I am sick and tired of hearing people windge and moan about single males. Some of us actually like single males and feel they are being made to feel outcasts in this community. I have opened this tread for people to show solidarity with single males and say : "Single males We Like You!" come on all of you that appreciate sngle males lets say so
Quote by midsprincess I am sick and tired of hearing people windge and moan about single males. Some of us actually like single males and feel they are being made to feel outcasts in this community. I have opened this tread for people to show solidarity with single males and say : "Single males We Like You!" come on all of you that appreciate sngle males lets say so
i am a single male :wink: :wink: and I like me ........................... does that count :shock: :shock: :shock: steve x
Good thread mids! I think what many of the moaning single males fail to get (apart from meets! ) is that just like "real life", to get results takes time, effort, respect (mutual on both sides) and above all trust. If you can work on these, you won't have a problem.
I agree with Midsprincess. Single males have certainly served their purpose with me on occasion and long may they continue to do so! As for some of them not doing themselves any favours, this is true, though I find the same can be said for some couples. I think it's more a case of who has social skills and who doesn't rather than their membership status. Maybe the single guys just stand out more as there's so many on them?
We have met single males and thoroughly enjoyed their company. The last thing we'd ever do is advertise the fact that we're prepared to do so as we'd get flooded with offers from every single male in the southern half of the UK. We prefer to get talking to people in the chatrooms and select the single males who can string a sentence together, don't whisper without asking and show a certain level of respect.
We meet single guys(we've yet to find a cpl or single female who will meet us :lol2: ) and we have yet to find a bad one (out of the ones we have actually met that is) so either we have chosen well or they aren't as bad as some make out :lol2:
We like single males - bloody hell if I didn't have a partner I'd be one too. I dont like it when looking on profiles you see the ***NO SINGLE MALES WANTED DO YOU UNDERSTAND*** type phrases you find in the profile description area thingy. Why on earth not just a simple - thank you for looking at our profile but we are not lookin at present. There is far too much issue made by couples regarding not wanting single males. especially when a lot of the time I believe its the male part of a couple that takes issue. Well he is lucky as am I to be one part of a swinging couple. BTW we do enjoy the company of single guys - as with all people some are arseholes most are decent.
Quote by midsprincess I am sick and tired of hearing people windge and moan about single males. Some of us actually like single males and feel they are being made to feel outcasts in this community. I have opened this tread for people to show solidarity with single males and say : "Single males We Like You!" come on all of you that appreciate sngle males lets say so
We meet single guys and we I think have been lucky with our choices. Yes single males get a bad press on here, but God do some of them deserve it at times. In chat some of them are just down right rude and nasty. They whisper without asking, in fact a lot are just complete arseholes but.....there are many decent honest guys out there, and a few we have met. There is room for nice guys on this site, and no room for a few of the tossers out there. I am just glad that our experiences have been good ones, but maybe that is down to our own intuitions, and the way we go about weeding out the losers. There are far more nice guys on this site, than there are idiots but....sometimes it is the minority that spoil things for the majority, which happens in all walks of life.
Quote by kentswingers777 We meet single guys and we I think have been lucky with our choices. Yes single males get a bad press on here, but God do some of them deserve it at times. In chat some of them are just down right rude and nasty. They whisper without asking, in fact a lot are just complete arseholes but.....there are many decent honest guys out there, and a few we have met. There is room for nice guys on this site, and no room for a few of the tossers out there. I am just glad that our experiences have been good ones, but maybe that is down to our own intuitions, and the way we go about weeding out the losers. There are far more nice guys on this site, than there are idiots but....sometimes it is the minority that spoil things for the majority, which happens in all walks of life.
Quote by Lost We like single males - bloody hell if I didn't have a partner I'd be one too. I dont like it when looking on profiles you see the ***NO SINGLE MALES WANTED DO YOU UNDERSTAND*** type phrases you find in the profile description area thingy. Why on earth not just a simple - thank you for looking at our profile but we are not lookin at present. There is far too much issue made by couples regarding not wanting single males. especially when a lot of the time I believe its the male part of a couple that takes issue. Well he is lucky as am I to be one part of a swinging couple. BTW we do enjoy the company of single guys - as with all people some are arseholes most are decent.
Have to say that is one of my biggest pet peeves! it borders on being really rude and condesending ,so when a couple approaches me and with that in there profile, I point it out... and then say thank you but no thank you. yes there are loads of single men here, and yes they can be arses at times, but i've seen as many couples with as bad an attitude if i judged all couples on the ones that had stood me up you'd all be rightly annoyed..... I doubt the thread will get thru to those who do it.. but I say thank you all the same
Quote by Lost We like single males - bloody hell if I didn't have a partner I'd be one too. I dont like it when looking on profiles you see the ***NO SINGLE MALES WANTED DO YOU UNDERSTAND*** type phrases you find in the profile description area thingy. Why on earth not just a simple - thank you for looking at our profile but we are not lookin at present. There is far too much issue made by couples regarding not wanting single males. especially when a lot of the time I believe its the male part of a couple that takes issue. Well he is lucky as am I to be one part of a swinging couple. BTW we do enjoy the company of single guys - as with all people some are arseholes most are decent.
