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Quote by H-x
Thanks Peanut, although I must say I favour the independant retailer.
H.x

I'm adaptable... so long as the have either hazelnut or cinnamon syrup wink
It's the company that counts (especially if they're an accountant... <rimshot>).
Quote by Firelizard
I find it awful when you build what you thought was a friendship with someone only to find out later that they've just hung around because they were desperate to shag you.
I've been on the receiving end on several occasions, and its the friendship under false pretences that really saddens me. evil

Whats even worse is when you find that they only want ya verge rolleyes lol
Yeah I know what you mean Fire... Poor wincy's ripped out fireplace ain't much cop either!
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If playing with an established buddy I do not feel the need to be more than 'comfortable' around any other found play mate (ie male for mmf etc).
If playing as a single woman I want to feel a form of friendship, as in enjoy their company and hope they feel they are enjoying my company too. I think it is important to be able to laugh while intimate and enjoy the moment in a relaxed atmosphere, which can only be found with chemistry. So... in order to get that chemistry I prefer to meet in a public environment and have a platonic drink. That way the next time we meet I know pretty well we will both have a great time. The only exception to this is meet for a drink and move on to chams together.
I will make this pretty clear before meeting, if that is what the single guy is not looking for, I suggest they keep to couples and meeting buddies or singles that do not require this. Do the research and avoid disappointment.