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Sex God
Quote by Dogz
Though new to the site and the forum i THINK EVERYONES GREAT !!!
not met Sarge then
Quote by onlyme1981
I'm sorry to say this is no longer my favorite swinging site. I agree with Meaty that it is getting better again, which is why I've been popping in more and more. I still much prefer it elsewhere though.
Les x
I agree!
Quote by meat2pleaseu
it was like that, then someone drove a bloody great big truck through it while delivering some new features i didn't have a need for. although the builders have straightend it out a little, i now prefer my new home and can't see it changing.
still doesn't stop me popping in here sometimes
I agree!
The site changed too much for me to feel it's comfortable as a home....but things change so you never know!
I just don't have time to post on 2 sites as regular I'd like....so I don't!
I agree with all of the above but have to admit it's much busier in the chatrooms here...which can be a bonus, at times, and it's quite easy to ignore the cams when you don't want them
Sex God
Quote by onlyme1981
I'm sorry to say this is no longer my favorite swinging site. I agree with Meaty that it is getting better again, which is why I've been popping in more and more. I still much prefer it elsewhere though.
Les x
I agree!
Quote by meat2pleaseu
it was like that, then someone drove a bloody great big truck through it while delivering some new features i didn't have a need for. although the builders have straightend it out a little, i now prefer my new home and can't see it changing.
still doesn't stop me popping in here sometimes
I agree!
The site changed too much for me to feel it's comfortable as a home....but things change so you never know!
I just don't have time to post on 2 sites as regular I'd like....so I don't!
I agree with all of the above! :shock: I need to go and lie down, I just agreed with meaty!
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Having been in lurkage for too long, just decided to start posting again and say hello to one and all!! Lots of changes have gone on but the people who matter are still about, so this is my favourite!
Nice Avatar GG !!
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:Cheers Sarge.. as very kindly donated by some generous soul!
Sex God
its just another site now
staggy n rose
staggy n rose
Quote by Hillfolk
Gosh looks like I had my reference to XXXXX was censored by whomever....seems a bit petty especially as SH has almost half a millon members. Is any reference to competitors automatically censored or has the censor been a little trigger happy. please point to the relevant passage in the AUP please
I mean I would'nt mind but the reference contained considered and balenced views in favour of SH perhaps we will see references to other commercial enterprises censored as well.
I'll try this post on XXXXXX to see if they show the same approach to civil liberties and free speech.
Dawn and Mark
Hate to tell you this, but there isn't 467,000 active members, these are just registered people. 90% of which are just passing through ......
As for mentioning another site, it has always been policy not to advertise other sites, otherwise it'd turn into a advert on every thread...
Sex God
Quote by Phoenix
Gosh looks like I had my reference to XXXXX was censored by whomever....seems a bit petty especially as SH has almost half a millon members. Is any reference to competitors automatically censored or has the censor been a little trigger happy. please point to the relevant passage in the AUP please
I mean I would'nt mind but the reference contained considered and balenced views in favour of SH perhaps we will see references to other commercial enterprises censored as well.
I'll try this post on XXXXXX to see if they show the same approach to civil liberties and free speech.
Dawn and Mark
Hate to tell you this, but there isn't 467,000 active members, these are just registered people. 90% of which are just passing through ......
As for mentioning another site, it has always been policy not to advertise other sites, otherwise it'd turn into a advert on every thread...
Phoenix is right its never been allowed, if it was the site would turn into a spamfest.
There are 437k odd members registered on the site, I'd put the active at a lot higher than 90% though, a lot of people visit Swinging Heaven every day and we have had to up the number of servers in place to cope with it.
Quote by st3v3
There are 437k odd members registered on the site, I'd put the active at a lot higher than 90% though, a lot of people visit Swinging Heaven every day and we have had to up the number of servers in place to cope with it.
Appology... 90% was an off the cuff figure, but it is still not 437,000 odd active members.
Nice marketing ploy though.
Quote by blonde
I personally like this site now ........ its getting better and better IMHO
But dont tell the squirrels !!!! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Went to see the Red Squirrels at Formby Nature reserve last weekend, they new bugger all about servers or chatrooms, but were equally as elusive as the genuine meet
:lol: Quote by Phoenix
Hate to tell you this, but there isn't 467,000 active members, these are just registered people. 90% of which are just passing through ......
I've been told by 2 or 3 different people (that I trust) that although the cafe/forum seem important to many; it/they only represent something like 20% of site traffic. The other 80% being the Photo Ads. And that was before 4T.
How much "poetic licence" was included in those figures, I don't know; but I'm fairly sure that the 2 or 300 "core posters/munchers" make up only a tiny fraction of the whole site.
I've just done a blank search of the Photo Ads. it threw up 189,484 results. Compare that to the 2 or 300 hundred.
I realise that the more cleverer people can make figures, numbers and statistics say pretty much anything, but I'd be inclined to agree that main portion of the whole site is within the Photo Ads.
In edit.
Is this my favourite swing site ?
Yes :shock:
Why ?
At the moment, I haven't the first fucking idea
Quote by dambuster
Hate to tell you this, but there isn't 467,000 active members, these are just registered people. 90% of which are just passing through ......
I've been told by 2 or 3 different people (that I trust) that although the cafe/forum seem important to many; it/they only represent something like 20% of site traffic. The other 80% being the Photo Ads. And that was before 4T.
How much "poetic licence" was included in those figures, I don't know; but I'm fairly sure that the 2 or 300 "core posters/munchers" make up only a tiny fraction of the whole site.
