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love or obsession?

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Quote by racer3
Why?
I've been both and I've been on the other side of both. Let me know why ya wanna know and I might share.

i am happy to explain vix but would you mind if i did it by pm as it is a bit personal and i dont really need the thread hijackers taking the piss
Aww. Thai's ok, matey.
I think obsession, as someone has already said is unrequited. Usually.
Also, I think it is generally unwarranted. Obssessing over someone when you don't really know that much about them. Constantly thinking about them. Making phone calls, following them, 'happening' to be in the same place at the same time as them, making believe that there is more involvement than there really is between you.
It can be quite scary, especially if you don't realise that that is what is happening to start with, and are a bit too friendly.
Quote by Calista
I'm not well enough to be funny today but I am in hysterics here ...
please don't stop ..... :shock:

Look like you killed our little game there Callista, now tick you're it!
Quote by Scandal
There's this guy from the local Inland Revenue who has a slightly worrying obsession with me ...
a fella from the tele lincensing people who keeps calling round at odd hours ...
a woman from Customs and Excise who sends me letters every day ...
a bloke from HSBC who seems to think I owe him money ...
two guys in a white van with blue lights on top who sit outside my house with cameras ... hope this helps
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:smitten: its great to be so wanted
Quote by Vix
Why?
I've been both and I've been on the other side of both. Let me know why ya wanna know and I might share.

vix, did you get my pm?
Quote by MQ
I think the main difference is that Love is reciprocal whereas obsession is a one way street.

I would agree with that, the only thing i would add is that when you really love someone you know that sometimes you have to let them go, when your obssesed you wont let go becasue your thinking of yourself not the other person
I think you are probably right foxy. Hard though isnt it?
Quote by racer3
I think you are probably right foxy. Hard though isnt it?

How would i know if its hard? I cant see down your trousers!!
Quote by racer3
Why?
I've been both and I've been on the other side of both. Let me know why ya wanna know and I might share.

vix, did you get my pm?
No sad