A thread ran recently talking about how difficult some people find it reading sexy 'signals'.
Personally, I love to use gentle touching and waiting to see if it reciprocated. The hand on the arm when you are both laughing, or maybe even the gentle brush of the other persons leg/thigh if you are sitting together. :rascal:
I tend to look for eye contact or even a direct question!
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What are these signals?
Do you have a 'special move' when you are trying to gauge if another person finds you sexy or attractive?
Do you look for certain sexual signals?
Are there signals that you wish others would use? (Open to plenty of jokes!)
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Sexy signals!
Sex God
Quote by Kiss
Personally, I love to use gentle touching and waiting to see if it reciprocated. The hand on the arm when you are both laughing, or maybe even the gentle brush of the other persons leg/thigh if you are sitting together. :rascal:
I tend to look for eye contact or even a direct question!
I'm very tactile with people I like. I have been known to ask directly if someone wanted to play, but usually don't .
Warming the Bed
I couldn't read a signal if it came over to me, slapped me round the head with a placard saying "I'm a signal" while screaming "im a signal" in my ear :cry:
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
I'm a touchy-feely person and I love it when someone I'm flirting with touches my arm or my back, however briefly. That gives out all the right signals to me. Also eye contact and smiling in 'that' way does it for me too.
Oooo I love that too! I try to do that smile but I just look like an Imp!
Quote by Freckledbird
I'm very tactile with people I like. I have been known to ask directly if someone wanted to play, but usually don't .
I'm still waiting for you to ask!
Sex God
Quote by Jas-Tim
A flashing neon badge saying "Jas-Tim do you want a shag?"
Jas-Tim do you want a shag?
Would that suffice, in the absence of flashy neon? :twisted:
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Sex God
Quote by LadyFeeBee
Just throw me against the wall and snog the face off me (preferably at the top of some stairs) and I'll get the message
Fee
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********** TE makes notes *********
1. Practice throwing technique
2. Find face and powerful suction lips
3. Find stairs
4. Find top of stairs
5. Decide which message he thinks he can get away with....
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I was recently in a situation where I thought that someone wanted to play with me, but that they were too shy to know how to begin.
This was with friends of ours rather than experienced swingers, but it was clear that naughty thoughts had crossed everyone's minds since we'd had our last flirty meet.
Since everyone had already been playing with the other female present, including myself, and I knew that our straight male friend would like a little attention, I just told him in a friendly way that he could play a little with me too if he was comfortable, but that it was ok with me if he felt shy. Two minutes later I was sat on his knee while he softy stroked my chest...it was lovely
and I know that my female friend enjoyed the attention she'd almost demanded from all of us
Holly
This was with friends of ours rather than experienced swingers, but it was clear that naughty thoughts had crossed everyone's minds since we'd had our last flirty meet.
Since everyone had already been playing with the other female present, including myself, and I knew that our straight male friend would like a little attention, I just told him in a friendly way that he could play a little with me too if he was comfortable, but that it was ok with me if he felt shy. Two minutes later I was sat on his knee while he softy stroked my chest...it was lovely
and I know that my female friend enjoyed the attention she'd almost demanded from all of us Holly
Sex God
Quote by loveh4s
I was recently in a situation where I thought that someone wanted to play with me, but that they were too shy to know how to begin.
This was with friends of ours rather than experienced swingers, but it was clear that naughty thoughts had crossed everyone's minds since we we'd had our last flirty meet.
We have experienced this on several occassions, including one recently!
We're begining to wonder if our friends are the inexperienced ones or they think we are :shock:
Quote by westerross
Just throw me against the wall and snog the face off me (preferably at the top of some stairs
Fee
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********** TE makes notes *********
1. Practice throwing technique
2. Find face and powerful suction lips
3. Find stairs
4. Find top of stairs
5. Decide which message he thinks he can get away with....
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Tune, you and I seem to be taking a lot of notes about each other recently! We should try to compare them sometime
Fee
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Sex God
Research is very important.....
but practical experiment is much more meaningful!!
I think we might share some hypotheses first though? Can't beat a sexy hypothesis, I say - as long as it gets translated into a theory and then a law!!
but practical experiment is much more meaningful!!
I think we might share some hypotheses first though? Can't beat a sexy hypothesis, I say - as long as it gets translated into a theory and then a law!!
Quote by westerross
Research is very important.....
but practical experiment is much more meaningful!!
I think we might share some hypotheses first though? Can't beat a sexy hypothesis, I say - as long as it gets translated into a theory and then a law!!
Is that code for fancy a shag?
Fee
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Sex God
Quote by LadyFeeBee
Research is very important.....
but practical experiment is much more meaningful!!
I think we might share some hypotheses first though? Can't beat a sexy hypothesis, I say - as long as it gets translated into a theory and then a law!!
Is that code for fancy a shag?
Fee
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Well at least it wasn't a one-liner!!
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