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Enough of the innuendo please - move on and stop nuturing a hurt, it will only burst open and cover you in poison if you persist.
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Horses for courses, Judy. Sometimes we have to make a judgement call and deal with it as best we can. We can't debate every decision we make. Regardless of what many may think, we are only human after all and have the same failings as anyone else.
Mal
Mal
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Quote by skegnessswingers
Regardless of what many may think, we are only human
It is now possible to have DNA testing to prove this if neccesary! lol
When shall I book you in for sample analysis? :grin:
Mal
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I agree with Alexandra, if you don't want to hear other people's point of veiw, why post a question to start with?
I think it gets a bit obvious when a thread needs locking, the majority of locks that happen are sarge taking the piss out of venus, one liners that are simply drivel and folk that have posted stuff of no relevance whatsoever.
Personally if I posted a thread on which everyone was getting a bit heated and rather upset about things I would probably PM a mod saying the thread I had posted had kind of gone off topic and a few people were upset about it. I'd then leave it to them to choose what to do. If it got locked before the discussion was solved then take it to PM and discuss it rationally between inboxes. I have the view that as soon as someone slings personal insults around they have automatically lost the arguement anyway, bit like the german leader beginning with H rule!
That thread was open to hijack cos no-one had come forward to say they had been to a fever party and had given the poster of the thread all the information needed for them to go and read for themselves. Therefore question answered= hijack commences :twisted:
However, some threads really don't need hijacking. Someone posting, fancy a shag in the middle of a discussion of a serious topic is out of place and wouldn't need locking, there are other ways.
I object to threads posted with an underlying dig at someone in particular under the guise of a general question. I feel this does provoke discussion but should be asked without the current "you are wrong and here is a thread full of people who agree with me". If someone has a problem with one person in particular then PM them, don't post a whole new thread about it.
I think it gets a bit obvious when a thread needs locking, the majority of locks that happen are sarge taking the piss out of venus, one liners that are simply drivel and folk that have posted stuff of no relevance whatsoever.
Personally if I posted a thread on which everyone was getting a bit heated and rather upset about things I would probably PM a mod saying the thread I had posted had kind of gone off topic and a few people were upset about it. I'd then leave it to them to choose what to do. If it got locked before the discussion was solved then take it to PM and discuss it rationally between inboxes. I have the view that as soon as someone slings personal insults around they have automatically lost the arguement anyway, bit like the german leader beginning with H rule!
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Lucky26 started this thread asking about "beautiful people" parties. For some reason () the people here thought that this thread was open to a hijacking.
If Lucky26 had taken offence to the hijacking because it had gone slightly off topic ( :shock: ) he could have asked for it to be locked.
That thread was open to hijack cos no-one had come forward to say they had been to a fever party and had given the poster of the thread all the information needed for them to go and read for themselves. Therefore question answered= hijack commences :twisted:
However, some threads really don't need hijacking. Someone posting, fancy a shag in the middle of a discussion of a serious topic is out of place and wouldn't need locking, there are other ways.
I object to threads posted with an underlying dig at someone in particular under the guise of a general question. I feel this does provoke discussion but should be asked without the current "you are wrong and here is a thread full of people who agree with me". If someone has a problem with one person in particular then PM them, don't post a whole new thread about it.
I only started a thread the once, and warned I`d ask for it to be locked if it became out of hand. The reason has already been covered perfectly by the reasons Neil has already stated, so I don`t need to cover that ground again. Suffice to say, I felt that I would be asking a Mod to lock it if the thread decended to a point that people would start breaking the AUP. I`ll put my hand up and admit that I would probably have asked before it became a complete road accident, because like Neil, I don`t like to feel responsible for that, seeing as I would have been the one who had started a contentious topic. I suppose that could be seen as a little arrogant on my part, or simply me trying to take responsibilty for ensuring people do not get hurt. I prefer the latter.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
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Now Venus has posted can Sarge lock it? Can he? :bounce:
;) Naughty Gem in mischievious mood! :twisted:
ps. I agree, I'd rather not be responsible for a full on cyber war if I can help it!
;) Naughty Gem in mischievious mood! :twisted:
ps. I agree, I'd rather not be responsible for a full on cyber war if I can help it!
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
I`ll put my hand up and admit that I would probably have asked before it became a complete road accident, because like Neil, I don`t like to feel responsible for that, seeing as I would have been the one who had started a contentious topic.
Ah. Enlightenment dawns: A while ago you made a comment to the effect that I know where to draw the line on taking responsibility for what other people say. To be honest, I wondered what the hell you were on about, but think I know now.
Ice, people are always wondering what the hell I am on about. Myself included half the time! :giggle:
I will tie myself up in knots about it though, not only about threads I start, but how I word my posts also. I`m always trying to predict how people will react to what I try to communicate and I will try to tweak my approach accordingly. This can only go so far however, and the end of the day, it`s not my place to accept complete responsibilty for how people will react. There`s a thin line between diplomacy and babysitting, and crossing the line into the latter is patronising. I never know when I`m encroaching into patronising territory! By the same token I think that others could use a few lessons in diplomacy
Venusxxx
I will tie myself up in knots about it though, not only about threads I start, but how I word my posts also. I`m always trying to predict how people will react to what I try to communicate and I will try to tweak my approach accordingly. This can only go so far however, and the end of the day, it`s not my place to accept complete responsibilty for how people will react. There`s a thin line between diplomacy and babysitting, and crossing the line into the latter is patronising. I never know when I`m encroaching into patronising territory! By the same token I think that others could use a few lessons in diplomacy
Venusxxx
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMarsmmm are they all in the same sleeve or have you three sleeves?
I have two topics up my sleeve today!
No! Three! I just remembered the other one! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
So can someone please explain to me why some people feel that just because they started a conversation in the forum, they have the right to effectively tell everyone when to stop talking about that subject by having it locked?
oooo ya Ice i can mmmmmmmmmmm
you see there nothing better then having the chance to lock ya own tread!
Well it is for me
When i see a chance!............... i get all excited you see
I nip off and have a quick shower!................. slip into some thing sexy!...get me rabbit out that i put in the freezer.................. half and hour before ............. just when his teeth are chattering..WHAT
...saves on batteries don't itThen comes me big moment!..oo ya!.................. i go in me wardrobe!
AND THERE IT IS!
ME MODS COAT............... With DEBBIE MOBS written of the back of it! .
what.... :dunno: ...... well its the closes i will get to becoming a mod
Then comes the moment!................ sending that pm to a REAL Mod Asking them to -- LOCK It...................... mmmmmmmmmmmm then the submit button WOW!
Then i wait and wait getting hotter and Hotter with the suspense
BINGO there it is the -- LOCK............. ooooooooooo what a orgasm
ok i ll get back in me box
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