Im here for the banter in the forums....and i have made some cyber friends whom I miss when im not here. Witchy hit the nail on the head (for me) when she said
I'm here because I have friends here I can talk to in an open minded manner. Friends who dont get when I tell an anecdote about being chucked out of a motel with three other people at 1am..etc etc. Friends- and other forumites- I can discuss complicated sexual issues with without being judged.
at the minute, i am pregnant, snd dont wanna swing with others, but im still shagging for england off site.
Hubs however still wants to participate, so he does if the opportunity arises.
swinging is a fluid thing....doesnt stay the same....., moods change, attitudes, needs and wants change...thats the nature of the beast.
does it really matter a flying fig why anyones here, as long as its not to hurt, deceive or cause trouble??
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Im here for the banter in the forums....and i have made some cyber friends whom I miss when im not here. Witchy hit the nail on the head (for me) when she said
I'm here because I have friends here I can talk to in an open minded manner. Friends who dont get when I tell an anecdote about being chucked out of a motel with three other people at 1am..etc etc. Friends- and other forumites- I can discuss complicated sexual issues with without being judged.
at the minute, i am pregnant, snd dont wanna swing with others, but im still shagging for england off site.
Hubs however still wants to participate, so he does if the opportunity arises.
swinging is a fluid thing....doesnt stay the same....., moods change, attitudes, needs and wants change...thats the nature of the beast.
does it really matter a flying fig why anyones here, as long as its not to hurt, deceive or cause trouble??
You were in that motel too? :shock:
if they've wrote on their profile THEY NOT MEETING ANYMORE,, we wouldn't consider them timewasters. they've been honest upfront, thus not wasting your over a million members passing through this site your bound to get thousands of diferent opinions on this matter,should they be here or not, (maybe it should say not meeting at the moment?)we'ed say congratulations to the people who've wrote that on their profile it's the people who don't tell you up front they never going to meet you but string you along and make arrangements are possibly the timewasters.
Sex God
just you left here markz.. how shit would that be
Tina writting this time..........agrees with P on some points, however, maybe it could have been worded a little more tactfully but anyone who knows us knows........we are pretty upfront. No offence was meant it was an opinion and n observation, we have all had experience of timewasters and sometimes it pisses you off. For all those peeps we offended who do actually have "only here for the chat" etc on their for the honesty, each to their own blah blah. However for those (who will remain nameless) who have couples profiles but turn out just to be guys........bugger off!
To those who say this is not a sex site.....I quote "SWINGER.......1,A member of a couple, especially a married couple who exchanges sexual partners.2, A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex." Therefore by definition, this IS a sex site.
End of rant.
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To those who say this is not a sex site.....I quote "SWINGER.......1,A member of a couple, especially a married couple who exchanges sexual partners.2, A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex." Therefore by definition, this IS a sex site.
End of rant.
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Quote by goldenandboytoy
Tina writting this time..........agrees with P on some points, however, maybe it could have been worded a little more tactfully but anyone who knows us knows........we are pretty upfront. No offence was meant it was an opinion and n observation, we have all had experience of timewasters and sometimes it pisses you off. For all those peeps we offended who do actually have "only here for the chat" etc on their for the honesty, each to their own blah blah. However for those (who will remain nameless) who have couples profiles but turn out just to be guys........bugger off!
To those who say this is not a sex site.....I quote "SWINGER.......1,A member of a couple, especially a married couple who exchanges sexual partners.2, A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex." Therefore by definition, this IS a sex site.
End of rant.
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Does this mean that singles should not be on here ? as according to your definition we are not swingers
Reacher
Surely is better to say on a profile 'Not Meeting' etc.. Rather than waste peoples time by letting them assume they can get to meet - only to be told no later on..
I am not here to meet anyone any more - I have Dagda and am very happy with him... I am still a member as I spend most evenings in chat with my many friends - most who i have met up with socially for the last 2 years, and still do so when ever I get a chance..
Does that mean I should pack my socks n leave cos I am not shagging like a bunny???? :cry:
minxy x
I am not here to meet anyone any more - I have Dagda and am very happy with him... I am still a member as I spend most evenings in chat with my many friends - most who i have met up with socially for the last 2 years, and still do so when ever I get a chance..
Does that mean I should pack my socks n leave cos I am not shagging like a bunny???? :cry:
minxy x
My point was that after several folks said this isnt a sex site...............it is. Never even mentioned singles and if you look again it says "especially married couples" not exclusivly.
The word swinger is related to sex and this a site for swingers, which, TO ME, says people who have sex with other swingers single or otherwise.
This is my opinion and im sure im not the only one who has it. If others choose just to chat or cam or whatever, so be it and good luck to them but as far as im concerned they are not swingers.
End of rant again.
The word swinger is related to sex and this a site for swingers, which, TO ME, says people who have sex with other swingers single or otherwise.
This is my opinion and im sure im not the only one who has it. If others choose just to chat or cam or whatever, so be it and good luck to them but as far as im concerned they are not swingers.
End of rant again.
This site is dedicated to swinging in the UK and its completely free to register as a member. If you are either into 'The Scene' or interested in learning more, this is the place for you.
We have photo ads system where you can browse other swinger's adverts and/or place one of your own. There is also a forum message board where adult members can place simple messages quickly and easily; perhaps exchanging useful information with others, arranging parties, web cam meets etc. A live video chat room is also available for adults to load up and chat to each other. Along with general swinging advice and information, we have a dogging section full of UK locations for doggers and advice on how to proceed. We also have a large directory of swingers clubs around the UK. So, you should find all you need here.
