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New in the Forum.
Just a thread for people to say hello I’m new in the Forum. a thread for the people who feel a bit daunted by the thought of posting in the forum, either because they are scared or apprehensive about the reaction they may get or because they can’t think of anything to say that will allow them to ease gently into the throng.
No nastiness, no backbiting, and no “how stupid are you” comments please, just try to play nice for a bit.
This place will stagnate if the new people don’t feel safe posting in here so let’s give them a chance to shine.
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Quote by Stormwalker
New in the Forum.
Just a thread for people to say hello I’m new in the Forum . .. . . .
No nastiness, no backbiting, and no “how stupid are you” comments please . . . . . .

:thumbup:
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And a good idea might be to sticky it as if it falls off the page a new victi....oops sorry member might not be able to find it?
Damn good idea Stormy it's amazing what a shag can do for you eh hun!
Love
FIRE xxxxxx
Sex God
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For me personally I always read individual newbie posts. biggrin
I personally don't like the idea of them all being together in one place, as one newbie may have made an interesting point and that might still be being discussed.
But the next newbie may well have posted and all could get mixed up with each other.
(I hope this makes sense)
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For me personally I always read individual newbie posts. biggrin
I personally don't like the idea of them all being together in one place, as one newbie may have made an interesting point and that might still be being discussed.
But the next newbie may well have posted and all could get mixed up with each other.
(I hope this makes sense)

You have a point there Sarah hun, but anyone thats interested enough would probably have a flick thru to see if they had missed someone. Well I would anyway! and if there's any newbies reading this right now wave welcome and get your arse in here so we can say hello!
Love
FIRE xxx
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And a good idea might be to sticky it as if it falls off the page a new victi....oops sorry member might not be able to find it?
Damn good idea Stormy it's amazing what a shag can do for you eh hun!
Love
FIRE xxxxxx

smackbottom I despair sometimes lol
Now bugger off and flirt with someone… smile
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Quote by Sarah
For me personally I always read individual newbie posts. biggrin
I personally don't like the idea of them all being together in one place, as one newbie may have made an interesting point and that might still be being discussed.
But the next newbie may well have posted and all could get mixed up with each other.
(I hope this makes sense)

It's just a Hello post Sarah kiss , if they want to start a thread that’s fine. I’m just concerned after reading some comments in another thread that some new people feel too intimidated to even say “Hi” . Frankly I can see why they would feel that way sometimes, but that’s not a discussion for this thread.
Warming the Bed
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Ok then,
Can we start off in here, we have made a couple of posts but dont know ANYONE from the site.
Perhaps we should be making the effort to say Hi to everybody, rather than waiting for them to come to us.
So, - Hello Eveyone! smile
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Hello to you, paddysdad wave
Welcome to the madhouse :welcome:
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:welcome: wave
Welcome to the Forum paddysdad. It’s not so bad when you get used to it, or perhaps more accurately, when it gets used to you . wink
If you have questions please feel free to ask them comments likewise .
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Ok then,
Can we start off in here, we have made a couple of posts but dont know ANYONE from the site.
Perhaps we should be making the effort to say Hi to everybody, rather than waiting for them to come to us.
So, - Hello Eveyone! smile

Hello wave
I can see you have been lurking here for a while, so welcome to this particular part of the site and be prepared to become addicted!!
Love
FIRE xxx
Sexlightened
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Hi wave to all the ''inmates'' of the forum. Suppose we've been guilty of being a couple of right old lurkers redface , occasionally adding a bit of our somewhat strange sense of humour from time to time lol , to which we hope no ones been offended and wont be in the future.
So from us to Paddysdad, we would just like to say "Welcome to the Asylum". Your beds are next to ours!. :lol:
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Hi wave to all the ''inmates'' of the forum. Suppose we've been guilty of being a couple of right old lurkers redface , occasionally adding a bit of our somewhat strange sense of humour from time to time lol , to which we hope no ones been offended and wont be in the future.
So from us to Paddysdad, we would just like to say "Welcome to the Asylum". Your beds are next to ours!. :lol:

Hello to you two as well then, you couple of lurkers you :wave:
Sexlightened
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Thanks Fire, we dont mind being called a couple of lurkers, but we do resent the fact that you never called us ''old''! lol
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Hey paddysdad and Xjxkx, nice to see you here, we are still relative newbies to the site but there are some good threads and banter going on, welcome! this lot may bite (but in all the right places LOL) lol
pink x
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Good idea for a thread, what about it being stickied?
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Good idea for a thread, what about it being stickied?

