Hi Mr snowcpl, your post is very true and we, I think, all do agree with what you have posted I for one sometimes forget what really matters, but being attractive to a woman means a great deal to me I dont want to be passed over because I am not attractive. Sometimes the feeling of being alone hurts a great deal and I do value friendships with people and especialy mrs snowcpl I do like her a great deal as I do you too. I am honoured and proud to call you both friends.
Not trying to go against your feelings on what matters most but I feel I need to let you know what I find attractive in people. (this is the fem side lol)
I would not be fazed one little bit if a guy I was chatting to had horns and three eyes, the looks of the person are not important at all. it is the inner beauty of the person that attracts me - if you are a good person inside it is possible to see past the exterior which of course is only there to help you identify one person from another.
I cant imagine what it would be like to have great looks. How would you know for sure the person you thought was great isn't there purely because you look good on their arm? That has got to be an up side of being just an average looking person, you know they are there because they like you.
I'm not trying to say you are an average looking person One of the Damned, to me you are a very attractive man, just dont forget it was your inner beauty I met first.