My journey has ended.

25 Feb 2009

I'm glad you have reached a positive realisation Minxy.
Just one word of caution, don't base it on cyber friends you've made here - make sure you know them really, really well - I mean really well. If you've done that then - good on yer.
.

25 Feb 2009

Quote by westerross
I'm glad you have reached a positive realisation Minxy.
Just one word of caution, don't base it on cyber friends you've made here - make sure you know them really, really well - I mean really well. If you've done that then - good on yer.
.

:thumbup: good man, sound advice
I would also advise if someone has been feeling that low in the first place ie., worryingly low, perhaps they should be seeking professional advice?

26 Feb 2009

Quote by noladreams30
Have you ever thought of starting a blog Minx?

I think that's a great idea...
A lot of the time writing can be cathartic and in a blog you can write what the hell you like... I'm sure it would help, especially if you got other peeps to have a look and comment (as I am sure most of your buddies on here would).
You could call it "Minx Thinks!" (I'll have £10 for thinking that up, in the post please! Nola gets the other £10 for the original idea!)

26 Feb 2009

I think its a good idea too Minx I for one would subscribe.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by jaymar
I'm glad you have reached a positive realisation Minxy.
Just one word of caution, don't base it on cyber friends you've made here - make sure you know them really, really well - I mean really well. If you've done that then - good on yer.
.

:thumbup: good man, sound advice
I would also advise if someone has been feeling that low in the first place ie., worryingly low, perhaps they should be seeking professional advice?
I 100% agree with both of these posts and without wanting to sound negative would advocate really thinking about what they've suggested :thumbup:
I shudder sometimes when I hear people refer to fellow Forumites as 'good.. dear.... special friends'. I know there are friendships and relationships that have been born as a result of this place but it's a case of being honest with yourself about the depth of these, as tune suggests. I've watched so many frail relationships fall apart on here where folk have seen it as their saviour, only to have their world fall apart as quickly as it was built. Yes, we're all different and we all having different coping mechanisms, just be careful kiss

Anyway, you're clearly in a better place than where you were when you said you were leaving the other day BUT I'd check exactly where that place is? Otherwise you'll find that 'roller coaster' journey will only continue. There's only so many times you can say 'I'm leaving' before people get bored. Having watched your posts and mood changes over the past couple of months, it's clearly been an 'up and down' journey for you and it pains me to see anybody go through that.
The only person you need to feel comfortable with is yourself and that affirmation can't and won't be real until it comes from within, NOT from replies to posts or PM's you get on here. They might help but it's like a boob job, eventually they WILL sag again wink

I wish you well x

26 Feb 2009

BLOKE SAID:
Loads of stuff and then he said this....
it's like a boob job, eventually they WILL sag again wink

I wish you well x
Cheeky fecker!!! Mine are 13 years old and they are NOT saggy evil

Actually they were never big enough to sag and they still arn't :P
Minxy..glad to see you're in a better place. Personally I know my journey won't end until I die...I never stop learning...especially about folk!

26 Feb 2009

Quote by noladreams30
Have you ever thought of starting a blog Minx?

Jaymar someone metioned a blog to me ages ago, to be honest I would not know where to start, as I know very little really about the workings of such things.
I am in the process of doing something else, and have taken steps in that direction.
Bloke
Your words are very true about friends, but one thing life as taught me is to choose your friends wisely, I believe when I metioned two I have, as they unknowning have helped me to release myself in a way I don't really think they are aware of they have done.
One by knowning feeling myself doubt and my feeling of being stupid, he pointed me in the direction of the forums, maybe unknowning he was giving me what he and possibliy I didn't know that helped me here, was the feeling of being able to express myself in a way I never thought I could.
This other friend has just been there to listen and encourage me when at times I thought I could not do this anymore, as at times it has been so painful.
I did not come here to find myself, it just kind of happened.

26 Feb 2009

I just heard that Carpenters tune with the words "It's only just begun.......)--it reminded me of this thread.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by flower411
One by knowning feeling myself doubt and my feeling of being stupid, he pointed me in the direction of the forums, maybe unknowning he was giving me what he and possibliy I didn't know that helped me here, was the feeling of being able to express myself in a way I never thought I could.

Minx ...if you are refering to me, I knew exactly what I was doing ...
I definately remember saying
" They`re all a bunch of weirdo`s in there, you`ll fit right in "
lol

Was I talking about you? :shock:
Yeah you know I was kiss

But what you didn't see then was I could end up being a complete loon

26 Feb 2009

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Have you ever thought of starting a blog Minx?

Jaymar someone metioned a blog to me ages ago, to be honest I would not know where to start, as I know very little really about the workings of such things.

:shock: Jaymar???

26 Feb 2009

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Have you ever thought of starting a blog Minx?

Jaymar someone metioned a blog to me ages ago, to be honest I would not know where to start, as I know very little really about the workings of such things.

This is a really good Minx, they're really simple to set up and you can invite people to read them as well as randoms popping in for a nosey smile

26 Feb 2009

Shouts from the back seat
" Are we there yet"
I meant no offence by this post it was a mere whimsy designed to clear my head and express a giggle.

26 Feb 2009

Quote by jaymar
Have you ever thought of starting a blog Minx?

Jaymar someone metioned a blog to me ages ago, to be honest I would not know where to start, as I know very little really about the workings of such things.

:shock: Jaymar???
Whoops sorry redface

27 Feb 2009

Blogs are like a personal cyber diary Minx... or commentary on whatever you fancy pouring your heart out about. You seem to find the written word somewhat cathartic: maybe a blog would be an appropriate place for you to continue your voyage?
They can, as Angel says, be written for a targeted audience or just for personal satisfaction. You can update them as often as you like and they are very easy to set up.
You may well find it therapeutic.

27 Feb 2009

Quote by benrums0n
Shouts from the back seat
" Are we there yet"
I meant no offence by this post it was a mere whimsy designed to clear my head and express a giggle.

I want a weewee
lp