Since the beginning of time

15 Jan 2007

Men and woman have been attracted to each other
this is obvious I her you say
but what is it that attracts us to a potential mate ?
in prehistoric times the man looked for good breading stock
good health
good buttocks
good breasts
good chilled baring hips
the woman looked for a good provider and protector for her offspring
good health
good hunter
good strong build
but what do we look for in a man or woman today?
What makes you say WOW! when they work in the room ?

15 Jan 2007

In a man
Tallish
Good solid build
usually dark haired
Not too pale complexion
In a woman
Glossy hair
Confidence
Nice boobs (be they large or small)
Nice bum
Not too skinny
Not that I'm fussy or anything innocent

15 Jan 2007

A pulse

15 Jan 2007

ah! but i was talking about prehistoric times !
i was asking what we look for now ?
are brains something we look for now ? i think they may be wink

15 Jan 2007

Quote by Scandal
Men and woman have been attracted to each other
this is obvious I her you say
but what is it that attracts us to a potential mate ?
in prehistoric times the man looked for good breading stock
good health
good buttocks
good breasts
good chilled baring hips
the woman looked for a good provider and protector for her offspring
good health
good hunter
good strong build
but what do we look for in a man or woman today?
What makes you say WOW! when they work in the room ?

You've completely forgotten to mention brains!
Brains comes later though once they've walked into the room. Thats when they can undo the walking into the room wow factor so often :smile2:

15 Jan 2007

thought mens brains were in their pants :giggle: :giggle:

15 Jan 2007

Quote by hisandhers
thought mens brains were in their pants :giggle: :giggle:

A grey discolouring is not the same as functional grey matter wink

15 Jan 2007

Quote by PoloLady
thought mens brains were in their pants :giggle: :giggle:

A grey discolouring is not the same as functional grey matter wink

Eeeeewwwwwww what a thought !!!!!!!!

15 Jan 2007

see what happens :roll:

15 Jan 2007

i have no idea what attracts me to people, male or female, cos its different with each person, i just know when i am attracted to them
Earthy xx

15 Jan 2007

I start at the bottom half redface

Not in any order but
Arse, hips, legs, footwear lol

and then i wonder if they are hold-ups, stockings or tights.
After that its the face and smile

15 Jan 2007

Quote by earthchild
i have no idea what attracts me to people, male or female, cos its different with each person, i just know when i am attracted to them
Earthy xx

eyes do it for me with men rolleyes

but personality has got to be the most important - its what comes from within
in a clean sense that is wink

women attract me coz they are women lol

15 Jan 2007

Quote by goose35
I start at the bottom half
Not in any order but
Arse, hips, legs, footwear and then i wonder if they are hold-ups, stockings or tights.
After that its the face and smile

ah!ha! thats what i was lookin for ( well done Goosy wink

)
men still think bacicaly the same as we did when we where " cavemen" rolleyes

but do woman?

15 Jan 2007

cavemen may have been sexier with their little no.s they wore- no trousers in those days & all had long hair.
Just knew the difference when the men shouted 'hunny I'm home' lol

soz

15 Jan 2007

Quote by sercher01
I start at the bottom half
Not in any order but
Arse, hips, legs, footwear and then i wonder if they are hold-ups, stockings or tights.
After that its the face and smile

ah!ha! thats what i was lookin for ( well done Goosy wink

)
men still think bacicaly the same as we did when we where " cavemen" rolleyes

but do woman?
I wonder if there many Bi cave women :confused2: ya never seem to see em in the old dinosaur movies do ya ?

15 Jan 2007

Im sure Wilma was doing Betty wink

(this has no reference to Wilma on this site!!)