Oi ! do you never read my posts rolleyes
lol
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Quote by firelizard
Good idea for a thread, what about it being stickied?

Oi ! do you never read my posts rolleyes
lol
Don't be daft woman :roll:
Sexlightened
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Hey Pink! Thanks, been on here nosying for quite a while now. I agree, some interesting topics and a fair bit of banter. lol Had loads of laughs on here.
What about a ''banter'' sticky? :P
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Quote by Xjxkx
Hey Pink! Thanks, been on here nosying for quite a while now. I agree, some interesting topics and a fair bit of banter. lol Had loads of laughs on here.
What about a ''banter'' sticky? :P

Or a flirting sticky....."my pants are sticky", sticky
I'll get me coat! bolt
Sexlightened
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Quote by Stormwalker
Hey Pink! Thanks, been on here nosying for quite a while now. I agree, some interesting topics and a fair bit of banter. lol Had loads of laughs on here.
What about a ''banter'' sticky? :P

Or a flirting sticky....."my pants are sticky", sticky
I'll get me coat! bolt
What about putting all the other ''stickys'' into one huge ''sticky'' so that they all become stuck together, then nobody knows what everybody else is talking about! confused :lol:
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Quote by Xjxkx
Hey Pink! Thanks, been on here nosying for quite a while now. I agree, some interesting topics and a fair bit of banter. lol Had loads of laughs on here.
What about a ''banter'' sticky? :P

Or a flirting sticky....."my pants are sticky", sticky
I'll get me coat! bolt
What about putting all the other ''stickys'' into one huge ''sticky'' so that they all become stuck together, then nobody knows what everybody else is talking about! confused :lol:
What, like this you mean? :sticky:
Sex God
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wave
hello to all the lurkers, (young and old) and to the newbs :welcome:
as has been said before, you get out of these forums what you put in, so after you have been issued with the SH regulation straight jacket, get posting wink
Darned good idea stormy :thumbup:
i'd go for the sticky option tooi lol
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Quote by Pete_sw
wave
hello to all the lurkers, (young and old) and to the newbs :welcome:
as has been said before, you get out of these forums what you put in, so after you have been issued with the SH regulation straight jacket, get posting wink
Darned good idea stormy :thumbup:
i'd go for the sticky option tooi lol

Yeah but you're just a tart Pete rotflmao
Sex God
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Quote by firelizard
wave
hello to all the lurkers, (young and old) and to the newbs :welcome:
as has been said before, you get out of these forums what you put in, so after you have been issued with the SH regulation straight jacket, get posting wink
Darned good idea stormy :thumbup:
i'd go for the sticky option tooi lol

Yeah but you're just a tart Pete rotflmao
and proud of it :lol:
unfortunately i never went to tartiversity, so im not very good at it, now stop hijacking stormy's most excellent thread smackbottom
and your right, he is a dead ringer for cracker
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I think we all know my views on newbies by now lol....
Good thinking and a big warm welcome to one and all .....
Mike x
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I've been here for a while now & still feel like a newbie confused
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Quote by Pete_sw
so after you have been issued with the SH regulation straight jacket, get posting wink
:

Im sur it was Lemmy who said:
I really like this jacket, but the sleeves are much too long!
was he a member here?
Londonpsychiatricwardthing
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Quote by Stormwalker
New in the Forum.
Just a thread for people to say hello I’m new in the Forum. a thread for the people who feel a bit daunted by the thought of posting in the forum, either because they are scared or apprehensive about the reaction they may get or because they can’t think of anything to say that will allow them to ease gently into the throng.
No nastiness, no backbiting, and no “how stupid are you” comments please, just try to play nice for a bit.
This place will stagnate if the new people don’t feel safe posting in here so let’s give them a chance to shine.

I kinda prefer to keep new people in the main forum, let em make an entrance cool
Still wouldn't stop them, by post two, from getting completely ignored in threads confused Time and time again I see groups of individuals bantering in a thread, usually off topic by then...... Newbie/non regular poster does an on topic post, it gets caught in the middle of the banter ........... and completely ignored :?
That is also a recipe for stagnating - the constant hijacking with the same conversation, occasionally different words. Not always the same people, but usually the same sort of conversation which always includes a :twisted: icon, followed by a smackbottom one. ..... (although nearly ALL of us are guilty of it at some point or another :? )
Boring and dull - sorry it is - I don't come on the forums to read peoples 'banter', I go to a chatroom for that and it's fun in real time. I come on the forums to read peoples opinions, stories, dramas, thoughts etc biggrin So to have that, with newer/less regular people being included, would be my idea of the perfect thread :D