please help me ....i need you all..... NOW!!!..crying

2 Oct 2004

peeps it come to a time!.....................that Mr Debs is giving me the big Qs............so i ask you you now so give me all your support in what i am having to say!
Mr Debs is Question me!......and..he has said........ is there any women out there!....why he asks this.............. is because....when he gets in.......... i am either camming with men or sending E mails!
He is getting a bit pissed off!................and have had a hell of a chat tonight .......for me tying to explain things to him.....he just cannot under stand!.......its not his fault....he works 7 days a week...and gets in late...if he gets in early he goes down the pub!.and so rightly so!..........dont take me wrong ....i love him to bits
So what i am asking.... is for women to post in here to tell him that they are women in here
and that you are all supporting him in his new steps in swinging!......its a bigger step for him then me!.............as i have got to no so many of you!......he just hasn't the time to post him self!..........and because of that he feels so left out!
so i am begging here to ya.........which is out of me carritor........but please help him along his way by posting.........and giving him all your advice.............. and make him feel comfortable with him self .........that there are women in here................. just as much as men and that you are all looking forward to meeting him at the Munch!
he has gone to bed now!.........but i have told him i am going to put a post in just for him!
and he will veiw tomorrow night!..
I love you all
Debsxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sorry i am being out of my normel maddness!.........some how due to are chat tonight i have lost it.... and i am crying! .....silly me hay!....what am i like! :cry: sorry got to get the tissues or bog roll in are house! bolt

2 Oct 2004

Well debbie,
I can guarantee that I am ALL woman lol

I will show Mr Debs at the Munch if you like :twisted:
CA xxx

2 Oct 2004

Quote by CarrieAnn
Well debbie,
I can guarantee that I am ALL woman
I will show Mr Debs at the Munch if you like :twisted:
CA xxx

You're gunna start tarting - Aren't you???

2 Oct 2004

I'm a woman too lol

:lol: Although unfiortunately I won't be at the munch.. but I could always show you on cam to prove it!! :twisted:

2 Oct 2004

Hi,

I am most deffinately female!
My fella never posts on SH. He finds the whole cyber thing akward and is scared of coming across in the wrong way. He was terrified going to the NW munch 3 because I had already met some people and he didn't know anyone. To make matters worse he is Danish and sometimes finds it difficult to distinguish English from background noise in loud party situations even though he is fluent. lol

I can't wait to meet you both at a forthcoming munch. kiss

G. x

2 Oct 2004

Quote by dambuster
Well debbie,
I can guarantee that I am ALL woman
I will show Mr Debs at the Munch if you like :twisted:
CA xxx

You're gunna start tarting - Aren't you???
START, START???? I though I already had rotflmao

CA xxx

2 Oct 2004

Hi Mr D.,I'm of the male persuasion and i can honestly say Mrs.D has never spoken to me!
Hmphhh.

2 Oct 2004

I'm a woman....... and so's my wife !! :shock: confused

:? :?

2 Oct 2004

fem_manc_cpl Tell him not to worry. I'm fluent and I can't distinguish the noises either.
P.S. One of the funniest things I've ever tried to do was to buy some baccy from a Polich driver that could speak no English, but a little German.

2 Oct 2004

Hi the Mr Debbiewebs. Yup, I was all female last time I checked, and can relate to how you feel, or at least Mars can! You may feel like you are being`left behind`, but you will be able to make up for this via the Munches, and I guaruntee you that Debbie won`t run off without you! Posting here is fun, but the real nitty gritty involves the BOTH of you, when you are BOTH ready!
Venusxxx

2 Oct 2004

Quote by xxdevil69
I'm a woman too :lol: Although unfiortunately I won't be at the munch.. but I could always show you on cam to prove it!! :twisted:

WHAT!
You won't be a woman at the munch? How do you do that??
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

2 Oct 2004

Dambuster, he didn't worry after the amount of whisky I laced him with!
Tarting....... hmmmm, now there is a thought!
If wants to check I'm all woman....... so be it.......... :grin:
ahhhh this is the life! lol