15 Jan 2007

Quote by lilacgem
Im sure Wilma was doing Betty
(this has no reference to Wilma on this site!!)

my thoughts exactly lol

15 Jan 2007

before pololady gets here rolleyes

what im trying to say is " have we changed that much?"
i think we still look for the same things in a long term partner ?
im sure theres a film about that lilac wink

15 Jan 2007

Quote by sercher01
im sure theres a film about that lilac

Yes I spotted that in your collection, right next to "Fred tells how to make the bedrock"
rotflmao

Well it made me giggle anyway
rolleyes

15 Jan 2007

each & every one of us knows what clicks for them, whether its looks or personality. How can that have changed from Adam & Eve, let alone the cavemen/women.
Only thing was did Adam & Eve have a choice lol

16 Jan 2007

What attracts me to somebody?
People who are living! And no I don't mean a pulse. I mean people who look at the bigger picture. Somebody who doesn't live in a bubble and think that their little world is THE only world. Somebody that enjoys different life experiences and learning new things.
A perfect pair of breasts it great and will grab my attention - for about half an hour. lol

I think about things a lot so I need to be stimulated by others who also think. I find big brains extremely arousing!
Other than that, other traits I find very attractive are compassion, kindness and humour.

16 Jan 2007

For me the wow factor is definately in the eyes and smile ,or eyes that smile
even a shy smile with a twinkle in the eyes can make me go all knocky at the knees redface

16 Jan 2007

For me the wow factor is definately in the eyes and smile ,or eyes that smile
even a shy smile with a twinkle in the eyes can make me go all knocky at the knees

Absobloodylutely Warmer, couldn't agreee more
pink x

16 Jan 2007

I find I'm almost as choosy with swinging partners as with potential lifetime partners. I like to be attracted to them mentally as well as physically as I do like to have a few people I can see regularly so we have to get on out of the bedroom too. I'm not into disposable swinging - ie shag once then throw away. With the exception of one or two, I keep in touch with my swinging buddies and meet up again.
The initial thing with me though is physical...... the killer smile, sexy eyes and a butt you can't keep your hands off.......will do it for me every time :inlove: If they turn out to be as dull as dishwater, then I'm afraid the pants stay on and it's no shaggee tonight.
As for finding a lifetime partner, I know who would be perfect for me and no one would ever come close to that. redface

16 Jan 2007

Humour/personality is top for me
The ability to make me feel at ease confused

Eyes, Smile and Bum
In edit because I've just realised who I have posted under, they tend to be male ;) :lol2:

16 Jan 2007

Quote by Some Bi women
Humour/personality is top for me

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
Eyes, Smile and Bum

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
The ability to make me feel at ease

Damn! :doh:
So that's where I've been going wrong.
I'm now realising that frightening you severely with propositions and suggestions of lady loving isn'tthe way forward.

16 Jan 2007

Quote by Kiss
Humour/personality is top for me

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
Eyes, Smile and Bum

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
The ability to make me feel at ease

Damn! :doh:
So that's where I've been going wrong.
I'm now realising that frightening you severely with propositions and suggestions of lady loving isn'tthe way forward.
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

16 Jan 2007

Quote by Dawnie
Humour/personality is top for me
The ability to make me feel at ease
Eyes, Smile and Bum
In edit because I've just realised who I have posted under, they tend to be male ;) :lol2:

Not for long hunni, not for long :twisted:
Kiss.......all propositions and suggestions of lady loving in my pm box please wink

16 Jan 2007

Quote by Kiss
Humour/personality is top for me

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
Eyes, Smile and Bum

Tick! :smug:

Quote by Some Bi women
The ability to make me feel at ease

Damn! :doh:
So that's where I've been going wrong.
I'm now realising that frightening you severely with propositions and suggestions of lady loving isn'tthe way forward.

:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
Lady loving, I'm screaming with laughter now :rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:

16 Jan 2007

Just noticed the typo-

in prehistoric times the man looked for good breading stock
good health
good buttocks
good breasts
good chilled baring hips

:bounce: Whoo! Everyone wants me then- after 10 days with no heating, my hips are well & truly feckin chilled.
:giggle:
On a serious note, they have to have that twinkle wink

- I couldn't agree more with what Kiss said- lust for life makes people attractive.