We read it as he wanted to join in the swinging but felt uneasy about it as Debs knew so many peeps in here already. We certainly didn't think he is being pushed into something he didn't want to do. He does have his own mind and can make his own decisions and we don't think Debs is pushing him into this just to please her. We feel that he was just needing a warm welcome. Forgive us if we are wrong Debs but that is how we see it.
Gill & Del x
I understand that, but it just seemed that everyone was looking at it from just her point of view. It may be that Debbiewebs is totally right and that I am just a busybody, but I'd rather make sure that he wants to swing, rather than applying more pressure on him...
Who said anything about swinging? We're talking about posting on the Forum aren't we? That is not swinging. There are quite a few who post here regularly, are valued members, and who are not swingers.
Besides MrDebbiewebbs is already here, which is great.
~waves ~
at mr debbs
nice to meet ya mate
stick around and dont be shy