That's probably because the couple have already tried that and it's well known that single males can't read unless it is in yer face and in capitals. Now before anybody has a go, I'm practically a reborn single male, as Angelica is taking time out at the mo' (even though she'll be coming to a gathering or two). So I'm likely to be experiencing the thin end of the wedge for a while. So thank you Midsprincess - truly a princess. <<<< Choon gets his social skills sharpener out >>>> .
Guess what ? We~ Like ~Single~ Men ! Bless it is hard for them to find their way into the good books, some are just clueless, and some are clearly married or attached, but it doesn't take a genius to sort the wheat from the chaffe . I'd just ask that all members read the profiles and Ads before whispering or pm'ing, it saves answering the same questions over and over and also saves them the hurt of a no thankyou xxxx
It might be worth considering how and why so many couples end up choosing so many unsuitable singles. There must be some very good reasons why they do so.
Quote by midsprincess We meet single guys and we I think have been lucky with our choices. Yes single males get a bad press on here, but God do some of them deserve it at times. In chat some of them are just down right rude and nasty. They whisper without asking, in fact a lot are just complete arseholes but.....there are many decent honest guys out there, and a few we have met. There is room for nice guys on this site, and no room for a few of the tossers out there. I am just glad that our experiences have been good ones, but maybe that is down to our own intuitions, and the way we go about weeding out the losers. There are far more nice guys on this site, than there are idiots but....sometimes it is the minority that spoil things for the majority, which happens in all walks of life.
just like couples and single fems then You think so? As there are 100 single guys to every couple...my opinion, if you are more likely to meet guys then the percentage of wallys increases. I never said that couples and single fems are idiots, as we know there are a few who could well be but....the stats show that single guys are a bigger problem on sites like this, than couples and single fems, purely maybe because of the numbers. This thread IS refering to single guys, so why bring up couples or single fems? If it was about them I would have made a comment like I just have. The op was asking about single guys......simple really.
Quote by Steve We meet single guys(we've yet to find a cpl or single female who will meet us :lol2: ) and we have yet to find a bad one (out of the ones we have actually met that is) so either we have chosen well or they aren't as bad as some make out :lol2:
Quote by kentswingers777 We meet single guys and we I think have been lucky with our choices. Yes single males get a bad press on here, but God do some of them deserve it at times. In chat some of them are just down right rude and nasty. They whisper without asking, in fact a lot are just complete arseholes but.....there are many decent honest guys out there, and a few we have met. There is room for nice guys on this site, and no room for a few of the tossers out there. I am just glad that our experiences have been good ones, but maybe that is down to our own intuitions, and the way we go about weeding out the losers. There are far more nice guys on this site, than there are idiots but....sometimes it is the minority that spoil things for the majority, which happens in all walks of life.
just like couples and single fems then You think so? As there are 100 single guys to every couple...my opinion, if you are more likely to meet guys then the percentage of wallys increases. I never said that couples and single fems are idiots, as we know there are a few who could well be but....the stats show that single guys are a bigger problem on sites like this, than couples and single fems, purely maybe because of the numbers. This thread IS refering to single guys, so why bring up couples or single fems? If it was about them I would have made a comment like I just have. The op was asking about single guys......simple really. As there are 100 single guys to every couple...my opinion Opinion is just that your thoughts Fact is what is needed you should always be able to back your opinion up with fact. What op ??????????? do u actually read anything or just make unfounded opinionated statements!!!! People make nasty comments about single males there are as many nasty single fems and couples as single males and there are as many nice guys a s girls and cpls. think you have proved my point
Quote by duncanlondon It might be worth considering how and why so many couples end up choosing so many unsuitable singles. There must be some very good reasons why they do so.
Its because we are thick and stupid, and want to waste our time! Better add this was a joke reply, plenty of good guys out there!
Quote by fabio We like single males - bloody hell if I didn't have a partner I'd be one too. I dont like it when looking on profiles you see the ***NO SINGLE MALES WANTED DO YOU UNDERSTAND*** type phrases you find in the profile description area thingy. Why on earth not just a simple - thank you for looking at our profile but we are not lookin at present. There is far too much issue made by couples regarding not wanting single males. especially when a lot of the time I believe its the male part of a couple that takes issue. Well he is lucky as am I to be one part of a swinging couple. BTW we do enjoy the company of single guys - as with all people some are arseholes most are decent.
Have to say that is one of my biggest pet peeves! it borders on being really rude and condesending ,so when a couple approaches me and with that in there profile, I point it out... and then say thank you but no thank you. yes there are loads of single men here, and yes they can be arses at times, but i've seen as many couples with as bad an attitude if i judged all couples on the ones that had stood me up you'd all be rightly annoyed..... I doubt the thread will get thru to those who do it.. but I say thank you all the same I hold my hands up & say this is what we had in our profile ops: Until reading this I had not thought about how single males may feel. sorry guys :oops: I think we put it up after so many pms In edit I have now changed this on our profile
midsprincess thank you for putting up this thread I thought here we go another single male knocking thread but then I saw you'd put it up and I knew it'd be a for rather than against Here's to all us sincere single guys, world peace and free chocolate for all!
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