I haven't looked at the thread yet but is it a social meet or a 'proper' meet? I'd be interested in something like that but as a single be fem, I guess it's easier for me to choose who/when/how/how many I meet with.
I started doing a girls night in, purely as a social meet, a couple of months ago and the first one went really well I think. Looking forward to the next one :happy:
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Hi Dark 
I would go but there are some reasons i cant - firstly i wouldnt have a bloody clue how to get there on my own (can drive but hopeless somewhere new). Secondly my partner, now he would say "yes u can go" but then i know he would be arsey and make me feel guilty so it wouldnt be worth all the hassle. I used to go out with my girlfriends every week without fail before i met him, but i havent been out once without him since we met and yes i DO miss it. Enormously in fact. My problem is i dont like to rock the boat!!
There is nothing quite like a night out with my female mates, totally different to being with my partner, its fun, girly, giggly and flirty and i love it..... one day i will go back to being that OTHER person.
Suze xx
I would go but there are some reasons i cant - firstly i wouldnt have a bloody clue how to get there on my own (can drive but hopeless somewhere new). Secondly my partner, now he would say "yes u can go" but then i know he would be arsey and make me feel guilty so it wouldnt be worth all the hassle. I used to go out with my girlfriends every week without fail before i met him, but i havent been out once without him since we met and yes i DO miss it. Enormously in fact. My problem is i dont like to rock the boat!!
There is nothing quite like a night out with my female mates, totally different to being with my partner, its fun, girly, giggly and flirty and i love it..... one day i will go back to being that OTHER person.
Suze xx
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I'm wondering something ..... (:uhoh
I have a thread in LMU about a ladies only private party - and no, this isnt a 'go look at it and put your name down' thread... I'm interested to know if, because it IS ladies only that this kind of party just doesnt appeal to most(or is it because we have to pay to attend :dunno:)
This would be part of it for me, as much as I like ladies, I like some tail as well.
and more to the point, for the bifems out there, do the majority, when thinking specifically about swinging, play only in the company of their partner :dunno: and because the male partner is automatically excluded (in this particular case its a 'penis free zone') that it is then a 'no no' ? :dunno:
This would be the other part - we don't play seperatly.
I guess this is also highly relevant to my own 'meets'... for couples, does it matter if the male half of 'you' is 'tolerated' (tm Dambuster) more than 'welcomed' or do couples expect another fem to play with both patners?
This would matter a lot to us. I wouldn't be happy playing if Timmy was only tolerated, it just wouldn't feel right because we hope that all parties are satisfied and happy after a meet. (If you've got complaints tell Timmy :P)
I dont think there's any generic answer to this as it will depend entirely on what each individual or couple is looking for..... but it's raised some intereing thoughts in my head.
Exactly, there are many out there who are happy to play without partners, you just need to pick a better date next time
discuss :D
Jas
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Sex God
Have friends coming over so dashing into the shower etc, but I will definately post in this to give you our oppinion Dark either later tonight or tomorrow if too tired.
Love
FIRE xx
Love
FIRE xx
Sex God
Quote by Darkfire
I'm wondering something ..... (:uhoh
I have a thread in LMU about a ladies only private party - and no, this isnt a 'go look at it and put your name down' thread... I'm interested to know if, because it IS ladies only that this kind of party just doesnt appeal to most
It would appeal to me. I love the company and chat of ladies, especially sexy one's
and more to the point, for the bifems out there, do the majority, when thinking specifically about swinging, play only in the company of their partner :dunno: and because the male partner is automatically excluded (in this particular case its a 'penis free zone'
Yes Dark this is a no no for us.
I guess this is also highly relevant to my own 'meets'... for couples, does it matter if the male half of 'you' is 'tolerated' (tm Dambuster) more than 'welcomed' or do couples expect another fem to play with both patners?
Yes it does matter, we would only want to play with people who genuinely want to play with both of us.
I dont think there's any generic answer to this as it will depend entirely on what each individual or couple is looking for..... but it's raised some intereing thoughts in my head.
:thumbup:
discuss
This a great thread.!
I had a chat with Stormy about this before posting and the conclusion was that we are comfortable playing with a lady together, not seperately. Swinging is something that we do "together" only, as the enjoyment for me comes hugely from seeing Stormy with another woman and of course Stormy loves to see me with a woman and we both love to hear a woman vocally enjoying herself, it's a big turn on. If we played seperately all the things that make it a great experience for us would not be there.
Having said that if we were entertaining a lady and us two ladies decided to go to the pub for a drink and Stormy was welcome but did'nt fancy it that would not pose a problem to him but if he were not wanted or excluded then he would'nt be happy if I went.
So in a nutshell (quite a large nutshell as it's turned out :lol: ) If he is'nt welcome or excluded we don't get involved, if he is no problem.