For everyone who is over 18 years of age, from the UK, and genuinely interested:-
???? i Dont know where you got your definition about swinging from, but you are trying to define a swinger, that is very movable for anyone.
and the origional point and one you triedto clarify with your definition was what is is contradictoy to your self as you actually use dit to say if this is a sex site... the above taken form the hoem page leads me to say this is NOT just a site to find sex, its a site for people who have a interest in swinging.
if im gay can i only be gay if im in the act of fucking someone the same sex as me? or can i be gay while doing the dishes?
im a swinger, not just when im having sex.
this is not a sex site its a site for those interested in swinging.
i could debate that even though im not fucking people off ths site i could be considered more of a swinger than a single man whos herejust fucking and running, as my definition is different than his to what is a swinger.
the fact i could not be fucking anyone form this site but chose to only meet strangers at a swinging club does that mean i shouldnt be here?
No.
yes we all get fucked off with timewasters, but im not being fake, im not wasting anyones time, im not saying i will meet anyone, and if i was it still does not make me a timewaster by wanting sex but not with everyone who messages me.
i think the confusion is trying to define anyone here, we are all individuals all entitled to be here as long as we keep within the AUP( maybe except markz
)
xxxx fem xxx
We have photo ads system where you can browse other swinger's adverts and/or place one of your own. There is also a forum message board where adult members can place simple messages quickly and easily; perhaps exchanging useful information with others, arranging parties, web cam meets etc. A live video chat room is also available for adults to load up and chat to each other. Along with general swinging advice and information, we have a dogging section full of UK locations for doggers and advice on how to proceed. We also have a large directory of swingers clubs around the UK. So, you should find all you need here.
For everyone who is over 18 years of age, from the UK, and genuinely interested:-
???? i Dont know where you got your definition about swinging from, but you are trying to define a swinger, that is very movable for anyone.
and the origional point and one you triedto clarify with your definition was what is is contradictoy to your self as you actually use dit to say if this is a sex site... the above taken form the hoem page leads me to say this is NOT just a site to find sex, its a site for people who have a interest in swinging.
if im gay can i only be gay if im in the act of fucking someone the same sex as me? or can i be gay while doing the dishes?
im a swinger, not just when im having sex.
this is not a sex site its a site for those interested in swinging.
i could debate that even though im not fucking people off ths site i could be considered more of a swinger than a single man whos herejust fucking and running, as my definition is different than his to what is a swinger.
the fact i could not be fucking anyone form this site but chose to only meet strangers at a swinging club does that mean i shouldnt be here?
No.
yes we all get fucked off with timewasters, but im not being fake, im not wasting anyones time, im not saying i will meet anyone, and if i was it still does not make me a timewaster by wanting sex but not with everyone who messages me.
i think the confusion is trying to define anyone here, we are all individuals all entitled to be here as long as we keep within the AUP( maybe except markz
)xxxx fem xxx
Sex God
Quote by fem_4_taboo
This site is dedicated to swinging in the UK and its completely free to register as a member. If you are either into 'The Scene' or interested in learning more, this is the place for you.
We have photo ads system where you can browse other swinger's adverts and/or place one of your own. There is also a forum message board where adult members can place simple messages quickly and easily; perhaps exchanging useful information with others, arranging parties, web cam meets etc. A live video chat room is also available for adults to load up and chat to each other. Along with general swinging advice and information, we have a dogging section full of UK locations for doggers and advice on how to proceed. We also have a large directory of swingers clubs around the UK. So, you should find all you need here.
For everyone who is over 18 years of age, from the UK, and genuinely interested:-
???? i Dont know where you got your definition about swinging from, but you are trying to define a swinger, that is very movable for anyone.
and the origional point and one you triedto clarify with your definition was what is is contradictoy to your self as you actually use dit to say if this is a sex site... the above taken form the hoem page leads me to say this is NOT just a site to find sex, its a site for people who have a interest in swinging.
if im gay can i only be gay if im in the act of fucking someone the same sex as me? or can i be gay while doing the dishes?
im a swinger, not just when im having sex.
this is not a sex site its a site for those interested in swinging.
i could debate that even though im not fucking people off ths site i could be considered more of a swinger than a single man whos herejust fucking and running, as my definition is different than his to what is a swinger.
the fact i could not be fucking anyone form this site but chose to only meet strangers at a swinging club does that mean i shouldnt be here?
No.
yes we all get fucked off with timewasters, but im not being fake, im not wasting anyones time, im not saying i will meet anyone, and if i was it still does not make me a timewaster by wanting sex but not with everyone who messages me.
i think the confusion is trying to define anyone here, we are all individuals all entitled to be here as long as we keep within the AUP( maybe except markz
xxxx fem xxx
I like it :thumbup:
Sex God
I'm back did anyone miss me ??
Whilst BB and myself haven't ruled out totally meeting others,we aren't actively seeking any meets...What should we do...it's a dilemna, here I am having just shelled out £70 for membership and the first post I read suggests I'm a fraud and should leave...bugger!! I'll read the rules next time
Whilst BB and myself haven't ruled out totally meeting others,we aren't actively seeking any meets...What should we do...it's a dilemna, here I am having just shelled out £70 for membership and the first post I read suggests I'm a fraud and should leave...bugger!! I'll read the rules next time
Sex God
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
I'm back did anyone miss me ??
Whilst BB and myself haven't ruled out totally meeting others,we aren't actively seeking any meets...What should we do...it's a dilemna, here I am having just shelled out £70 for membership and the first post I read suggests I'm a fraud and should leave...bugger!! I'll read the rules next time
Welcome back!
Sex God
thank you nola.....nice to see your face? again