I've just done a blank search of the Photo Ads. it threw up 189,484 results. Compare that to the 2 or 300 hundred.
I realise that the more cleverer people can make figures, numbers and statistics say pretty much anything, but I'd be inclined to agree that main portion of the whole site is within the Photo Ads.
Dammie unsure on the exact figured but I am guessing you are close enough. The photo ads section has always had massive amounts of traffic compared to the forum.
The pictures that get up loaded into the ads section, at a weekend can be close on one a minute :eeek:
The increase in the chatroom is pretty shocking. It has gone from 80/120 people of an evening to sometimes as many as 800/1,000. Many of which do not post on the forum.
Is this my favourite swinging site
It will be no surprise when I say yes but then right now, this is the only swinging site that I use
I was having a think about some of the comments I have been reading (in here and other threads) regarding the 'before and after' or 'THE CHANGE' and trying to list what had changed or more importantly what effects the actual admin changes had on the way I use the site.
The conclusion - BUGGER ALL!
I log-in - no change there.
The colours have changed - but I can't remember what they were before anymore.
I can post - same as before.
I can send PM's - as before
I can chat to people - as before
I can arrange to meet people - the scope there has improved slighty in my opinion
The feared flood of one-shag wonders who were to take-over the cafe never came
So what does any other site offer that is not on this one?
If you say "it's the people and the atmosphere" - well then that is your fault for only coming back here to winge about.... well.... the fact that you and people you know moved. That is not a change the site made.
I am a member of other sites and I fail to see how another site with less members is any better than this one (as it stands at the moment). In truth I have noticed that for some time a certain other site was just a repeat of this site - a re-run of old SH posts being recycled.
If you have a preference for another site - don't make all of your happy repeat threads there and only come here to moan about how much it has changed. You wouldn't like it if people came onto your other site and only pointed out how much of a copy it was, how unoriginal it was, how that thread was pretty much a cut and paste of the one you had done before on SH, how the idea of a thread had been nicked from one on SH. I have even seen two of my thread subject/titles being recycled by someone else.
You would not think it acceptable for people to come onto your 'new' site and only post to point out what was wrong/crap. I am sure you would kick up a fuss. Think of these people as rude and trouble makers. Eventually start sending the gossip PM's asking for someone to take action and make them leave....
So why the fuck do you think it is OK for you to come and do it here?
In the recent past, some of you have even explained that you only keep an account here so you can go to the munches - take, take, take - you selfish person.
Yes - think about your actions - shame on you! You are the exact same person that you would complain about elsewhere! (and that is the bit which makes me laugh - a lot)
The conclusion - BUGGER ALL!
I log-in - no change there.
The colours have changed - but I can't remember what they were before anymore.
I can post - same as before.
I can send PM's - as before
I can chat to people - as before
I can arrange to meet people - the scope there has improved slighty in my opinion
The feared flood of one-shag wonders who were to take-over the cafe never came
So what does any other site offer that is not on this one?
If you say "it's the people and the atmosphere" - well then that is your fault for only coming back here to winge about.... well.... the fact that you and people you know moved. That is not a change the site made.
I am a member of other sites and I fail to see how another site with less members is any better than this one (as it stands at the moment). In truth I have noticed that for some time a certain other site was just a repeat of this site - a re-run of old SH posts being recycled.
If you have a preference for another site - don't make all of your happy repeat threads there and only come here to moan about how much it has changed. You wouldn't like it if people came onto your other site and only pointed out how much of a copy it was, how unoriginal it was, how that thread was pretty much a cut and paste of the one you had done before on SH, how the idea of a thread had been nicked from one on SH. I have even seen two of my thread subject/titles being recycled by someone else.
You would not think it acceptable for people to come onto your 'new' site and only post to point out what was wrong/crap. I am sure you would kick up a fuss. Think of these people as rude and trouble makers. Eventually start sending the gossip PM's asking for someone to take action and make them leave....
So why the fuck do you think it is OK for you to come and do it here?
In the recent past, some of you have even explained that you only keep an account here so you can go to the munches - take, take, take - you selfish person.
Yes - think about your actions - shame on you! You are the exact same person that you would complain about elsewhere! (and that is the bit which makes me laugh - a lot)
Hello all!
I've been loking at this site for a while - but never posted.
I'm a bit confused over the changes: do you have to pay for some bits now. In some of the adverts people are putting their email addresses in code saying "they are not a full member". I thought this was free.
Best wishes to everyone anyway.
I've been loking at this site for a while - but never posted.
I'm a bit confused over the changes: do you have to pay for some bits now. In some of the adverts people are putting their email addresses in code saying "they are not a full member". I thought this was free.
Best wishes to everyone anyway.
I am confused ! Its free but "my membrship expires on....." I do consider this site to be the best for what it is but my main interest is not now so much "swinging" but more the fun to be had in the community cafe! Although I subscribe to various other sites of various nature, the forums could be said to be of bland, almost predictable input on a given topic.
Here however input can be much more than the predictable. I have long given up any sort of physical contact simply through ad's and therefore consider myself less as a player but more of a understanding other. I can converse with all types here be that Gay, Bi , Couple or Single with no aliegence to nor hostility against, in a very good and wholesome way.
Here however input can be much more than the predictable. I have long given up any sort of physical contact simply through ad's and therefore consider myself less as a player but more of a understanding other. I can converse with all types here be that Gay, Bi , Couple or Single with no aliegence to nor hostility against, in a very good and wholesome way.