2 Oct 2004

i wish i was a woman

2 Oct 2004

Hmmm... Debbie... you seem like a nice girl and it's a shame you're feeling tired and emotional tonight. All I'd say is that you shouldn't depend too heavily on the internet. Chatrooms and messageboards often give a false sense of intimacy - you think you know these people, but the majority and strangers that you will never meet and you need to be careful about depending on people like that.
I hope you sort out your problems with your other half about swinging, but it seems to me that his insecurities would be better solved by sitting down and talking to him about your needs and his needs, rather than by getting testimonials from strangers off the web.
If he has doubts about swinging, they may be doubts over your relationship, trust, his self-esteem, his sexual identity... lots of things. Seems to me that rather than trying to twist his arm into swinging, you should make sure he feels valued and loved even if he's not into swinging.

3 Oct 2004

A hello to Mr Debs and you too Deb kiss

I am a fem and regularly post on here. My partner puts his 2 penneth worth in now and again lol

Go on, give it a go, we won't bite. Just pop in when you do find a spare moment. Just say hi and tell us how crap you're feeling or what a great day you've had, we all love to know how each other is doing.
We do cam for non sexual purposes too y'know. It is good to chat to friends and see them laugh when you say something bloody ridiculous.
Hope we see you around.
Gill x

3 Oct 2004

Hi Mr Debs
Just like to say hi from the male half of us.
I do get to use the keyboard every now and then.
Hope you will join us in the cafe sometime soon (there are plenty of ladies about)
Do go toa munch I we have been to one and due to go to another and its a great way of getting to know peeps and therefore makes it easier to chat in here.
Take care and have fun.
xx
Del
p.s. chin up lass x
(edit Thats my shot over for tonight I better pass the keyboard back to the boss rotflmao

end of edit)

3 Oct 2004

Debbiewebs and MrD,dont loose your wait till the munch and youll get to see all the lovely ladies flocking to you.
Debs kiss

MrD

3 Oct 2004

I'm a women at least I think I am LOL
Love Molly xx

3 Oct 2004

Oh dear, now there is a third MrD round here!
Yes there are lots of lovely women round here biggrin

, but please tell them you are Mr_Debbiewebs not Mr_D or they'd be horribly let down if they ever met me! :shock:

3 Oct 2004

Mr Debs has all the women he should ever hope for. You xxx
Anyone else is irrelevant.
Silky xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

3 Oct 2004

Aaw poor you! I am most definitely a woman. My other half knows all about this board and does read it. I have encouraged him to post but he has so far managed the grand total of 3!

3 Oct 2004

And here's one more Mr Debs. As real as can be. Honest. Ask anyone.
Jezzay.
PS Meet me at the Munch too.

3 Oct 2004

I am a woman
or I was last time I looked - and I haven't had surgery in the last hour!

3 Oct 2004

And here's another burd. See? I reckon we'll meet soon, too.

3 Oct 2004

and another one smile

my hubbie works all hours god sends and doesnt get time to post either

3 Oct 2004

Another bird ere too wink

Shireen
xxx

3 Oct 2004

Nuther woman here too wave

Mr ccr doesn't post very often as he's scared of saying the wrong thing! confused

ccr xxx

3 Oct 2004

Me too!
Mrs RSAB2 xxx :angel:

3 Oct 2004

Im a woman too......

3 Oct 2004

Ok. I am not a woman.
But here goes. In other threads in the forum, Dodgy Daz has been (quite rightly) castigated for trying to set up his wife for a dogging experience that she clearly doesn't want. Well, it's not exactly the same... but no matter how many women are here in the forum, it doesn't change the fact that Debbieweb's husband clearly doesn't feel too comfortable with swinging. She says that he works 7 days a week, and that whenever he comes home, she is either in here or on cam chatting to guys. Well, it seems to me that rather than having hordes of women in here saying "come on! swing!" someone should be asking if it's really what he wants. It might well be that it's not, and that he feels coerced into doing it (we've all said yes to partners because we're scared of losing them).
So, my message is to Debbieweb's bloke: Do what YOU want. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with, and don't do things just to please the missus if it's not what you want. You're in charge of your own life.