:
Quote by da69ve
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

That explains why you were SO forward with me when we first met all those moons ago wink He, he...
Quote by Bloke2005
I'm only here for the sex!!! lol

That explains why you were SO forward with me when we first met all those moons ago wink He, he...
WHAT!!!.......I think it was the other way round matey!! :lol:
Quote by Dave__Notts
For me.................no. Well I am a social swinger only so it can't be.
But this week has shown the true side of the site. One in a big way and one in a small (but still important) way.
I won't bore you with the details...........but my life went up in the air very recently. I needed help, not just chatting but physical help. I put out a plea to SH. In stepped its members. They helped me out in a very big way and I am endebted (indebted??? OK...fecking owe them) to them. Even offers came in from across the country......and one member wanted to travel hours to help me out......but I couldn't impose that much. For the big thing........you are all stars......especially those that came. Also to those that phoned and texted that they would have come if not for other plans.
The small thing..........no fecking TV when the match was on. So what does one mate do? Call me and give me a running commentary. You are a star.
So what is SH all about....................for me it is the feeling of a close community.
What does it mean to you?
Dave_Notts

Have to totally agree with you on all you've said Dave.........have just had a count up..........and there are 28 people who have posted on this thread so far........out of those I have actuallt met 18 of them in person. (OMG.....I feel such a tart now.......lol)
Some are obviously better known to me.....such as yourself and your good lady
Others, I have only met once or twice.
Yes, the playing is nice, but it is not the be all and end all to my presence on the site. I love the munches and socials and just the friendliness of all those I have met through SH.
Long may it continue
Marcuso
is it just about sex? far from it. i have to say that this place has opened alot of doors and some id like to keep firmly shut. ive been in various groups and chats over the years and have had to run a gauntlet of abuse. it was only when i stood my ground and made them laugh that they thought actually shes alright wink but i still felt like i didnt belong.
on joining sh i was expecting the same bout of abuse before i'd be accepted, im still waiting for it and i havent had one nasty pm or any snide remark on the forum smile
ive made some cracking friends one in peticular and love the muches and socials so much, god ive only been here since feb and i feel like ive been here about two years ( yes im feeling old lol ) i spent a good part of my transition in the trans chats and i felt so alienated from the outside world and being on here has showed me that yes im sure theres a few that think im all wrong lol but theres alot more that have welcomed me with open arms. ive never been one for wild swinging and at the moment im not swinging at all. im far too busy with other comitments and im still here because i have such a laugh.
being on here has given me more respect for everyones differances and has helped me in the outside world more than anyone on here would realise. so thank you biggrin
ok i lied i dont like chav scum lol
I have had no regular social life for... easily 6 months - I could justifibly call it 15 months - but in the 2 months or so I've been here, I've come to rely on SH, to put some spark back into my social life - and now I've got my raise, I can't wait to see as many of you as I can, at Muches etc.
To me a swinging lifestyle is all about friends first, f*cking later ( if at all ) and if anyone disagrees with my point of view :kissmyarse: flipa :sparring: ( I should point out that is more or less directed at the vanilla world, and rabid sections of the media )
Well for me SH is about having a good lot of friends who are there no matter what.
At first I came here for regular sex but I've changed as a person since I joined and no longer come here for that. I'm happy to come here and read the Forum, add my thoughts, sometimes post my own topic or sit PM'img all night!
I look forward to seeing what people are up to and what they're thinking. I've found the people on this site to be the most welcoming, friendly (most of the time!), broad minded etc etc I've ever found anywhere - in "real life" or online.
People are always around to help, to make you laugh or sometimes make you cry!
I've not met anyone from the Forum in person yet but I'm looking forward to that in the future.
SH is so good because of the people who make it what it is..... a bloody great place to meet people - for sex or otherwise.

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This place is not just about sex but it don't arf help!!
Oh get outta ere you and back to ya wenching duties ! smackbottom
Sorry carry on folks.. rolleyes