Single Women at Clubs?

26 Jul 2008

Quote by venus68
Hmmm... I hope people don't think I sit in the corner like billy no mates now expecting people to come over to me.

Hi Billy.............. rolleyes

26 Jul 2008

Quote by markz
Hmmm... I hope people don't think I sit in the corner like billy no mates now expecting people to come over to me.

Hi Billy.............. rolleyes

LOL
how much does a polar bear weigh????
enough to break the ice! ;)

27 Jul 2008

next time i have a social at chams venus you can always come say hi to me.
i saw you in the bar but did not know it was you until you said in this tread that you had the nurse uniform on. so please come say hi to me im happy to introduce you to loads of nice people.

27 Jul 2008

Thanks for all the words of encouragement on this thread. It's actually been rather theraputic getting that off my chest and hearing some of the responses.
After last nights party I can say that I failed miserably at the being tactile thing, but at least now I have acknowedged it I can work on it and not hopefully come across quite as ice maidenish from now on.
I totally agree with what flower411 said...

OOOOOO no no no !!!
She can only say no !!
99% of the time she`s as nervous as fuck cos nobodies talkin to her !!
The guy that breaks the ice and says hello has gotta be her knight in shining armour
She may not fuck ya but at least you`ll have made a friend

Please guys, try it!
Thanks midprincess that would be good, although I'm still not sure who you were lol.
Vx

27 Jul 2008

Thanks for posting this thread Venus, I hink it's been useful for the guys to hear the perspective of the single woman as I'm sure most guys imagine that single women are being approached all the time and hesitant because of that. (if that makes sense!)

27 Jul 2008

Quote by DarkJedi
Thanks for posting this thread Venus, I hink it's been useful for the guys to hear the perspective of the single woman as I'm sure most guys imagine that single women are being approached all the time and hesitant because of that. (if that makes sense!)

Approach me in that mask and i'm yours xx

27 Jul 2008

Quote by DarkJedi
Thanks for posting this thread Venus, I hink it's been useful for the guys to hear the perspective of the single woman as I'm sure most guys imagine that single women are being approached all the time and hesitant because of that. (if that makes sense!)

I'll second that :thumbup:
Its been very informative boink

28 Jul 2008

Quote by venus68
Do not feel bad, I for one would talk to you. There is no need to look at my profile, I do not fall into your requirements. Then again, if I liked you, I could always try.
Now I know this could be a bit vanilla, and I know you do not wish to do all the running, but try some natural contact. Remove non-existent hair from his shoulder, in short, show it is OK the make a move. Give the guy an opening .
Remember what you see as waiting others may see as aloof, or uninterested.
Travis

Hi Travis,
I think you might have me there. I'm not naturally tactile, comes with not getting hugs as a child. I find that really hard to do. Maybe I need to get rid of some deamons first. I have to admit there was a point on that night where I new the guy I was talking to was willing me to touch his cock while we were sat near the bar. My friend was happily touching his leg and his cock, but I couldn't do it.
Actually I think you have just hit the nail on the head with me.
I think I feel sadder now sad

because that is not easy to change after 39 years.
I'm going to a private party tonight. I'll see if I can go out of my comfort zone and see what happens.
Vx
Venus, I have something for you to try.
Before you go out decide what you are going to do, that you have never done before. Set a time by which you are going to do it. Then hunt down a willing victim, and do it. Do not except excuses from yourself, just do it.
A long time ago, when I was young, I was sat with a young lady. We were just chatting. We were chatting, I was thinking. Then there was this fast movement, her head came at me. I opened my mouth, our teeth clashed. My hands where up her top...I stopped think, we just did it.
What I am saying is it took one move from her to stop me thinking. Even if your move does not start something like that, you have at least done something you want to do. Even if it is only a place to move on from the next time.
Travis

28 Jul 2008

Quote by venus68
Thanks for posting this thread Venus, I hink it's been useful for the guys to hear the perspective of the single woman as I'm sure most guys imagine that single women are being approached all the time and hesitant because of that. (if that makes sense!)

Approach me in that mask and i'm yours xx
I have many masks, does it have to be this one? :-)

2 Aug 2008

i go to chams as a single female and i have to say i totally agree with you, men never come over and talk to me unless they know me or im on the roof chatting in a group, am i a minger or are they just nervous i have no idea lol but if i do go into a play room they swamp round like flies round s**t :shock: i personally think men just can't be arsed to make the effort and would sooner just follow you about till you get on your back