Sexual Technique Tips

14 Jul 2004

Quote by niceguysdoexist
My second question is the male g spot ...how many men have been brought to orgasm from stimulation of the prostrate ...its supposedly very intense too...short of mounting an expedition ..casual investigations have been unable to locate my particular organ.

Brought to orgasm, no, not by that alone. However combined with other stimulus it makes me leave the bed, upwards. Believe me at 6ft 6, 21 stone and solid build that scary smile

and I have gone right through 2 beds (Expensive)
We use the floor now...

15 Jul 2004

I need to take a closer look at this thread when the kids are in bed. I can pretty much get away with scrolling a minimal window when they are up, but Dawn posts too much on here, her animated tits are too noticable!! lol

I took the sword swallowing advice on board though. Going to try that tonight. I`ll let you all know how I get on :twisted:
Venusxxx

15 Jul 2004

G spot...
FFS
I am only upto C....!

15 Jul 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
I took the sword swallowing advice on board though. Going to try that tonight. I`ll let you all know how I get on

Just make sure your throat stays relaxed cos if it tightens then the gag reflex will kick in ..... good luck wink

15 Jul 2004

The worst thing to practice deep throat on is a man. Try something plastic, washable, and a bit bendy that isn't going to complain if you stop, or won't swallow. Try the bottom drawer in the bedroom, you'll probably find something suitable there.
You don't have many nerve endings past your tonsils, so once you have the knack of that bit, you can easily go on as far as necessary for your nose to hit the bellybutton.
Controlling the gag reflex is mostly a case of getting used to having something touch your tonsils. Keep the object touching them until it gets easy - it's mind over body at this stage, once you are relaxed enough and confident that the object isn't going to kill you, stop you breathing or make any sudden movements, you'll gradually gag less and less as your mind gets used to the idea. Eventually it will just feel odd, and the gagging will die down. Then it's just a gentle slide further in, and broad grin time!

15 Jul 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
I need to take a closer look at this thread when the kids are in bed. I can pretty much get away with scrolling a minimal window when they are up, but Dawn posts too much on here, her animated tits are too noticable!!
I took the sword swallowing advice on board though. Going to try that tonight. I`ll let you all know how I get on :twisted:
Venusxxx

I believe (and trust me here I'm no expert) that you need to open the epiglotis as well.
Here's a little exercise for you.
Sit straight and hold your head back so you're looking at the ceiling, concentrate on what your throat is doing. Swallow and then breathe in very softly through your mouth. You should feel a slight click or opening in your throat. That's the epiglotis opening.
When you try DT try and breathe in slightly as it goes in and that should start to open the throat at least. You need to be very relaxed though. (I'll stress this again though. I'M NO EXPERT).

15 Jul 2004

You could always try a banana? An if by chance you accidently bite the top off......eat and enjoy, no harm done.
Hope you enjoy the practice sessions...
xanaisx

15 Jul 2004

Lol, I think Mark should add a disclaimer to this thread.
Any deaths occurring from asphixiation are at no point the resposibilty of Swinging Heaven.
I wish I could breathe through my nose longterm, that could be a problem confused

. I found that a real problem during yoga, I just don`t get enough oxygen. *Enter big debate in the VnMs household.
How do you breathe? In through your nose, and out through your mouth? In and out of the mouth? What?
I breathe in and out through my mouth, and have just been informed that is WRONG!!
It`s kept me alive so far hasn`t it?! dunno

Venusxxx

15 Jul 2004

Exploration of the â€œG Spotâ€ is one of my favourite pastimes, and I donâ€™t know if I can class it as sexual technique / expertness or whatever, but I share this for you allâ€¦â€¦..
Over the years I have had many girlfriends that have definitely been in tune with there G-Spot, to the extent of them discovering that other mystical female myth â€œThe female ejaculationâ€ or â€œto squirtâ€ as itâ€™s more commonly known.
I have found, (this is my personal knowledge here â€“ opinions may vary) that the best position to stimulate the G-Spot and evoke a squirt is to have the lady already aroused by foreplay, squat deeply in front of you almost to the point that her bottom touches the floor, then you insert your finger in to her whilst positioned in front of her, your palm forward and bend your finger forward slightly.
This should enable you to feel the soft spongy part of her, now, with manipulation you will feel this swelling and by rapid manipulation and touching of this part a squirt can be persuaded. It may only be a little at first, but with the right coaxing and support your lady will soon perform like your personal Niagara Falls. Trust meâ€¦
This is not just a selfish endeavour, Every one I have managed to do this to has been thrilled with it and the different feelings and types of orgasm they have discovered from it.
I do confess though to being a slave to my art, I also adore the feel of a gush or two hitting my hand / leg / chest etcâ€¦..
What say you ladies? Have you found yours yet? Is it the same for you?
Oh and if you donâ€™t believe me ladiesâ€¦. Just give me an e-mailâ€¦. First lesson is free!!!!
Frogster biggrin