Love
FIRE xx
PS Hope your party goes brilliantly Dark!!
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I probably wouldn't go to a girls only party, I get my enjoyment from playing with den and seeing him enojying himself, and the reason we swing is because we have such an amazing sex life and want to share it, together.
Den would think completely differently, he would love me to go and then tell him all about it afterwards, preferably with video evidence!!!!!
maz xxxxxxxx
Den would think completely differently, he would love me to go and then tell him all about it afterwards, preferably with video evidence!!!!!
maz xxxxxxxx
Someone sent us a mail about this party a few weeks ago and I've got to say I wondered what the point of it was considering the lack of lesbians on the swing scene!! Bi fems might find the thought of playing solely with women all night as offputting as it might be attractive, not to mention that it is further complicated by other issues such as playing together/seperately etc. I'm not sure that there will be many takers for this event at all as bi women are not averse to spending time in the company of men and lesbians are scarce in the lifestyle so I think its a bit of a funny thing to organise a whole special event for.
I think a bigger issue for me would be the potential bitchiness aspect of this sort of women only environment, I get the feeling that this event might be aimed at a particular type of person and if we turned up as bbw lesbians this would not fit the bill (not that I think we would fit the bill in most places
) - please note this is only my opinion!!! I can see what they are trying to do but I don't think the gap in the market is really big enough to require something like this to fill it!
*digs tin hat out*
I think a bigger issue for me would be the potential bitchiness aspect of this sort of women only environment, I get the feeling that this event might be aimed at a particular type of person and if we turned up as bbw lesbians this would not fit the bill (not that I think we would fit the bill in most places
) - please note this is only my opinion!!! I can see what they are trying to do but I don't think the gap in the market is really big enough to require something like this to fill it!*digs tin hat out*
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Bi fems might find the thought of playing solely with women all night as offputting as it might be attractive... I'm not sure that there will be many takers for this event at all as bi women are not averse to spending time in the company of men and lesbians are scarce in the lifestyle so I think its a bit of a funny thing to organise a whole special event for.
..... but I don't think the gap in the market is really big enough to require something like this to fill it!
I see your point Lava - and am surprised at the number of fems who really wouldnt be interested in something like this. I thought bi and especially bi curious fems might welcome the opportunity to play soley with another fem without the 'influence' of a bloke there too....... it appears I am wrong in my thinking.
Or maybe I'm just more of a part-time feminist lesbian rottweiler than I thought :shock:
I do agree its a kinda funny thing to organise - but at the same time it does appeal (to me anyway) because it's different
. Maybe as a one-off it'd work..... but I see your point about the gap in the market just not being as big as I, and the organisers of said party, imagined.Thanks :thumbup:
in edit : I've just re-read this bit :
I get the feeling that this event might be aimed at a particular type of person and if we turned up as bbw lesbians this would not fit the bill
:shock:
a 'beautiful people' party you mean? :dunno:
Bollox, that's my invite gone down the swanny then
I just wanted to pick up on something..... some folks have said that because they are bi-sexual they wouldn't really want to go to an all female party because they like a bit of male attention too.
Does this work the other way around if you like both? Would you go to a party/club where only 'straight' women and men were playing even though you weren't going to get any female attention? Does this depend on what 'type' of bisexual you are? (Apologies for the word 'type' I just couldn't think of another one.)
Sorry if this is a little off topic Darkfire - I had just been wondering about it.
Does this work the other way around if you like both? Would you go to a party/club where only 'straight' women and men were playing even though you weren't going to get any female attention? Does this depend on what 'type' of bisexual you are? (Apologies for the word 'type' I just couldn't think of another one.)
Sorry if this is a little off topic Darkfire - I had just been wondering about it.
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in edit : I've just re-read this bit : I get the feeling that this event might be aimed at a particular type of person and if we turned up as bbw lesbians this would not fit the bill
:shock:
a 'beautiful people' party you mean?
Bollox, that's my invite gone down the swanny then
Maybe we should just run our own fems only night (perhaps with a man creche somewhere for the attached bi's :P ) for women who don't feel the need to hold their stomach in and are prepared to admit that they look rough after a night on the beer
:twisted: Quote by lavabubble
Maybe we should just run our own fems only night (perhaps with a man creche somewhere for the attached bi's :P ) for women who don't feel the need to hold their stomach in and are prepared to admit that they look rough after a night on the beer
I'd SOOOO be up for that! :lol2:
Quote by lavabubble
Maybe we should just run our own fems only night (perhaps with a man creche somewhere for the attached bi's :P ) for women who don't feel the need to hold their stomach in and are prepared to admit that they look rough after a night on the beer
as a bagers arse luv
and :giggle: @ man creche
