Quote by racer3
Why?
I've been both and I've been on the other side of both. Let me know why ya wanna know and I might share.
i am happy to explain vix but would you mind if i did it by pm as it is a bit personal and i dont really need the thread hijackers taking the piss
Aww. Thai's ok, matey.
I think obsession, as someone has already said is unrequited. Usually.
Also, I think it is generally unwarranted. Obssessing over someone when you don't really know that much about them. Constantly thinking about them. Making phone calls, following them, 'happening' to be in the same place at the same time as them, making believe that there is more involvement than there really is between you.
It can be quite scary, especially if you don't realise that that is what is happening to start with, and are a bit too friendly.