15 Jul 2004

: :?: :?: Do any of the ladies here enjoy having their cervix stroked , this does not appear in any of the sexperts books , but I have noticed that if you are having some foreplay fun with your fingers inside the woman they always seem to get pleasure when you stroke thier cervix , and if you use a condom with what used to be called a "french tickler" which is a frilly attachment at the bell end it seems to hit the spot ,these may be unfasionable now as opposed to the clitoral stimulators which are all the rage today . Not that they don't work as well , isn't sex great ? biggrin

15 Jul 2004

Having my cervix stroked does nothing for me, apart from the stimulation on the way up! I have a very low one, which was a pig when I had the coil fitted, the cord kept stabbing poor Mars. I had it snipped shorter and shorter, until they refused on the bases they`d lose it altogether! Anyway, I digress, cervix stimulation is quite accessable for me, but it just doesn`t seem to be very sensitive.
Venusxxx

15 Jul 2004

It took us ages to get anal just right,its just a matter of perseverance.
Youve just got to learn how you like it and when you do it is well worth it biggrin

:shock:
Clare,xxx
wink

15 Jul 2004

Sexual Techniques Tips

If you're ever in a position where you feel the need to wear two condoms just to be on the safe side then here is a handy tip..............
Roll on the first condom and then smear chilli paste over the surface. Then roll on the second condom.
Whilst having sex if you see the eyes of your partner suddenly open wide and a look of shear panic spreads across her face then you're either giving her the best time she's ever had or the outer condom has broken and you need to replace it. Girls, if you see the same expression appear on the guy's face you can assume that the inner condom has broken but you won't need to tell him, he will no doubt already be thinking about taking the necessary remedial action.
Steve

15 Jul 2004

Quote by steveg_nw
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Roll on the first condom and then smear chilli paste over the surface. Then roll on the second condom.
Steve

Thats seriously sick and evil and twisted loon

Clare,xxx

(eyes watering at the thoughts!!)

15 Jul 2004

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

15 Jul 2004

If you're ever in a position where you feel the need to wear two condoms just to be on the safe side then here is a handy tip..............

Reminds me of this little gem..
There was a young man from Mauritius
Who said that last fuck was delicious
But next time I cum
It`ll be in your bum
Cos that scab on your cunt looks suspicious! surprised

Venusxxx

3 Jan 2009

Another interesting thread I thought, :thumbup:

3 Jan 2009

Oh and if anyone has any advice to add on painless anal sex, please do - I'd be forever grateful lol
Or anything else you think people might benefit from! lol

3 Jan 2009

Quote by noladreams30
Oh and if anyone has any advice to add on painless anal sex, please do - I'd be forever grateful lol
Or anything else you think people might benefit from!

Nola, the trick really is to work up to it I think, start by using thin toys and getting used to the feel of them then progress to fatter things like plugs.
You do have to be very relaxed and so I'd suggest trying it solo to start with, loads and loads of lube helps.
Once you can relax enough with a plug or dildo, then a penis is so much easier as it's softer etc.

3 Jan 2009

Quote by Calista
Oh and if anyone has any advice to add on painless anal sex, please do - I'd be forever grateful lol
Or anything else you think people might benefit from!

Nola, the trick really is to work up to it I think, start by using thin toys and getting used to the feel of them then progress to fatter things like plugs.
You do have to be very relaxed and so I'd suggest trying it solo to start with, loads and loads of lube helps.
Once you can relax enough with a plug or dildo, then a penis is so much easier as it's softer etc.
Maybe it must be tension as I'm cool with toys... dunno

3 Jan 2009

Quote by Calista
Oh and if anyone has any advice to add on painless anal sex, please do - I'd be forever grateful lol
Or anything else you think people might benefit from!

Nola, the trick really is to work up to it I think, start by using thin toys and getting used to the feel of them then progress to fatter things like plugs.
You do have to be very relaxed and so I'd suggest trying it solo to start with, loads and loads of lube helps.
Once you can relax enough with a plug or dildo, then a penis is so much easier as it's softer etc.
What she said :thumbup:
Being relaxed is the most important way to start. Why not get yer man to lube a finger to begin with? When you're ready to try toys, a jelly dong or plug is a lot nicer to use, a vibe can be too 'solid' if you get my drift wink

Take your time and just keep practising, buy some latex gloves and try it on yourself but don't forget to lube, lube, lube!
Enjoy :wink: