Well, getting back to the original question ....
As a couple who have had 3-sums with black males (and also with white males) we can say that the 'procedure' to 'get it on' is no different for either.
in fact we can say -
- the thrill was no greater because the male was black.
- the experience no more enjoyable because the guy was black
- the arrangements for the meet no more difficult to make because the male was black
BUT
despite our careful and extensive selection process the odd dickhead can slip through and make the meets less than happy occasions - and you know what! This applies to white guys and black guys equally!! - who'd o' thought it!!
All in all our advice (such as it is) is to choose carefully - take your time - and make sure you both enjoy the experience by talking extensively about it before taking the plunge (we guess that applies to almost all Swinging situations)
And having said all that, we have to also confess that Chilli has a liking for black males - its the skintone apparently - something about the contrast against her own lily white flesh - don't understand it properly as myself, but hey - we always have a great time so who am I to complain.
I agree with my 'fellow Soul Brother' Fabio.
I am not saying anything more about Race on this website.
Have a read of my recent Post about Lewis Hamilton...
Let's say...
Just read it.
Am not saying anything.
ive been emailed because im...female... white... blonde... bbw.... bi sexual.... live in cornwall etc etc
should i take offence to any of those people?( only the ones who want me cuse i live in cornwall and they want a free holiday lol) no cuse its about preference and no good poking me if i dont turn you on, however..... on a site where by you can not initially be attracted to a personality, the way someone walks etc etc due to not physically meeting them, then yes you have to have a starting point.
beyond that then you discover if you actually "like" the person.
the poster is new to here, looking to full fill a fantasy ( like alot of us) but could have, and have admitted to maybe wording it better.
if one was to ask how do i go about meeting/setting up a meet with a bbw, well maybe the advice would be pop along to the bbw chat room?
remember that the internet is full of sex sites and promote blatent " i wanna fuck a ***** (fill in preference) threads,
SH i hope is still a community, so dont flame people for not knowing how it works here.
xxxx fem xxx
i used the word preference to be kind lol
being a single bi fem on here omg i know what objectifying is.
ive been invited along to meet a couple where by they have thought i am there only as a bi fem toy/tool to assist in fullfilling their fantesy and not as a friend whom to share a mutual satisfying experience.
i did have the thought that maybe if people dont have friends who are black,and are not looking to make friends, and look at meeting a gentleman just because he is black specifically for sex then maybe they need to consider if they would feel comfortable in that situation them selves, or they areso self concious of saying something politically incorrect that they would cause offense, and there by any friendship/converstaion is nill.
did that make any sense?
to me, meeting any one for swingng is about making friends with people who i may have sex with.
xx fem xx
Hey guys. Seems like we've caused offence which is certainly NOT what was intended. Think we got the balance of the wording a bit wrong. We're just looking for people's experiences of getting it on, no slur intended.
Joma,
threads often veer off.. that is the beauty of forums. It is a rare person that means anything personal. So please forget about worry. We are all entitled to our opinion as you are too.
splendid
This thread has reminded me of our last visit to a club. I was fortunate to meet a lovely bloke- who was being treated as the club's "Token big black guy." When I say big- I mean big- brick outhouse proportions here!
It was his first club visit, and he was feeling very used & uncomfortable. We ended up having a scream that night- I accepted his offer of finding a room not because he was a black guy- but because he was a lovely guy, and the rest was hysterically funny, but I might just have to start another thread.
Just to add a question to the pot though.....is it a black guy thing, or a hung black guy thing? Would the fantasy match up if it was a black guy hung like an Gnat on an expedition to the Antartic who'd forgotten his winter coat?
ops: :oops: 
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
)
:whistling: :whistling: :whistling:
:? :?
